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Stressed Teen Girl 
When we think of summer break and teens, we often think of lazy, carefree mornings and time spent with friends.  However, even in the best of situations, today's teens struggle with a great deal of stress, from hormonal shifts to academic and peer pressure.  A recent survey indicates that 43 percent of 13- to 14-year-olds say they feel stressed every single day; by ages 15 to 17, the number rises to 59 percent.1   Day to day pressures, combined with tough economic times don't just impact adults.  Jobs, an economic recession and family finances can also prove stressful for teens, as nearly two-thirds of them say they are "somewhat" or "very concerned" about their personal finances.2 

As the greatest influence in your teen's life, it is essential to continue building communication and trust with your teen.  During difficult times, stress can easily become unmanageable, often leaving teens to find their own ways of coping if they do not have guidance from a parent or caregiver.  Often, these coping mechanisms may involve unhealthy behaviors, such as drinking, smoking marijuana, and engaging in other risky behaviors.3  Help your teen learn to handle stress by recognizing signs they may be stressed-out, and through teaching and modeling healthy behaviors and coping strategies.   

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The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) has released an online guide that provides practical advice on addressing emotional health issues related to the economic hard times.  The "Getting Through Tough Economic Times" guide, available at www.samhsa.gov/economy/, provides practical advice on identifying health concerns, developing coping skills and finding help.  

Rebbeca Lahann, MA
Senior Director Curriculum Development

notMYkid
5230E. Shea Blvd Suite 100 
Scottsdale, AZ 85254
602-652-0163
www.notMYkid.org
 
1 SADD, Unpublished data from Teens Today survey.
2 TRU 3rd Wave, 2009.
3 SADD, Unpublished data from Teens Today survey.
A Letter from a Member of notMYkid's Teen Advisory Board
 
Hello, 

     My name is Kaitlin Lang, and I am a member of the 2009 notMYkid Teen Advisory Board.  I'd like to begin by saying something that I say to my mom each day.  You would be shocked if you knew the things that I am pressured to do everyday.  In fact if I told my mom all of those things, I would have to revive her from falling over in a dead faint.  And I can guarantee you that if I am exposed to these things, your teen is too. 
     Let me describe a typical Saturday night.  You walk in the front door of a party, and a wave of marijuana smoke hits you in the face.  The parents are home, but seem oblivious to three girls in the bathroom making themselves throw up.  You step over the empty Grey Goose bottles, and some girl at the hookah table offers you a drink with a mixture of drugs in it.  You see a kid with pupils a centimeter wide, and ask him what he's taken.  He says, "Just X man, I'm taking it easy tonight cause I've gotta drive home."  X, short for ecstasy.  Another kid pulls you aside, and says, "Dude you've got to try this."  "What is it?" you ask. "Robotussian, duh.  You'll throw up for a while, but the high is so good," he replies. Yes, that's right, he just drank a bottle of Robotussian cough medicine.  This is just the beginning, because what happens at parties stays at parties.  Drunk and drugged teens are not the only poor choices made at these parties.  It's clear that teens face difficult choices today just fitting in and having friends.
     Times have changed, and kids don't just do these things for occasional Saturday night fun.  They do them everyday of the week.  Whether it's prescription pills or purging, a bottle of rum or cutting themselves, the scary thing is, most parents have no idea.  Many parents today live in false worlds, believing this would never happen to their kid.  They say, "My honor roll student? She's too smart," or "My star athlete? Not my kid." Parents deny the fact that the number one cause for teen drug and alcohol use in 2008 was stress.  Stress-the factor that consumes the lives of these honor roll students and star athletes.  Today, it's not just the "bad" kids that live double lives.
     In our community, not only do parents have false assumptions, but they trust their kids too much.  When boundaries are set for teens, they feel loved and protected knowing that their parents are assuming responsibility.  They also don't fall into peer pressure as easily, because they know their parents actually care.  If you give your child a midnight curfew, but go to bed at 10 every weekend, who is verifying that they have actually kept their promise?  High school is all about trusting your children, but verifying their decisions through actions.  With college only a few years away, it is critical that you play the role of the enforcer now.  The number of teens that become addicted in college with no previous experience is slim to none, compared to those who start drinking and drugging in middle and high school years.  
     The Teen Advisory Board and I have worked all year to gain leadership skills and to influence our peers to make positive choices.  You as parents have constant access to your teens.  Exercise your role and responsibility to help your kids make healthy choices.  It's your job, and we need you.

                                                                          Kaitlin
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Basis Charter School
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Brophy College Prep
Canyon Springs School
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Cholla Middle School
Constitution Elementary School
Cortina Elementary
Desert Shadows Middle School
Drug Court
Fairfax High School
Florence High School
Gilbert High School
Gilbert Jr. High
Gilbert Learning Center
Highland Jr. High
Highland Lakes Elementary
Higley Elem and Middle School

Hillcrest Middle School
Horizon High School
Marcos De Niza
Mesquite Jr. High
Mountain Shadows Elementary
Mountain Trail Middle School
No Parent Left Behind University Workshop
Orangedale Jr. High
Poston Jr. High
Power Ranch Elementary
Queen Creek High School
South Mountain Community College
South Valley Jr. High
St. Thomas the Apostle
Sunrise Middle School
Vista Verde Middle School
Wildfire
Williams Field High School

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by Catherine Lanigan
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Event Recap
May 8, 2009
notMYkid's 5th Annual Gala - Moonlight in Morocco

Dear Friends,

We just completed our 5th annual gala which is our major fundraising effort for the year. Thanks to all of you for your efforts to make the event so successful. This year we raised over $250,000 for our programs. The notMYkid message is so critical for Arizona families in these troubled times, thanks to your kindness and generosity MORE families in the valley will benefit.

Sincerely,
Dr. Brad Barrett
CEO/Executive Director

notMYkid

  Mr. & Mrs. George Johnson

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            The van den Bossche's                        Lisa Henry Holmes
                                                                         & Julie Horne  

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 The Fassero's & Stottlemyre's 
  
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       Randy & Cheri Schoch                     Ellen and Stewart Horejsi

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 Heidi Teets & John Iannarelli 

notMYkid Gala 2009

 Dr. Brad Barrett, Jill Woods & Debbie Moak