December 2011

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Season's Greetings, friends,

 

For most of us, this is a hectic time of year. We are a nation of "busybodies," rushing to and from work, dashing to the grocery store, going from one meeting to another, shopping for holiday gifts, attending parties, and more. 

 

When we're the busiest, it's that much more important to stop, take inventory, and reflect on all of our blessings. Whenever you can, give yourself some quiet time each day. Make it a priority to stop whatever you're doing, shut down for a few minutes, and think of all the things you feel grateful for and let yourself really feel it.
 
We are human beings, not human doings. Stop "doing" for a few minutes each day and just "be." This is difficult for most of us.

Maybe you feel grateful that you have a wonderful job, that you work with people whom you like and admire, that you and your children are healthy and safe, or that you have a terrific marriage or partnership. Maybe you're grateful for the support you receive from a close friend or colleague. Maybe you feel grateful that you have heat or air-conditioning in your home, a comfortable bed, and a pantry full of food.

When you feel grateful it warms your heart and makes you want to share your emotional wealth with others through gestures of kindness or empathy.

I'm especially grateful that I get to wake up each day and do what I love. I agree with children's activist, Marian Wright Edelman, who once said, "I'm doing what I think I was put on this earth to do. And I'm really grateful to have something that I'm passionate about and that I think is profoundly important."

My hope is that you are doing what makes your heart sing and that you surround yourself with joy, laughter, and lots of love this holiday season.

With gratitude,

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Holiday Office Party Dos and Don'ts  

  

Office Party(TheDay.com) If your employer is hosting a holiday party this year, it may be a more modest affair than in years past in light of the economy. The parties aren't going to be as big this year -- but they will be more intimate. A smaller setting may put you closer to colleagues, thus magnifying any faux pas.

Use these tips to make sure you don't do or say the wrong thing in front of the right people. Read more.

Just Say 'No' To Office Holiday Obligations 

 

(Chicago Tribune) This is the time of year when you get that call from Aunt Vivian saying: "Hello dear, I just wanted to make sure I have your address right. I'll be sending my fruitcake!"

And you politely say: "Oh, great, Aunt Viv! It's a holiday tradition!"
    
Then the fruitcake comes, and you don't eat it because you know it tastes like feet. It sits around a few days, then you and the kids take it in the backyard and roll it around. A couple of squirrels nibble on it and die, and then you toss it in the trash. Read more.
 

Ask the Expert: When Shopping for Co-Worker, Consider This

 

Q: Dear Jacqueline, every year, my co-workers and I like to participate in an office gift exchange, yet I often wonder what to give to whom and how much to spend. How do I spread holiday cheer without alienating or offending someone?

A: Dealing with the holiday gift exchange at work can be tricky if you and your co-workers don't set guidelines in advance and abide by them. Here are some tips to consider:

Agree on a spending limit so no one overspends and runs the risk of looking like a show-off.

Make the gift exchange an optional activity so no one feels pressure to participate. Read more.  
   

 

 If you have a business etiquette question, please e-mail me. Your question may appear in a future issue of TheLedger.com.     

 
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Etiquette & Image Consultants' Retreat in Palm Beach, Florida 

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This unique event will be held in my home on March 9-10, 2012.   You will learn how to:   

 

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My friend, Kate Woodman, of Sharp Hill Designs has agreed to give away one of these gorgeous bags to one of my lucky e-newsletter readers.

 

Click here to enter the contest. 

 

Hurry! Contest ends at midnight Eastern time on December 16, 2011.  Good luck!  

     

 
Inspiring Video of the Month  
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May all your holiday wishes come true!  
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In This Issue
Holiday Office Party Dos and Dont's
Just Say 'No' To Office Holiday Obligations
Ask the Expert: When Shopping for Co-Worker, Consider This
Etiquette & Image Consultants' Retreat
Inspiring Video of the Month
Did You Know?  
  

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December 23, 2011 is National Regifting Day!   

 

According to a 2010 survey conducted by Money Management International, 58 percent of respondents say they regift or are considering doing so.

 

Click here for some regifting etiquette tips.

 

 

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Learn more about my Mastermind Group Coaching Program kicking off in January! The Consultants Connection is the world's first mastermind group for etiquette and image consultants. One-hour monthly calls focus on a new topic to help you build your business and master the right mindset to encourage and support you in achieving your career goals. Interested in learning more or signing up? 

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Sign up before December 31, 2011 and receive two extra months at no charge!  

 

Come Hear Me Speak In Person 
 

I always love seeing old friends and meeting new ones, so if you're in the area stop by and hear me speak at one of these events:  

 

January 12, 2012 

West Palm Beach Public Library

West Palm Beach, FL 

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January 25, 2012 

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The Colony Hotel  

Palm Beach, FL

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February 8, 2012 

American Business Women's Assn.

Doubletree Hotel

North Palm Beach, FL

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May 17-20, 2012 

Association of Image Consultants International

AICI Conference  

Honolulu, HI

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