|Finding the Thanks to Give.|
I've started this article three times now and stopped in frustration and confusion each time. Starting with how hard it can be to eat healthily during the holidays. How bad sugar is for us, and how ubiquitous during the holidays. That staying on an even keel this time of year requires us to radically take responsibility for our lives. How we can feel out of sync with the culture when we change how we eat to take better care of our health.
All of which is true. But it was all coming through my head, and my heart wants to write this one.
What can help us survive the holidays with our mental and physical health intact?
Really celebrating the HolyDays, rather than the holi-daze.
Let's remember what we're here for. The year is winding down into the dark times. Our bodies are asking for more sleep, warm food, cuddling with our loved ones. Can you feel it? As Mary Oliver puts it '... let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.'
Sometimes we can interpret that as certain types of food or other comforts, but what are these comforts representing? Often they are replacing more basic needs that we may have lost touch with. The need for touch. The need for story time with our community. The need for quiet and reverence. The need for intimacy. Not sex. Intimacy. The need to cry and laugh as a release for the tensions built up in this stressful world we live in.
The constant focus on food and drink at gatherings and giftings this time of year is natural. We break bread together.
Those of us who get sick when we eat bread need to find a different way of celebrating the Holy times with our communities. The rituals themselves are not important, rather the intention that they serve.
Love. Gratitude. Light. Inclusion. Warmth. Reverence. Gifting. Sharing. Reconnecting. Honoring endings. Celebrating beginnings.
Nowhere in there is food per se. The food was always just a means to an end. A breaking of bread as a metaphor for partaking of nourishment with loved ones. The real nourishment? Love. Gratitude. Light. Inclusion. Warmth. Reverence. Gifting. Sharing. Reconnecting. Honoring endings. Celebrating beginnings.
As you approach the various celebrations you choose to attend this season, ask yourself if they nourish you. If the answer is no, ask yourself what you could do to find the nourishment that is there for you? Where are the deeper threads of meaning in your community gatherings? Find those threads. Hold them gently and firmly.
If you find you are not attending celebrations, and feeling isolated, find a public celebration or two. Go. Be with people, and know you are human. We are tribal.
And when you are alone, which we all are from time to time, let yourself come to quiet. Allow the busy-ness to subside for awhile. Light a candle. Seek the deeper thrum of the chords of your life.
As these threads of meaning become more important in your world, the gluten, dairy, or desserts may become less important. See what it's like to keep your attention on connection with people and meaning, and let the food be an enjoyable after thought. Consciously and wisely approached.
Because I love it, I leave you with the whole poem.
You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
For a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about your despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting --
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.
For more ideas of how to make your celebrations meaningful, please read my dear friend LaSara's post on ways to be with the consumerism that represents much of the holidays these days.
Guided meditation and discussion
From the Practical to the Mystical
Learning to trust intuitive knowing about our lives and our bodies
Finding our depth in the holidays: can we stay grounded and healthy in the midst of the mad rush?
Sunday, December 5th, 4 - 5:30 pm
Fee: by donation
This is a first Sundays monthly event
HOLIDAY PALEO POTLUCK
Finally, a holiday party where you can eat and enjoy the food without paying for it later!
Bring your favorite low carb, grain-free dish.
Sunday, December 12th, 11 am - 2 pm
Fee: one potluck dish to share
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Please note, there will be no Second Saturdays class offered in December
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| Recipe: Guilt-Free White Chocolate|
This is the white version of the Chocolate 'Ice Cubes' from last month. Gluten and dairy-free, and low carb. Appropriate for candida, diabetes and GAPS diet protocols.
- 3/4 cup coconut butter
- 1/3 cup cocoa butter, gently melted (if cocoa butter is not available, ghee, butter, coconut oil, or a mixture of these may be substituted. Keep refrigerated if using these ingredients.)
- 15 - 30 drops alcohol-free stevia extract, or to taste
- 1/2 tsp of alcohol-free vanilla extract
- a pinch of good quality sea salt
Add all the other ingredients and pulse the food processor until well incorporated.
Spread the mixture into ice cube trays, and place into the freezer until solid. Pop out and enjoy!
These should stay solid at room temperature, unless the weather is warm. Keep refrigerated on hot summer days.