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Hello,

I am Dr. Richard Blonna, the editor of the Healthy Stress Newsletter. I am a nationally certified Coach (CPC), Counselor (NCC), and Health Education Specialist (CHES) with over 25 years of experience helping people just like you manage their stress.
 
I am the author of a best-selling college textbook and two self-help books in the field of stress management.
 
Besides teaching stress management in college I work with people at-a-distance using telephone and web-based instruction and coaching. 
 
In addition to stress management I specialize in motivational coaching; helping people get unstuck and live their lives based on their values, goals, and dreams.
 
What's New?
Watch for the release of my new book, Stress Less, Live More: How Acceptance and Committment Therapy can Help You Live a Busy But Balanced Life. The book is being published by New Harbinger Publications and will be released  in March of 2010
 
Volume # 2009, Issue # 3 September/2009
 
Dear Subscriber,

Welcome to the Healthy Stress Newsletter. Every month I will bring you information and tips about managing your stress.
 
Enjoy my free newsletter and podcast. I look forward to helping you learn how to manage your stress and turn your potential stressors into challenges!
 
Sincerely,
 
Dr. Richard Blonna
 
Assessment Matters
 
Your Personal Stress Profile
 
Last month I discussed the power of words and language and gave you a framework for assessing your potential stressors using a stressor journal. This month I'll give you a similar framework for assessing your use of time. The information from  these two journals create what I call your personal stress profile.
 
I have clients and students keep these journals for at least seven weeks. After keeping your stressor and time journals for seven weeks you'll have all of the data you need to create your personal stress profile.
 
The reason it is important for you to generate this profile is because the information it is based on does not come out of a book, it comes from your journals. Your stress profile forms the foundation of your personal stress management plan. In order for any stress management plan to work it must be taiolred to your personal stressors and your use of time.
 
I think it is insulting for educators, counselors and coaches to give students and clients cookie-cutter stress management plans that are generic and are supposed to work for everyone the same way.
Such plans are doomed to fail because everyone is different. In order for you to manage your stress and your use of time effectively you need techniques and strategies that work for you, based on your personality, your stressors, and your use of time. 
 
The following activity, My Personal Time Journal, will provide a framework for you to assess your use of time.
     
 
StressBuster Tip # 3
 
Keeping a Personal Time Journal
 
Learning how to use your time more efficiently begins with assessing how you presently use it. As you will see in coming newsletters, time management revolves around how efficiently you use your time to meet your goals. I can't tell you the best way to use your time. Only you can decide if you are using it efficiently.
 
In order to do this you need to start paying attention to exactly how you currently spend your time. Keep this journal every day for the next seven weeks. 
 
Instructions:

1. You can keep this journal in a lined spiral notebook, or on your computer using a variety of different types of software

2. Each day you will use 48 lines in the notebook. Each line can represent one, 30 minute segment of your day.

3. Put the day and the date at the top of each 48 line segment.

4. Put the time at the beginning of each line. I suggest you start at 12:00 midnight and add 30 minutes to that for the next line and each subsequent line (12:30am, 1:00am, 1:30am etc.).

5. At the end of each line make two columns (yes and no columns). These refer to whether or not you felt that you used that time segment efficiently (yes) or inefficiently (no).

6. Every day fill out a new block of 48 lines.

7. At the end of seven weeks you will have 49 daily sheets of data to examine.

8. On each line list the activities you engaged in during that time period (sleeping, getting ready for work, waiting for the kid's school bus etc.). If you are engaged in continuous activity (like sleeping) for several 30 minute segments use ditto marks on the lines following your initial notation of the activity.

9. At the end of the line check off whether or not you used the time efficiently.

10. Spend 10-15 minutes at the end of the week examining your time journals and assessing where you used your time efficiently and inefficiently. Look for patterns and trends in your use of time. You will use this information at the end of seven weeks to help you decide how you can take steps to use your time more efficiently.

Example: 9/26/09   
                         
Time                  Activity                         Yes/No
12:00am             sleeping                          yes          12:30am                  "                                 "
  1:00am                  "                                 "
  1:30am                  "                                 "
  2:00am                  "                                 "
  2:30am                  "                                 "
  3:00am                  "                                 "
  3:30am                  "                                 "
  4:00am                  "                                 "
  4:30am                  "                                 "
  5:00am                  "                                 "
  5:30am             woke up, shower,
                          brush teeth                      yes
  6:00am             ate breakfast                     "
  6:30am             got dressed, left for                  
                          work                                "
  7:00am             arrived at work                  "
  7:30am             check personal web         no
                          pages
  8:00am             sent personal e-mails         " 
  8:30am             work (accounting)           yes
  9:00am                    "                                "
  9:30am                    "                                "
10:00am              coffee break                     "
10:30am              work                                "
11:00am                    "                                "
11:30am                    "                                "
12:00pm              lunch (went for walk)        "
12:30pm                   "                                 "
  1:00pm                  " (ate donut & coffee)  no
  1:30pm              gossip in lunch room        "
  2:00pm              work                               yes
  2:30pm                  "                                  "
  3:00pm                  "                                  "
  3:30pm                  "                                  "     
  4:00pm                  "                                  "
  4:30pm               left work, drive home       "
  5:00pm               read newspaper, relaxed  yes
  5:30pm               mowed lawn                    "
  6:00pm               ate dinner with family       "
  6:30pm                  "                                  "
  7:00pm               went for walk with wife    "
  7:30pm                  "                                  "
  8:00pm               helped daughter with hw  "
  8:30pm                  "                                  "
  9:00pm               watched TV                    "
  9:30pm                  "                                  "
10:00pm                  "                                  "
10:30pm                  "                                  "
11:00pm                  "                                  "
11:30pm                went to sleep                  "
           
While it may seem tedious to keep this journal every day for seven weeks it will give you insight into how you spend your time. It is one thing to think about how you use your time and another thing to actually see it on paper. People are often surprised by the actual chunks of time they devote to certain activities. These seem to jump off the page at them.
 
Spend 10-15 minutes at the end of the week examining your time journals and assessing where you used your time efficiently and inefficiently. You can use this information at the end of seven weeks to help you decide which activities contribute to your efficient use of time and those that rob you of precious time and make it hard to reach your goals.

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Sincerely,
 
Dr.Richard Blonna