Reflections on Cruise Priest Ministry
By Fr. Jack Treacy, SJ
As a university campus minister, I love sharing stories with
my students of my occasional cruise chaplaincies. Given my audience, I usually
stress the more entertaining moments-snorkeling in the Caribbean, zip-lining in
Alaska, kayaking in Mexico, rock-climbing on board the ship while at sea and
such. And I usually add something along the lines of "And it's a free cruise.
All I have to do is say Mass everyday!"
Of course, those of us who serve as cruise chaplains know
that it can be so much more than simply showing up for the daily liturgy. While
I appreciate the leisure and opportunities afforded by these chaplaincies, I'm
also grateful for the many moments of grace that are part of the experience.
Those who gather for daily liturgies do build a sense of community. I sometimes
joke that our liturgical gathering space, whether it be a lounge or showroom,
is "Mary, Star of the Sea Parish" for the duration of our liturgies. Even as I
sometimes wonder if folks aren't bored with my homilies day after day after
day, I marvel at the ways that I see people reaching out to one another, coming
to know about the others' lives, families and concerns. I also make it a
practice to always mention the staff and crew of the vessel in our
intercessions, so the passengers find another way to connect with those who are
serving us so generously and graciously.
Presiding at the interdenominational liturgies is also a
moment of grace. How different from my own childhood, when I wasn't sure if I
could attend a friend's Protestant service!
We chaplains know that our ministry isn't confined to
liturgies. Again and again, I find that passengers who wouldn't find their way
to a church are first surprised and then sometimes grateful to learn that there
is a chaplain aboard the ship. I've had wonderful conversations not only with
active Catholics but also with alienated Catholics and unchurched persons on a
variety of topics, in situations that include pastoral counseling. So often these
dialogues begin with, "Father, could I speak to you about something?"
I find that making clear to the Cruise Director or contact
person that I am more than willing to be of assistance in any situation brings
other opportunities as they feel comfortable in referring passengers to speak
with me. I recall counseling a passenger who had just gotten word of her
mother's death at home, or another who had come on the cruise shortly after the
death of her husband and was finding it difficult to be in the midst of so many
couples. She simply needed to have someone listen to her story.
I always make it clear as well that I would appreciate
having a Crew Mass. I consider those liturgies to be especially meaningful, as
the staff members are giving up valuable free time to gather for Eucharist.
Since the liturgies are usually scheduled for 10:30 PM or 11:00 PM, I find I
need my second wind, but it is always worth it. I remember when one crew member
told me she hadn't been able to attend Mass in seven months because of her duty
schedule!
The few times I was available during Holy Week, I found that
providing the Triduum even in a rather modest form was a powerful experience
for those who participated. One cruise I had to plead with the Cruise Director
to find time for a Good Friday service. I finally said, "Please-give me any
hour of the day, any place on the ship, but it is Good Friday, and we really
should have a service." She managed to reduce the afternoon tea service by a
half hour, allowing me an hour in the late afternoon. Over 200 of the 1200
passengers showed up for the service! The director herself attended all the
services and later told me how much she appreciated them.
I remain grateful for this opportunity to serve others while
enjoying travel and the life at sea that I wouldn't otherwise have. May our
gracious God continue to bless our shared ministry, and especially all those
who labor at sea!
Fr. Jack Treacy, SJ, is a Jesuit priest ordained in
1990. He serves as Director of Campus
Ministry at Santa Clara University, Santa Clara, CA. He recently was the cruise ship priest on the M/V Mercury.