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Did you know? 

4:20 or 4/20 (pronounced four-twenty) refers to consumption of cannabis and, by extension, a way to identify oneself with cannabis drug subculture. 

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Will you know where your kids are today at 4:20pm?

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Vanguard Charitable Endowment 

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Patti and Paul Oleson
 
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Ewing Irrigation
 
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notMYkid spreads the word about safe dating...
 
Dating abuse is defined as the physical, sexual, or Safe Dating Couplepsychological/emotional violence within a dating relationship.  Seventy two percent of eighth and ninth graders reportedly "date"; by the time they are in high school, one in five girls have been physically or sexually abused by a dating partner (CDC, 2006).  This number is even more alarming when you consider that girls ages 16-19 are four times more likely than the general population to be victims of rape, attempted rape, or sexual assault (RAINN, 2008).

Many of these cases can be prevented by helping adolescents develop skills for healthy relationships with others:
  • Teach your teen to be assertive and to communicate their desires and limits clearly and early in a relationship.  
  • Remind your teen to consider others and never to assume any manner of dress or non-verbal behavior means a person feels the same way you do. 
  • Check for respect. Teach your teen to pay attention if their date gets too close, touches them in a way they don't like, or ignores their feelings and limits.  
  • Your teen should never feel their desires are disregarded in a relationship.  All parties should respect the others wishes, and "No" always means "No." 
  • Frequently remind your teen to avoid using alcohol or other drugs that may dull their judgments.  
  • Teach your teen to trust their instincts. If a situation feels pressured, uncomfortable or unsafe, it probably is.
  • Help your teen develop skills in order to pay attention to what is happening around them.  It will help reduce their chances of becoming isolated or being put in a vulnerable situation.
  • Tell your teen to never accept drinks (even water!) from strangers or leave their drink unattended.

Does your teen practice healthy relationships?  Take a safe dating screening quiz at notMYkid.org!

Celebrating Safely!
notMYkidAs the school year comes to an end, you may find yourself handing over more responsibility to your teen as they transition into a young adult, but that doesn't mean your role is any less important at seventeen as it was when they were thirteen.  While transition years and milestones, such as graduation or prom can bring excitement and dreams of the possibilities ahead, it can also bring increased stress, less supervision, and increased risk-taking behaviors.  In fact, a significant number of teen traffic fatalities during the prom and graduation weekends are alcohol-related. 
 
Underage drinking is also linked to two-thirds of sexual assaults and date rapes of teens, and increases the likelihood of unsafe and unplanned sexual activity.  Don't let a fatal car accident, injury, or sexual assault become a part of your teens rite of passage. 
  • Use this time of year as a teachable moment.  Surveys show that 45 percent of teens whose parents didn't set boundaries around substance use reported they were likely to drink or use drugs at prom or graduation parties this year1.  Know where your teen plans to go and with whom.  Discuss the possibility that substances may be present, and emphasize your family rules, as well as the legal and physical risks they may face.
  • Monitor alcohol in your house for potential consumption.
  • If your teen will be part of a group of teens who rent a limousine, check with the limo company to make sure there is a policy regarding underage consumption in their car or purchasing alcohol for riders. 
  • Be their excuse!  60 percent of teens say they feel pressured to use drugs or alcohol "always" or "frequently" at prom or graduation events, making it more important than ever to remind your teen about the risks of substance use1.
  • Use a home drug test kit as a conversation starter and offer it to your teen as a way to say no. 

"I can't.  We have a drug test kit at home.  My parents
will test me, and they'll call your parents too."
  

Rebbeca Lahann, MA
Senior Director Curriculum Development
notMYkid
5230E. Shea Blvd Suite 100 
Scottsdale, AZ 85254
602-652-0163
www.notMYkid.org
 
1THE PARTNERSHIP FOR A DRUG-FREE AMERICA® AND METLIFE FOUNDATION PROM AND GRADUATION SURVEY, 2008
Parent Alert!
 
Alcohol without liquid (AWOL) is new concept that has recentlyAWOL reached the United States in which users get intoxicated through inhaling an alcoholic mist.  AWOL promotes a sense of well being and a mild euphoria similar to consumption of traditional alcoholic drinks. The continual inhalation of this mist over a 20 minute period is equivalent of taking one-half to one shot of distilled spirits. 
 
It is advertised as a way to achieve the euphoric effects of alcohol while reducing calories and carbohydrates and avoiding hangovers.  Opponents of AWOL fear that it might lead to an increase in alcohol misuse, drunken driving, and underage drinking.  The possible health and safety risks of inhaling alcohol vapors are unknown and many legislators are pushing to ban alcohol inhalation machines (CCHMC, 2009).  Read more here.
You are invited to our 5th Annual notMYkid Gala!
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notMYkid at Work in Your Community
Where We've Been Recently  
 
notMYkid wuold like to thank Jackson White Attorneys at Law for having us present a corporate Lunchbox!   
 

Anthem School

Mesquite Jr. High

Basis Charter School

Mountain Ridge High School

Boys and Girls Club

Mountain Ridge High School

Boys Hope and Girls Hope

Mountain View Elementary School

Cholla Middle School

National Charity League - Arrowhead Chapter

Cortina Elementary

NCL - Ahwatukee

Deer Valley High School

No Parent Left Behind University Workshop

Deer Valley High School

Orangdale Jr. High

Deer Valley Middle School

Phoenix Country Day

Desert Springs PTA

Poston Jr. High

Explorer Middle School

Power Ranch Elementary

Gavilan Peak Elementary

Prospect Middle School

Gilbert High School

St. Marys High School

Highland Jr. High

St. Thomas the Apostle

Higley Elem and Middle School

Valley Teen Leadership

Marcos de Niza High School

Xavier College Prep

Mesquite High School

notMYkid Partners with the FBI
 
FBI
 
notMYkid has been at the forefront of education regarding cyberbullying and online safety trends among today's youth.  In an effort to sustain the educational demands of such a rapidly advancing issue, notMYkid is proud to announce a partnership with the Federal Bureau of Investigation and the FBI Citizens' Academy Alumni Association. 
 
The new comprehensive program covers internet predators, cyber notMYkidbullying, and social networking. Our presentation will help parents and kids understand the danger that lurks in cyber space and give them tools to keep wwww.SAFE! For more information on this program contact sam@notmykid.org.
Event Recap
March 29, 2009
notMYkid Teams Up With Josh Hamilton
  
notMYkidOn Sunday, March 29 at Surprise Stadium following a 1PM game between the Texas Rangers and the Los Angeles Angels, notMYkid was honored to have MLB star Josh Hamilton speak to the crowd, sharing his personal story of drug and alcohol addiction. After his talk he answered questions and, along with 25 members of notMYkid's Teen Advisory Board, signed baseballs signifying a contract to live a drug-free life.    

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TAB and the Hamilton's

 Katie and Josh Hamilton
Katie and Josh Hamilton