Youth Eastside Services Lifeline Online
March 2012 
Investing in Ourselvesteen girls

Group of local high school girls learn 

to cope with their parent's drug abuse

 

"Some of us have been abandoned by our parents because their addiction was more important. Some of us have lived in cars, garages and storage units because of our parent's drug use. Some of us have been told over and over that we are not good enough. Some of us have taken our younger siblings to work because our parents didn't return home for days at a time." These are just a few of the examples of the suffering endured by a group of girls from a local high school.  They shared their personal stories at the Invest in Youth Breakfast earlier this week.

 

Though they had seemingly insurmountable obstacles, they banded together through an "affected others" group at school.  Under the guidance of a YES counselor, they aired their hopes and fears and learned to make better choices for themselves. Today, the girls are all headed for graduation, a major accomplishment when you think of their burdens.  And many are off to college in the fall.  

 

It's the donations made at the breakfast that help support programs like affected others groups in local schools.  There are many more kids who, like these girls, suffer because of choices made by the adults who are supposed to protect them.  If you would like to make a donation to support underfunded programs, click here.

 

child eating hot dogTalking With Your Child about Weight

Help them maintain health and self-esteem

 

Deciding how to approach a weight or body image issues deserves careful attention when it involves young people. How you handle the topic can have serious and lifelong implications. Here are some tips to help you support a child who is over or underweight.

 

In the News   

Important information you want to know 

  

Teen depression can lead to eating disorders: New research shows that teen girls who are depressed are twice as likely to binge eat or overeat.

 

Proof kids listen to their parents: NPR News reports that researchers in the Netherlands have found that parental disapproval can be a powerful force to keep teens from succumbing to the impulse to drink.

 

Tween "D-8ing" is all about the texts: "Dating" in middle school doesn't mean what many adults think. Tween couples talk mostly via text and chat, according to a recent Wall Street Journal article.

 

Elizabeth Smart at breakfastBreakfast Brings in Record $520K+ 

1,000 guests invest in Eastside youth!

  

It was a morning of courage and hope at the 2012 Youth Eastside Services Invest in Youth Breakfast. Keynote speaker, Elizabeth Smart, helped draw a crowd of approximately 1,000 guests who together donated more than $520K to help kids and their families on the Eastside. Guests also heard two inspiring stories from YES clients.

 

All money raised at the breakfast benefits the YES Lifeline Fund, which supports uncompensated care as well as prevention and education programs. YES saw a jump of 24.3% in the cost of uncompensated care in 2011.  In the past five years, the agency has provided $1.2 million in uncompensated care. "Kids are coming to us with more severe problems and require more intensive treatment," explained Skelton-McGougan. If you were unable to attend the breakfast, donations are still being accepted, click here. 
 

 

I am overwhelmed by the amazing community support for YES, and the youth we serve, at the recent Invest in Youth Breakfast.  And I am inspired by the kids who shared their stories and the community who responded to show that it cares.  To have a place where all kids and their family can come for help is a key to a healthy community.  On the Eastside, YES has been that place since 1968---- and because of your generous support, we can continue to ensure every child gets the expert help they need to overcome depression, violence, abuse and substance use, regardless of a family's ability to pay.  Thank you.

   

Sincerely,

  
Patti Skelton-McGougan 
Executive Director