The Joydancer Weekly Word and News

Looking for Love in
All the Right Places
June 1, 2012

 

The Joydancer Weekly Word

"Relationship Issues: Abandonment and Betrayal (maybe!)"
On the radio Sunday and below

:: My Weekly Relationship Radio Show - Sunday Evenings 7:00 pm PDT

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Like my Weekly Conscious Relationship Circle in Sonoma County
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Hello!

I'M HAPPY TO SEE YOU HERE ONCE AGAIN! It's been another beautiful spring week here in Sonoma County, CA. I hope your are happy wherever you are! We'll be sharing about "Abandonment and Betrayal" this Sunday evening on my weekly radio show on the HumanSpirit Radio Network. 
 
Maybe! See below!

This Sunday I am sharing the day with a Light Workers gathering in the foothills of the Sierra Nevadas here in California. I'm going to be offering ideas and experiences about "Believing in Our Perfection." We are perfect, you know! I'll broadcast my weekly radio show from there, and if the participants in the day want to be part of my "studio" audience, we'll change the topic to fit the energy of the group. Tune in and see what happens!

Let me know YOUR issues-- what do you want to discuss here and on the radio? allanh@sonic.net 
 
 
       You can listen to the live radio show and archives here,
                       Tune in each Sunday evening, 7:00 pm PDT.
                                               Good stuff!
  



SPECIAL EVENT WEDNESDAY JUNE 6, SEBASTOPOL, CA.
SEE BELOW ~ "THE ULTIMATE THERAPY"
 
The Joydancer Weekly Word and
Sunday Radio Show June 3:
"Relationship Issues: Abandonment and Betrayal"
(Maybe)


Have you ever been abandoned or betrayed?
As a child, perhaps...or in an adult romantic relationship?  Abandonment and betrayal can take many forms... being left alone or dumped with relatives as a child; deceived about important family issues; ignored emotionally; being cheated on, lied to, or dumped by a lover or spouse.
 
An often overlooked abandonment that hurts us without us
Red Heart recognizing it, happens when we neglect our own feelings. We abandon ourselves when we deny our truth, when we capitulate to the will of others in order to keep the peace or not hurt their feelings, or when we think we have to take care of others before ourselves. 
 
Those personal abandonments usually follow the patterns of childhood experiences and will go against our highest good as adults. Until we have awareness of those old agreements from childhood, we are often confused or dismayed by the affect they have in our adult lives.
 
My radio show this week will be devoted to exploring the origin and effects of childhood agreements on our adult lives and how and why we abandon ourselves or allow ourselves to be betrayed. We will learn to transform those old lies and agreements and live our adult lives with integrity and authenticiy.
 
Unless of course we change the topic to suit the studio audience at the Light Workers gathering this Sunday....in which case we'll move this topic to June 10. Tune in to find out what happens, on Sunday, June 3, at 7:00 pm PDT, HERE.
 
 
 
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I support individuals and couples as they brave and enjoy the journey of relationship. They can be challenging and they can be rewarding. Please don't let neglect of your relationship cause you to drift apart until it's too late to find your way back. Let love guide you, respect ennoble you, and gratitude fill you. And if you want support, please call or write: 
 
allanh@sonic.net 
707-528-1271 
 
My radio show is a conversation on the web or on the phone.
Let's talk about these issues in relationship, and learn to have awareness and make agreements that are more conscious, clear, and that support love and acceptance of ourselves and each other.

 

We've talked about many relationship subjects on these Sunday night shows. This Sunday is #20, check the archives. For more about intimacy, conscious relationships, and speaking your emotional language, go to the articles section of Joydancer.com here.

 

Remember, if you can't join me on Sundays, you can listen to the archives any time, HERE.   There's good stuff there.

   Allan  

   


 

I enjoy your feedback:  allanh@sonic.net 

 

Or  (707) 206-7623 (rings through to Chacala from northern California toll free).  

 

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Special Event Next Week ~ Sebastopol, CA


"THE ULTIMATE THERAPY" 
Wednesday, June 6, 6:45 pm, Sebastopol.  FREE

Allan Hardman is offering a rare opportunity to experience his roadmap to "The Ultimate Therapy ~ Healing the Drama of the Inner Judge and Victim Child" at no cost this Wednesday evening (June 6) in Sebastopol, CA. "The Ultimate Therapy" represents the culmination of Allan's 22 years of emotional healing and spiritual guidance work.

Allan teaching with Judge/Victim chartThis lively flip chart talk and demonstration is open to the public... and is also an introduction to Allan's Conscious Relationship Circle which meets each Wednesday evening through September.

The time is 6:45 pm to 9:15 pm. Please come early, parking is limited. The evening is free. Bring a friend. Teens are especially invited-- this talk could change their lives.

Directions to the talk will be sent after you register. 
Please e-mail allan@joydancer.com, or call 707-528-1271 before 2:00 pm on Wednesday.  AND PLAN TO BE PART OF THIS EVENT.

 


My Weekly Radio Show Continues!

 Please join me every
Sunday evenings 7:00 pm
Pacific time
for:

"Living in Conscious Relationship~ A Conversation in the Truth" 

 

HSRN radio show icon WITH WORDS  

 

This is a write-in and call-in internet radio show--  

I invite you join the conversation.

 

 

  

 

Archives are here:   

 

HUMANSPIRIT RADIO NETWORK  

 

THIS WEEK'S TOPIC, the 3rd:

 

"Relationship Issues:

Abandonment and Betrayal"

 

LISTEN AND PARTICIPATE LIVE HERE, OR LISTEN LATER

     

7:00 pm Pacific   

 

 

 

 
UPCOMING EVENTS
AT JOYDANCER.COM


We're excited as we plan our summer calendar, and hope to see you at these gatherings,
and more.

"Creating Spiritual Community Through Love
in Action"


Relationship Circle"
A weekly Circle.
Meets in Sebastopol, CA,
each Wednesday evening.
 
And needs YOU to make it perfect.

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 Our Annual Summer Celebration of life Garden Party, August 11, 2012,
Santa Rosa, CA



VIDEO OF THE WEEK 
 
 
 A video of gratitude for Valentine's Week Retreat, 2011
at Allan's "House of the Eagles"
Chacala, Nayarit, Mexico

Plan to join Allan this winter for his Valentine's Week Retreat 2012,
A personal intensive with Allan,
or a wonderful tropical beach vacation.

 Details are on Joydancer.com here

  
A Life-Changing Valentine's Relationship Retreat in Mexico w/ Allan Hardman
A Life-Changing Valentine's Relationship Retreat in Mexico w/ Allan Hardman
WATCH THIS SPACE FOR A NEW VIDEO EVERY WEEK



I'm so grateful to be able to share with you here.
My life and work and Joydancer.com and TACO (my online Toltec spiritual and networking community) are all dedicated to helping us learn and remember the truth of our oneness as the Divine essence that creates and animates this universe... and each part of it in each moment. Including you and me!

I offer spiritual and emotional support for your healing journey.

I am available by phone, Skype, and e-mail.
Please contact me for a no-cost conversation
to learn if we resonate.

I look forward to hearing from you.












Allan Hardman
Joydancer.com

Santa Rosa, CA Office: 707-528-1271   allanh@sonic.net