The Joydancer Weekly Word and News

Looking for Love in
All the Right Places
August 12, 2012

 

The Joydancer Weekly Word and News
A quick recap of our 8th Annual Summer Celebration of Life yesterday, new video, and much more!

:: Sunday Night Conscious Relationship Radio:
This week: " The Four Agreements In Conscious Relationship:
#2: Don't take anything personally"
Sunday Evening 7:00 pm PDT

:: What's a Cuddle Party, and how can I find out!?

:: Our annual journey to Teotihuacan is coming October 4


Hello!

HELLO, AND HAPPY SUMMER DAYS!  Thanks for reading. 
 
Our Annual "Summer Celebration of Life" yesterday here in my garden in Santa Rosa, CA, was quite magical. We started the morning with a vision walk, and many people brought back stories of spirit's language powerful messages for them (including mine).
 
After sharing and lunch we created the most dazzling despacho, overflowing with special gifts, lots of colorful confetti, and everyone's three rose petals blessed with our intentions and desires. Francis Rico sang James Nihan's song, "Three Petals," written after a Summer Celebration a few years ago. You can here the beautiful song and see a despacho here.
 
All that energy made us hungry, so we enjoyed a fabulous BBQ dinner with all the fixings, summer pies, and more. After dinner, we lit the big fire and burned the despacho, "dispatching" our dreams to Spirit. Our drumming and dancing around the fire took us to the end of a beautiful and empowering day and evening together-- in community, in love, celebrating Life.
 
I am incredibly grateful for the wild and wise teaching of Francis Rico, the tireless help from Bobbie Bloom, Vanita, and Lynn the Joydancer Office Angel, and everyone who made the event so perfect-- and all who came to enjoy and transform. Thank you all!!
 
 
News about my international internet radio show is below.
 
Tonight, Sunday, at 7:00 pm PDT, we continue our series on using The Four Agreements of Miguel Ruiz to create truly conscious relationships: #2: "Don't take anything personally."
 
 
Lots of love to you,

 

       Allan

 

 

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     THIS WEEK'S TOPIC, SUNDAY August 12th, 7:00 pm pacific time:

 

The Power of the Four Agreements

for Creating Conscious Relationships

 

This Week: #2: Don't take anything personally 

 

People often tell me that this second of Miguel Ruiz' Four Agreements is the hardest one to keep. And that is not surprising. We are taught from an early age that the things we do create the emotional reactions in our parents and others-- and what they do creates our emotional reactions. It is a basic belief in what the Toltecs call "the dream of the planet" -- the collective agreements in the human mind. We believe it is all personal.

 

What if this wasn't true?

  • What if people could never create our emotional reactions?
  • What if we are all absolutely responsible for our emotional lives, and are never the emotional victims of other people, events, or institutions?
  • What if the things people say and do to us have nothing to do with us or our worth or value?

If we learn to understand we've been believing a lie since childhood, if we can see the truth and change our belief systems about people causing our emotional reactions, we can be free. We will never take anything personally.

 

Think about these: 

  • If everyone has a different emotional reaction to the same event, how could the event be causing it?
  • If your emotional reaction to a person changes based on your health or mood in the moment, how can you say the other person made you feel a certain way?
  • If your feelings can be hurt by someone who isn't present, or even someone who has died, how can you say they are doing it to you?

 

It turns out, when we look at the truth, nobody can cause your emotional reactions, nor can you cause someone else's. 

 

IT IS NOT PERSONAL. IN FACT,

THE UNIVERSE IS NOT PERSONAL!

 

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Have you been to a Cuddle Party? WHAT!? You don't know what I'm talking about???

 
This is a national phenomenon, so look for a gathering near you!
 
Our annual Journey of the Spirit to Teotihuacan, 
the Toltec pyramids outside of Mexico City is coming up October 4 ~ 9, with an optional extension to
the Aztec center at Tepoztlan.
 
 

 

 

A delightful sharing about a five-day personal intensive with Allan, in Santa Rosa, CA.
You can book now and come to Chacala, Nayarit, Mexico.
Join Allan there this winter for your intensive in Paradise!

Singles and couples have transformed through this experience.



Personal Coaching/Intensives with Allan Hardman at Joydancer.com
Personal Coaching/Intensives with Allan Hardman at Joydancer.com
 

B.K wrote from Colorado: "Thanks for the life changing experience. We loved Chacala and all it offers. I am very thankful for all the gifts we received. 

I have been searching for a practice, a mind set, a way of life, for the last five years. This was a great culmination of all of the spiritual and therapeutic wisdoms I have been experiencing. I have made a major breakthrough."


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Allan Hardman
Joydancer.com

Santa Rosa, CA Office: 707-528-1271   allanh@sonic.net