So now it is time to bring it all home and share with you the last, and most important element in your personal success.  This last key piece was also apparent on the boat during the incident.   

One detail that I did not yet share is that I was one of the three adults who had rushed to front of our boat in the urgent moments.  While that fact in itself is not remarkable, what was is that the whole time I was helping my two dear friends to hold off the other boat with our feet and legs, there was someone whose instinct, not intuition, drove them to stand right behind me to make sure I was not harmed. That someone was my son.