Author of the Inspiring Novel - We B. Family
Where Did You Leave Your Peace?
Sister, may I ask you something? I mean can we talk? As I look around at women today, I see struggle. Pain. Disappointment. Regret. Unforgiveness. Blame. This somewhat bothers me.
I am bothered because as a little boy I knew that everything was okay when Momma had peace. Dad could come in yelling or complaining about whatever (bills, bad times, his job, etc.), but nothing mattered when Momma had peace. She set the tone for the entire home.
No matter what the situation, your attitude sets the atmosphere. You heard the old saying "If Momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy." Well, that plays true because the woman definitely holds the thermostat.
The enemy uses struggle and pain because he is on a mission to fill women with these negative emotions. He does this because he understands this principle, "You can only overflow with what you are filled with." Therefore, if you are filled with struggle, what will come out? Struggle. If you are filled with pain, what will seep through? Pain.
One of the tricks of the enemy is to isolate and separate, or as Jacqueline so eloquently puts it, keep us from abiding. When we are not abiding, we invite struggle to come in and reside. Have you ever tried to go against a strong wind? What happened? You found yourself struggling. In the struggle, you may have lost some things. Your hair and clothing were in disarray and most likely; this changed your entire attitude about the day.
What would have happened if you went in the same direction with the wind? You would not have to exert a lot of energy because you would allow the wind's force to get you where you are going. When you are abiding, you are not struggling. You allow the force and efforts of God to help you get where you are going.
Today, I want to ask you, "When was the last time you had peace?" You can begin taking steps to reclaim your peace by forgiving that one who hurt you. Perhaps you could sell that car you are struggling to pay for. Maybe, letting go of a dead relationship would get you back to that place of peace. However, you are required to take action for you. Exercise your faith today by reclaiming peace and balance in your life.
Until next time ...