Having it all in life is everyone's dream.  Yet making our dreams reality is quite different from the fantasies in our heads.  In my fantasies, my world is perfect. I create what I want, when I want. In the real world I have to wait and modify my behavior based on external feedback.  Something else we don't get in our fantasies is uncooperative people and circumstances.  It seems to take forever to get all the things when it comes to the now reality. This can leave us frustrated if we don't relax a bit and account for a bit of time travel in our head.  When it comes to realistically saying how long something is going to take, most of us will say, I think I can have that in about 5 minutes.

 

The self help gurus and images of super heroes don't really help much to relax us into small bite size achievable goals. The message always seems to be that we can have everything and we can have it now.

 

Overwhelmed by this all, we throw up our hands, give up and say, see.. I messed that up yet again. The trick to all of this as I see it, is to raise the level of intensity.  Raise the bar of our mind power.  We don't have to back down from what we want, we just need to be a little more flexible as to "when" we get it. If we persist, eventually as those gurus say we CAN have it all.  I think they just left out the part of how long it is going to take.