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In This Issue
Prom Tips
In the News
Workshops
Sexting and Internet Safety

Disturbing Messages Get Some Teens in Trouble
Connect with Your Kids NH Attorney General's Office





 

Safe Homes Network News
COMMUNITY ALLIANCE FOR TEEN SAFETY

May 2009

Dear Safe Homes Parents,

The school year is almost over.  Prom and graduation season are upon us. CATS invites you to use the resources on our website regarding issues facing teens and families so that you can keep your teen safe.  As always, please contact us with questions and suggestions.

Best regards,

Sue Centner, Director

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Prom Tips

You have the power to positively influence your teen's decisions!
♦ Communicate - Talk about prom plans in advance. Discuss how they will deal with any situations that may rise like being offered alcohol, going to a pre or post prom party where alcohol is present, and having a driver who may be using alcohol and/or other drugs.
♦ Talk with your child about the dangers of underage drinking. Make sure that he/she understands the dangers of drinking and driving, accidents and other issues with impairment, and alcohol poisoning.
♦ Be a good role model. Show your teen that you can enjoy social events without alcohol.
♦ Disapprove of underage drinking and assist your teen in ways to decline offers to drink or use other drugs.
♦ Reinforce that underage drinking is against the law. Make sure they also understand the NH Party Host Law which makes it a crime to host a party in which there is underage alcohol use. Penalties of up to $2000 fine and a year in jail.
♦ Supervise your child, and other youth in your home. Make sure that the parents of your teen's friends are doing the same!
♦ Recognize problem behavior and seek help when necessary.

Prom: Dance, Don't Chance. MA Executive Office of Public Safety and Security Share with your teens.

Leadership to Keep Children Alcohol Free
http://www.alcoholfreechildren.org/en/audiences/parents.cfm


Study: Teens Talk More About Drugs with Parents

Originally published in the Salem Observer 3/11/09

A new nationwide study that indicates teens have become more likely to talk to adults about drug use, but educators are not letting up when it comes to opening up dialogue between students and their parents.

According to the New Hampshire Department of Health and Human Services, which released the 2008 Partnership Attitude Tracking study's findings last month, 37 percent of teenagers surveyed nationwide reported that they had "learned a lot" from their parents about the negative impact of drug use.

With a 16 percent increase over the 2007 study results, this is the first major increase in that area since the study began 20 years ago.

Superintendent Michael Delahanty called the results of the study heartening, but he said parents are still timid about raising the subject with their children.

"Parents don't need to talk about the health risks or consequences about what would happen down the road, but the more immediate consequences, like the legal ramifications or a drop in inhibitions. There is more risky behavior (with drug use), like unsafe sex," Delahanty said. "With honest conversation, then the potential for those behaviors is diminished."

Delahanty believes it is the high profile reports of the consequences of drug and alcohol abuse among teenagers and adolescents, as well as their parents, that has sparked any increase in dialogue. He pointed to incidents like the recent death of a 16-year-old Massachusetts girl following an all night party as having brought home the consequences of drug abuse to parents.

"Any parent of any high school student ought to be having conversations with their children about what choices they're going to make," he said. "If (the study data) is true, I think it's a consequence of the attention that's been brought to the overall problem and attention to children who might face those consequences."

The Salem Youth Committee, of which Delahanty is a member, has spearheaded efforts over the past several years to break down the wall between teens, adolescents and their parents when it comes to illegal drug use and alcohol consumption. The committee has created a Safe Homes program that encourages parents to host and chaperone teenage parties and report suspected alcohol or substance abuse to one another.

The committee is also planning to release a public service videotape to raise awareness of the potential life-altering consequences of teenage drug use among parents. Delahanty hopes the campaign will dispel the myth that teenage drinking and drug use is a right of passage.

"(Some parents) have a 'boys will be boys' outlook or a 'girls will be girls' outlook or are afraid their children's social status will diminish if they're too strict about their children's alcohol use and so might turn a blind eye," Delahanty said. "We set our mission to minimize the acceptance of this because it is not OK and there are life-altering consequences to this type of behavior."

No Drinking Weekend in Burlington, MA

Originally published in the Boston Globe 4/26/09

Residents are being asked to do without alcohol Friday through next Sunday. At the request of the Burlington Drug and Alcohol Task Force, selectmen recently declared May 1-3 Alcohol Free Weekend in town. Held just before prom and graduation season, it is intended to show young people "that you don't need alcohol on the weekends to have fun," said Marilyn Belmonte, a substance-abuse specialist and cochairwoman of the task force. The observance kicks off from 5 to 7 p.m. Friday evening with an alcohol-free community celebration on the common. Also at the task force's request, selectmen proclaimed May 3-9 Drug and Alcohol Awareness Week. The task force asks parents to use the week to talk to their children about the risks of alcohol and drug use. - John Laidler
 
Workshops at the Upper Room
www.urteachers.org

Registration is limited so please call now to reserve your space!
Contact: Cynthia Marshall
437-8477 Ext.18, cmarshall@urteachers.org

*Payment plans as low as $5per week with registration and deposit at least three weeks in advance Certificate of completion provided at the end of course.
 
Active Parenting of 5-12 Year-Olds
Be the best parent you can be!

Even under the best of circumstances parenting can be a real challenge today. While we don't pretend to have all of the answers, we do have sound and practical information about parenting that we would like to share with you - more tools for your "parenting toolbox" on how to handle situations with your child.

Mondays - June 22nd, 29th, 6th, 13th, 20th and 27th
7:00-8:30pm
*$40 fee -No childcare available

"Side by Side Cooking Class"
Learn some new cooking techniques and fun nutritious recipes with your child ages 5-12.
Tuesdays July7, 14, 21 and 28 from10 am to12 pm.
Must be able to make all 4 classes and meet eligibility requirements.
Pre-registration is required. Class is Free. No childcare is available.
Brought to you by Operation Frontline and UNH Cooperative Extension.

UR Parents Support Group
Ongoing parent support group for confronting challenging teen issues.
Every Tuesday night 6:30-7:30 - Free
 
Families on the Go (FOG) 
Geared for families with young children.
Free workshops every Wed from 10:00-11:30 AM. 
Free childcare and kid friendly snacks provided. 

Community Alliance for Teen Safety is a nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization devoted to substance abuse prevention and the reduction of teen risk behaviors. Our mission is to promote safe habits for all youth by increasing awareness of high-risk behaviors, encouraging healthy choices, and fostering community alliances in Chester, Derry, Hampstead, Londonderry, Salem and Windham.

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