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Hello,
I am Dr. Richard Blonna, the editor of the Healthy Stress Newsletter. I am a nationally certified Coach (CPC), Counselor (NCC), and Health Education Specialist (CHES) with over 25 years of experience helping people just like you manage their stress.
I am the author of a best-selling college textbook and two self-help books in the field of stress management.
Besides teaching stress management in college I work with people at-a-distance using telephone and web-based instruction and coaching.
In addition to stress management I specialize in motivational coaching; helping people get unstuck and live their lives based on their values, goals, and dreams.
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| Volume # 2010, Issue # 3 |
March/2010 |
Dear Subscriber,
This month I'll continue with my brief overview of Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT). For a more detailed description of this material pick up a copy of my book; Stress Less, Live More; How Acceptance and Commitment Therapy can Help you Live a Busy yet Balanced Life (New Harbinger Publications). It should hit the bookstores on April 1st.
I hope you enjoy my free newsletter and podcast. I look forward to helping you learn how to manage your stress and turn your potential stressors into challenges!
Sincerely,
Dr. Richard Blonna |
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| ACT and Relational Frame Theory (RFT) |
As I mentioned last month, Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) is a form of psychotherapy based on cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) and relational frame therapy (RFT). RFT has provided new evidence regarding how your brain processes stressful and other information.
Steven Hayes and his colleagues (2001) at the University of Nevada at Reno found that when you learn something, you learn it in relation to other things specific to that time and place. This implies that the context of your learning is as important as the content of it. For example, your current thoughts, emotions, and behavior about a potential stressor are related to their original frames of reference (or what Relational Frame theorists call relational frame") from your past in which you initially learned about this stressor. The way you respond to this current potential stressor can be influencedentirely by your brain's ability to use information from that original frame of reference.
Your mind uses information from previous relational frames as the basis for assessing the threat posed by current potential stressors. In addition, your mind can carry this one step further and use the same previous information to jump ahead and project an infinite number of future situations involving this and similar potential stressors. Your mind's ability to use the past and present to jump ahead and anticipate future problems is the basis for a lot of your worry and anxiety.
RFT has found that your brain is a 24/7 thinking and feeling machine that always has your past frames of reference operating in the background of your brain. Like a computer, your brain constantly processes information and is capable of running multiple programs at the same time. These "programs" are your thoughts, personal scripts (sub-vocal story lines), mental images (internal pictures you attach to the scripts), and emotions. Like the operating system or other programs on your computer's hard drive, your programs (your thoughts, personal scripts, mental images, and emotions) run in the background without you even realizing they're on.
Like viruses that invade your computer, your unhelpful programs (illogical thoughts and negative unhelpful self-talk) can corrupt your attempts to make sense of potential stressors. When this happens your mental processing is inefficient and unhelpful, and your brain (like your computer processor) freezes up and doesn't function. You've probably noticed, for example, that when you're really stressed, you just can't seem to think clearly, you feel jittery and tongued-tied, and sometimes you just shut down.
Next month we'll continue this discussion with a closer look at unhelpful thoughts, personal scripts, mental images, and emotions. |
| StressBuster Tip # 7 |
ACT Activity: My Mind is Telling Me...
A quick tip to help you start accepting the way your mind works when dealing with stressful thoughts, personal scripts, mental images, and emotions is to view it as your mind's actions instead of your actions. I don't want to imply that your mind is not part of you, it is. An ACT view however takes the position that you are more than just these stressful thoughts, personal scripts, mental images, and emotions. You are the vessel that houses these thoughts, they are not you.
Purpose:
The purpose of this activity is to help you accept, rather than fight the unhelpful messages your mind tells you about potential stressors. You don't have to feel personally responsible for your mind's unhelpful activity. It is just doing what it does best, processing information 24/7.
Instructions:
The next time you're having painful, unhelpful thoughts and emotions that contribute to your stress do the following:
1. Stop and say, There goes my mind again creating unhelpful, stressful thoughts, personal scripts, mental images, and emotions.
2. Don't try to control, avoid, or eliminate these thoughts and feelings.
3. Accept what your mind is telling you.
4. Tell yourself, I am much more than these thoughts. These thoughts are not helping me and they will pass if I stop focusing on them.
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