Healthystressdoctor.com
Healthy Stress Newsletter
IN THIS ISSUE
What is Stress?
StressBuster Tip # 1
JOIN OUR LIST
Join Our Mailing List
Meet Dr. Blonna
headshot of me in yard
Hello,

I am Dr. Richard Blonna, the editor of the Healthy Stress Newsletter. I am a nationally certified Coach (CPC), Counselor (NCC), and Health Education Specialist (CHES) with over 25 years of experience helping people just like you manage their stress.
 
I am the author of a best-selling college textbook and two self-help books in the field of stress management.
 
Besides teaching stress management in college I work with people at-a-distance using telephone and web-based instruction and coaching. 
 
In addition to stress management I specialize in motivational coaching; helping people get unstuck and live their lives based on their values, goals, and dreams.
 
What's New?
Watch for the release of my new book, Stress Less, Live More: How Acceptance and Committment Therapy can Help You Live a Busy But Balanced Life. The book is being published by New Harbinger Publications and will be released  in March of 2010
 
Volume # 2009, Issue # 1 July/2009
 
Dear Subscriber,

Welcome to the Healthy Stress Newsletter. Every month I will bring you information and tips about managing your stress.
 
Enjoy my free newsletter and podcast. I look forward to helping you learn how to manage your stress and turn your potential stressors into challenges!
 
Sincerely,
 
Dr. Richard Blonna
 
What is Stress?
 
 A New Way to Define Stress
 
In my college textbook, Coping with Stress in a Changing World (2007), I define stress as "a holistic transaction between an individual and a potential stressor resulting in a stress response."
 
The three key components of this definition (holistic, transaction, potential stressor, and stress response) are drawn from the fields of health, psychology, and physiology respectively. Each field represents a rich historical tradition of theory and practice that's contributed to the most current understanding of stress and how to manage it
 
A holistic transaction combines elements of holistic health and a transactional view of stress. The term holistic comes from holistic health, a multifaceted way of viewing health that combines your physical, social, spiritual, intellectual, emotional, environmental, and occupational  wellbeing.

A transactional view of stress comes primarily from the work of psychologists Richard S. Lazarus and Suzanne Folkman (1984) . A stress transaction is assessment that goes on in your mind regarding how you view a potential stressor and your ability to cope with it once you're exposed to it. Once you're exposed to a potential stressor, your mind assesses two things: (1) whether the potential stressor is threatening to you, and (2) your ability to cope with it. If you feel threatened by and unable to cope with the potential stressor it transforms into an actual stressor.
 
Stress transactions do not occur in a vacuum. They are influenced by your overall level of health and wellness at the moment of exposure to a potential stressor. This is why I call it a holistic transaction.

 
A potential stressor is something, someone, or some situation that has the ability to threaten you. It's crucial that you realize that a stressor is really only a potential stressor until you feel threatened by it and unable to cope with it.

A stress response is a chain reaction of physiological events that occur in your body once you feel threatened by and unable to cope with a potential stressor. Once this happens, your brain sends messages throughout your body via nerve transmissions and hormones that switch on a complex response designed to mobilize energy to help you fight or flee from the stressor.

Defining stress as a holistic transaction between an individual and a potential stressor resulting in a stress response is an entirely new way of looking at stress. When you start to view stress this way, you'll no longer see it as something that just happens to you, and is beyond your ability to manage. Instead you'll begin to view your stress as something that has a lot to do with the messages you tell yourself about potential stressors and your ability to cope with them.
 
 
 
 
StressBuster Tip # 1
 
Start to Change the Way You think About Stressors
 
As you've just learned, stress is a transaction between you and a "potential stressor." This potential stressor becomes an actual stressor only if it is threatening and is beyond your ability to cope with. To accurately assess the threat and your ability to cope with it you've got to stop falling into what I call the "Universal Stressors" trap.
 
You fall into this trap when you buy into the fallacy that certain potential stressors are universally stressful for everyone under all circumstances. Rather than looking at potential stressors this way you need to start changing the way you think about them.

Take Control
 
1. Start labeling all stressors as "potential stressors." This subtle shift in language sets the stage for examining them more logically.
 
2. Ask yourself, "what exactly is threatening about this?" or " exactly do I stand to lose from this potential stressor?"

3. Ask yourself, "what coping resources can I use to manage this potential stressor and keep it from exerting its effects?"

4. Take a moment to re-examine the potential stressors and see if it still has the same stressful potential or if you have defused it by looking at it more logically.

5. If the potential stressor becomes an actual stressor, do something to try to manage it such as taking a few diaphragmatic breaths.
 
 
For more information about my stress management related products and services go to my website:
 
 
For my latest free podcast go to the link below: 
 
http://www.healthystressdoctor.com/podcasts.html
 
and click on the cast you want to view.
 
Sincerely,
 
Dr.Richard Blonna