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The Joydancer Weekly Word and News
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Looking for Love in
All the Right Places
May 20, 2012
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Hello!
I'M HAPPY TO SEE YOU HERE ONCE AGAIN! It's a beautiful spring day here in Sonoma County, CA. I hope your are happy wherever you are! We are looking at "Drifting Apart" this Sunday evening on my weekly radio show on the HumanSpirit Radio Network. Send me your thoughts!!LAST CALL:
"THE FOUR AGREEMENTS AS A TOOL OF TRANSFORMATION." I'M DELIVERING THE MORNING MESSAGE AT UNITY SANTA ROSA SUNDAY THE 20TH OF MAY, 10:30 AM, AND A WORKSHOP FROM 1:00 TO 4:00 IN THE AFTERNOON (ONLY $35!). DETAILS ARE HERE, GO TO PAGE 2.
THE WEEKLY WORD AND RADIO SHOW TOPIC:
"Relationship Issues: Drifting Apart" On my radio show we've laid the foundation for conscious relationships, and now we're in a series of shows on "Relationship Issues." This week's issue: "Drifting Apart." This Sunday, May 20, at 7:00 pm PDT at the links all over here. The Joydancer Weekly Word and
Sunday Radio Show 5/20:
"Relationship Issues: Drifting Apart"
A common issue people come to me with in their relationship journey is the sense they are losing touch with each other, they aren't feeling romantically close like the did in the beginning, or they just don't have the energy to relate deeply with each other. They are "drifting apart."
Local therapist and author Francis Weller introduced me to the idea of a "third body" in all relationships many years ago. The third body is that invisible transpersonal body of the relationship that lives between two humans. In fact, the feminine will often point to it and talk about it in conversations with the masculine-- and the masculine will look, not see it, and be very confused!
The third body is the soul of relationships, a living dream that is powerful and yet delicate, invisible and yet constantly present. It must be nurtured, respected, and fed-- and when it is properly cared for, it, in turn, will support and nurture the relationship that created it. Within the field of the third body, we are invited to be authentic, present, conscious, to learn, and to grow.
If you sense you and your partner are drifting apart, it may be time to bring your attention to the third body. Is it wounded? Neglected? Invisible to one or both partners? What does your third body ask of you? What messages are you missing or ignoring? And how can you come back to awareness and mutual support of this important part of your relationship? How can you reverse the drifting?
The first and most important step is to acknowledge the truth. Drifting apart is no one's fault, it isn't a failure-- it just means it's time to talk! Ask yourselves questions...have we wounded the third body? Is it mortally wounded, or can it recover? Do we want to join in nurturing and healing it, bringing it back to the sweet innocence and trust that we began with? Do we each have an investment in the third body's health that will make the effort worth our while? Are we willing to risk telling the truth, being our authentic selves, and letting go of our attachments to the outcome?
If you can each say Yes to many of these questions, you are going to stop the drift and come back to healing and growing the power of your third body. If one or both of you aren't interested, or afraid to show up and tell the truth.... well.... the third body may suffer and the drifting may continue.
I support individuals and couples as they brave and enjoy the journey of relationship. They can be challenging and they can be rewarding. Please don't let neglect of your third body cause you to drift apart until it's too late to find your way back. Let love guide you, respect ennoble you, and gratitude fill you. And if you want support, please call or write: allanh@sonic.net 707-528-1271 My radio show is a conversation on the web or on the phone. Let's talk about these issues in relationship, and learn to have awareness and make agreements that are more conscious, clear, and that support love and acceptance of ourselves and each other.
We've talked about many relationship subjects on these Sunday night shows. This Sunday is #18, check the archives. For more about intimacy, conscious relationships, and speaking your emotional language, go to the articles section of Joydancer.com here.
THERE WILL BE NO RADIO SHOW ON 5/27/12
HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY!!
Remember, if you can't join me on Sundays, you can listen to the archives any time, HERE. There's good stuff there.
Allan
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I enjoy your feedback: allanh@sonic.net Or (707) 206-7623 (rings through to Chacala from northern California toll free).
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My Weekly Radio Show Continues!
This is a write-in and call-in internet radio show-- I invite you join the conversation. Archives are here: HUMANSPIRIT RADIO NETWORK THIS WEEK'S TOPIC, the 20th: "Relationship Issues: Drifting Apart " LISTEN AND PARTICIPATE LIVE HERE, OR LISTEN LATER
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VIDEO OF THE WEEK
A Meditative Walk Through Teotihuacan, Mexico~
The Spiritual Home of the Toltecs, ancient and modern.
And we are going there October 4, 2012!
Please plan to join me on this ultimate spiritual journey, as we prepare for the coming of December 21, 2012:
"New Beginnings, Teo 2012"
Details are on Joydancer.com here, I invite you to join us!
 | A Meditative Walk through Teotihuacan, Mexico
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I'm so grateful to be able to share with you here. My life and work and Joydancer.com and TACO (my online Toltec spiritual and networking community) are all dedicated to helping us learn and remember the truth of our oneness as the Divine essence that creates and animates this universe... and each part of it in each moment. Including you and me!
I offer spiritual and emotional support for your healing journey.
I am available by phone, Skype, and e-mail.
Please contact me for a no-cost conversation
to learn if we resonate. I look forward to hearing from you.
Allan Hardman
Joydancer.com
Santa Rosa, CA Office: 707-528-1271
allanh@sonic.net
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