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BeWhoUR:  UrBestSelf
Be-Who-You-Are:  Your-Best-Self
January 2010--Vol 6, No 1
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Here are some coaching tips for being 'at your best self."
  • You have two ears and one mouth. If you use them proportinately, you will learn more in listening than you ever will in talking.  
  • Ask questions.  Make them the kind that can't be answered with 'yes' or 'no' and you will help others learn as well.
Stop your negative mental chatter and choose the best of who you are. Use this silicone
wristband, debossed with bewhour@urbestself.com (Reads: be-who-you-are-at-your-best-self) and choose the best of your qualities.  Check out the website www.urbestself.com for the wristband and suggestions on how to use this supporting structure.
 
What brings out the best in you?  Share your ideas and suggestions so others can benefit from what you've figured out.  Send an email to Marti@BusinessEnergetix.com and with your permission, we'll share it with the readers of this ezine.
miz biz wizChloe's Chronicles

Meet Chloe, Business Energetix's Business Wizard; we call her MizBizWiz.  When Chloe joined us, we didn't realize the depth of her talents for noticing how stuff works but she has dazzled and amazed us with her ability to relate her observations to common business issues. Read on to see how she serves as a constant source of instruction and inspiration for exploring the challenges of management.

Happy 2010!  This is going to be a great year for us; I just feel it! 

 

How are you doing with those New Year's resolutions, now that we're a couple weeks into the year?  They always sound good before it's time to actually start changing habits and behaviors and then the hard work starts.

 

I have to play nicer this year and stop scaring people.  It's hard 'cause there are times when I'm on my walk and another dog comes by and I just want to let them know that I'm the alpha dog.  I don't mean to be difficult, but I do want to make my position clear-I am the leader and I don't want to be challenged on that point.

 

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Book Notes
 

Your Brain at Work

 

by David Rock

 

With this book, Rock has written an owner's manual for the human brain.  Tapping into current neuro-scientific research, Rock uses the power of the story to help readers understand how the brain responds to the events of our everyday lives, including solving problems and making decisions, stress and pressure, collaborating with others and facilitating change.

 

Rock explains several recent research discoveries about the human brain.  When we understand our own brain, Rock contends, we are better able to use it powerfully and productively. 

 

One powerful example of optimizing our brainpower comes from research findings on our currently popular process of multi-tasking.  When we multi-task, we work against our brains preference, not with it.  The prefrontal cortex, that region of the brain responsible for thinking things through, can handle only one to four ideas at a time and consumes large quantities of metabolic resources, the fuel in the blood stream.  "Memory starts to degrade when you try to hold more than one idea in mind." (Page 31) Remember that the next time you try to participate in a conference call and reply to emails at the same time-one of the tasks will suffer.  "While you can hold several chunks of information in mind at once, you can't perform more than one conscious process at a time with these chunks without impacting performance." (Page 33)  To use the brain most effectively, Rock suggests that we prioritize our tasks and schedule those demanding the most conscious attention for the times when we have the highest energy. 

 

Simplify information by focusing on an idea's salient elements, rather than trying to retain all the detail.  Write the details down so they don't take precious brain resources to hold in place. 

 
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The Last Word

"There must be more to life than having everything."  

Maurice Sendak, author-Where the Wild Things Are


All the BEST,
Marti Benjamin, MBA, Professional Certified Coach, Certified Career Management Coach
Karri Benjamin, MBA
Chloe, MizBizWiz

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