Marti Benjamin  

  April 2009
  Volume: 5
 Issue: 4
How Do They Do That?
In this column, I offer some of the tools and structures that Business Energetix-Success Coaching clients have found useful, helping them to achieve an important goal.  Maybe they will support you in staying focused on what's most important right now.
  • Ask for the help you need:  asking for help is not a sign of weakness or incompetence; that's just a story we often tell ourselves.  There are things you have to do for yourself but not necessarily by yourself. 
  • Offer help:  notice when those around you need help and offer your assistance.  The good feeling in helping someone comes from brain hormones that are trigged by connecting with another.  When you help, you are helped.
  • Stop the Negative Mental Chatter and choose the best of who you are. Use this silicone wristband, debossed with bewhour@urbestself.com (Reads: be-who-you-are-at-your-best-self) and choose the best of your qualities.  Check out the website www.urbestself.com for the wristband and suggestions on how to use this supporting structure.
  • How do YOU do it? What tools, structures and strategies have you used?  Send an email to marti@BusinessEnergetix.com and tell me what has worked for you and, with your permission, I will share it with the other readers of this ezine. There are others waiting to learn from your success!


Your Trust Account

By: Marti Benjamin, MBA, Professional Certified Coach
 
Wouldn't it be great right now to have a big trust account-a large sum of money or property held by someone else, intended solely for your benefit?  Most of us are not fortunate enough to be the beneficiaries of a fat savings account created by a rich relative, but we all do have a trust account.  It is the repository of belief others hold for us.
 
Business relationships are built on a foundation of trust...or lack thereof.  Think about whom you choose to do business with and refer others to; it's probably people you like and trust.  If the trust you placed with a business has been violated, you have probably moved on, maybe asking others who they trust for the product or service you want.
 
Your trust account is constantly changing.  As a leader in business, your every action is scrutinized and evaluated.  Your colleagues and employees are watching for signs of trouble; your competitors and customers are wondering if you will be around for the long haul.  You may even be questioning your plans and options and wondering if you can believe in yourself. 
 
As you evaluate your business position and plan, consider how you can add to your trust account among your key stakeholders, those that are most interested in seeing you succeed. 
 
Building Trust with Employees and Direct Reports
Smart businesses realize that building an engaged workforce is key to their success, in good times and bad.  These companies work at being honest and transparent with their employees, sharing operating data and educating the workforce as to the impact each individual has on the company's success.  They recognize that employees want to be cared about as people, not just company functionaries.
 
Job insecurity and fear about the economy make transparency even more significant.  When true and factual information is not available to employees, the void is filled by rumor, innuendo and fear-fueled speculation.  That information is demoralizing and distracting at best, destructive and undermining in most cases.
 
You may be unable to tell it all but talking about your business plans shows respect and concern for those who are also invested in the company's success.  Be as positive and encouraging as possible, without sacrificing the truth.  Let employees and direct reports know how they can have a positive impact on the business in the current situation.
 
The Gallup Organization's research shows that recognition and praise is a key element of great managing (Wagner 2006). As employees and managers are asked to accomplish more with fewer resources, recognizing and acknowledging their contributions and sacrifices helps build a trusting relationship.
 
Building Trust with Your Customers
Your customers are impacted by the current economic situation and searching for ways to reduce their cost, increase their revenue and reduce their risk.  Where do you fit into their current plan?  Have you asked them?
 
Many businesses are busy talking at their customers right now with letters, post cards, direct mail, coupons and flyers, but few are asking questions and really listening.  Rather than assuming that you understand what your customers are experiencing, ask them.  Learn about their particular challenges and opportunities.  Their experience may be different in some significant way that is not obvious on the surface and different than you assumed. 

 Listening to customers allows you to identify problems you can solve for them with your existing products/services or a new offering.  One business owner I know is taking the time to sit down with her customers and listen to their needs and challenges.  She is discovering they didn't know she could solve problems they were facing above and beyond the services they had been purchasing.  She is increasing sales among existing customers by hearing their story and offering a solution they had not considered.

Building Trust with Your Market
In listening to your existing customers, you will also deepen your understanding of the market in which you are most likely to enjoy a competitive advantage.  Understand what makes you different and advantageous in the eye of your customer, not what you think they should like about you or the benefits that seem so obvious to you but the market doesn't seem to understand.
 
If you have not differentiated your product or service or identified your ideal customer, it will be more difficult to reach your customers.  It is your job to uncover and use the language that resonates with your ideal customer and to demonstrate to them how your offering solves a significant problem.  It is not up to the market to figure out what you know about how your product or service can help them.
 
To build your trust account in the mind of your market, first find out what's most important to them; what solutions and benefits are important to them.  It is all about what they want to buy, not about what you want to sell.  I recently consulted with a service provider who took great pride in the amount of time he spent with me, but I thought he was insensitive and wasted a lot of my time.  He didn't listen to my needs and requirements and tried to sell me on the solution that benefitted him the most.  As he tried to up-sell and expand the scope of the project, he lost credibility and irritated me, sending me directly to his competitor.  He lost both the immediate sale and the possibility of referral business because he failed to demonstrate that he could be trusted.
 
Ask yourself this question: 

How can you build the value of your trust account today?
 
 
1. Wagner, Rodd and Harter, PH.D., James K., 12 The Elements of Great Managing, 2006, Gallup Press, New York, NY
 
 
In This Issue
How Do They Do That
Your Trust Account
Chloe's Chronicles
Business Energetix  Success Coaching
 
Career Coaching 
   Business Coaching 
      Business Team Coaching

 
Coaching helps you get more back from the money, time, creativity and effort you put into your work. 
 
Ask yourself these questions:
  • Am I willing to try out new ideas and see things from a different perspective?
  • Do I set ambitious goals for myself?
  • Would I benefit from a thinking partner with whom I could examine my challenges?

If you answered "yes" to these questions, contact us for a no-cost consultation to see how Coaching might fit and benefit you.

marti@BusinessEnergetix.com775.337.0661 (Pacific Time Zone)

 
   Chloe Big 
 

  Chloe's Chronicles

 
Hey friends and fans!  Chloe the Management Muse here, writing directly to you this time.  As wonderful as Marti is, rescuing me from the animal shelter and all that, I don't think she gets what's going on with me right now.  So, I thought I'd take it directly to you and ask for your advice.
 
A few days ago, my life was going along just fine-wake everybody up, eat, sleep, walk, sleep, car ride, sleep, beg for treat, sleep, walk, eat, sleep.  And then, an unpleasant surprise totally messed it up in the most confusing ways.
 
On my daily walk, I stepped in the river as usual, but this time something sharp sunk into my foot.  I think some human must have broken a bottle in the water 'cause my foot pad was cut and it hurt like mad.  I was bleeding and trying to get it to stop but nothing worked.  So, off to that emergency pet hospital we went.



 
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