Keeping Children Safe and Families Strong    
 

     

 New Faces, Spaces & Places        

February 2009

 
 
Dear Friends: 
 
January, for the NHCTF staff and for the trustees, saw much change, new faces, spaces and places.  The office moved, the board welcomed new trustees and officers, and the new board chair and family journeyed to India to welcome a new daughter and sister.
 
It's been almost a month, since staff and terrific movers left cramped quarters, in a snow storm to move 89 boxes, tons of furniture to The Concord Center, 10 Ferry St., Suite 315, Concord, telephone and email are the same, but the fax is different.  The sorting and sifting and pitching out will take a few more weeks.  There's a conference room, library, and each staff member has her own space, except for Julie Day who shares her space with UNH Intern, Sabrina Harris, a master's degree candidate in family policy and advocacy.
 
On January 26th, the Trustees held their Annual Meeting in the new office conference room, welcoming new trustees and acknowledging the commitment and hard work of retiring trustees. The newly elected chair, Dr. Peirce Hunter, has a complete understanding and familiarity with the needs of NH's children and families. Peirce, who is a resident of Bow, is a pediatrician with Dartmouth Hitchcock.
 
In January, the Hunters, Peirce, wife Jill, and seven year old daughter Elisabeth, journeyed to Delhi, India, where they all welcomed a new family member, six year old Sonia.  Peirce's story about the plight of orphans who know no parents or family is very moving, and their decision to adopt very inspirational, opening their hearts and home to a new daughter and sister.  As he said, 'immediately the house was full of laughter with the two girls playing.'

Hunter family 

As board chair, Peirce shares our common understanding and responsibility that we are all responsible for all children, whether in New Hampshire or far away, and that we all need to do what we can to help.  "Thou art my child, my parent, and my elder, I love thee best; But could not love thee half as much, Loved I not all the rest." --the Advocate's Credo (shared by Jack Levine)
In This Issue
NHCTF New Officers, Trustees and Farewells
February is Parent Recognition Month!
If I had my child to raise all over again
SIDS Update
Professional Development Opportunity
The Gift that Gives Twice

2009

Board of Trustees

Deborah Chase, Gilmanton
Melissa Correia, Vice Chair, ManchesterJanice Fitzpatrick, Candia
Senator Peggy Gilmour, Hollis 
Representative Anne Grassie, Rochester
Courtney H.G. Herz, Esq., Hopkinton
Peirce Hunter, M.D., Chair, Bow
Kristina Ickes, Candia
Audrey Knight, MSN, RN, Hopkinton
Senator Bette Lasky, Nashua 
Betsy McKinney, Board Treasurer, Londonderry
Sandra Matheson, Hooksett
Malcolm Smith, PhD, CFLE, Durham 
Brenda Tibbetts, Colebrook
 
Staff
 
Karen H. Carpenter, MA, JD
Executive Director
Diane Hastings, MS
Special Projects Director
Karen Ryan, MEd
Program Director
Julie Day, BS
Parent Advocacy Director
Valerie Quinn, BA
Administrative Assistant
Sabrina Harris, BA
Intern from UNH Child Advocacy & Family Policy Masters Program 
 
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We ended 2008 with fewer donations and grants than we, and our agencies, needed, but maintain hope and faith that this year will be a greater "season of caring and sharing"  for we know that the needs of children and families know no season.  Please consider what you can do to help others, by caring and sharing.  A weekly donation of $5 can make the difference, and add up to a substantial amount by year end.
 
This New Year also brings professional and personal resolutions.  Our grantee agencies have embraced CQI, or Continuous Quality Improvement, as the way to continuously improve services.  Check out our website for the CQI Assessment tool.  CQI can have personal applications, as we intentionally choose what we do, learn and how we live. 
 
My favorite personal application is a weekly check-up, to review the past week with questions like, what did I learn?  What do I want to learn?  Did I have some fun?  Did I make someone else's day a little better (or heaven forbid, worse)?  And in goal setting, What about this week?  The difference between us and our dogs is that we can plan for future activities, not just live joyfully in the present, although my dog certainly enjoys her present!
 
Continued best wishes.
Sincerely,

Karen Carpenter, Executive Director
New Hampshire Children's Trust Fund
 
(603) 224-1279

NHCTF Annual Meeting

 Announcing New Officers, Trustees and Farewells
 
  
On January 26, the New Hampshire Children's Trust Fund held its Annual Meeting. Outgoing Board Chair Lynne Bartlett Merrill thanked Gail Barba, of Concord, for her energy, enthusiasm and leadership, particularly during NHCTF's 20th anniversary in 2007.  The Board acknowledged the Chair for her energy and leadership, having served as Chair of the 2004 Smith Award, serving as Board Chair from 2005 to 2009 and now diligently working as Chair of the Leadership Transition Committee.
 
The board elected new officers, with Dr. Peirce Hunter, the Governor's Appointee, as Chair, Melissa Correia, appointed by DHHS Commissioner, will be Vice Chair, and Betsy McKinney, Representative from Derry, and the House Speaker's appointee will continue as Treasurer.
 
New trustees are Dr. Malcolm Smith, Senators Peggy Gilmour and Bette Lasky, both appointed to the Trust Fund board by Senate President Sylvia Larsen. 
 

Malcolm SmithDr.Malcolm Smith is Family Life and Family Policy Specialist for University of New Hampshire Cooperative Extension and a member of the Department of Family Studies faculty and serves on the Departments Advocacy Committee. He is also currently serving on the New Hampshire Legislative Task Force on Work and Family. Malcolm advises the UNH Cooperative Extension's Relatives As Parents Project. Malcolm is also the President of The Peaceful Intervention Program, LLC, a nationally recognized training program for youth services, corrections, and education professionals who care for angry children and youth. Dr. Smith and his wife reside in Durham.


 
Peggy GilmourSenator Peggy Gilmour was elected to the Senate in 2008. After working as a visiting nurse, she organized with community leaders to establish the first hospice program in the southern part of the state. She went on to serve as President and CEO of Home Health and Hospice Care in Nashua from 1994 to 2002. She also led a successful drive to fund and open the first inpatient residential hospice in the state, the Community Hospice House. Senator Gilmour's work in the community has included serving on the board of directors for the American Cancer Society, the Greater Nashua Council on Alcoholism and the Neighborhood Health Center for Greater Nashua. Senator Gilmour and her husband reside in Hollis.

 
The March e-newsletter will feature other new board members. 

 

 
 Families Are PRIMARY !

 

Governor Lynch has Proclaimed February as Parent Recognition Month!

 
The NH Children's Trust Fund is holding its 2nd Annual Unsung Hero Award Ceremony on February 19th to honor 28 parents for the 28 days of February as part of a month long celebration of Parents.  Parents throughout the state have nominated other parents that have gone the extra mile and are role models in their home, schools and/or communities. 
 
In an awards ceremony on February 19, 2009 at 4:15 p.m. in the Governor's Chambers, Governor Lynch will help us to honor these outstanding parents from all across the state. 
 
View pictures here from the 2008 Unsung Hero ceremony held at the State House with Governor Lynch.
 unsung hero
We believe that preventing child abuse and providing nurturing, safe homes for our children can best be achieved when professionals, policymakers and concerned citizens partner with parents to improve systems, neighborhoods and policies.  Here at the New Hampshire Children's Trust Fund we believe in keeping children safe and families strong.  The Unsung Hero Award is a part of our Families Are PRIMARY Parent Advocacy program where we help to empower parents to use their voice, through becoming an informed voter, through encouraging community involvement on committees, boards and councils, and through helping parents advocate for their children in the school, health care and legal systems.
 
 
If I had my child to raise all over again,
I'd build self-esteem first, and the house later.
I'd finger-paint more, and point the finger less.
I would do less correcting and more connecting.
I'd take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.
I'd take more hikes and fly more kites.
I'd stop playing serious, and seriously play.
I would run through more fields and gaze at more stars.
I'd do more hugging and less tugging.
 
~Diane Loomans, from "If I Had My Child To Raise Over Again"

 
 

Four-Fold Increase in SIDS

due to Accidental Suffocation or Strangulation

 
 
infantAccording to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) is the leading cause of death among infants aged 1-12 months. Although the overall rate of SIDS in the United States has declined by more than 50% since 1990, researchers from the CDC have documented a four-fold increase in infant mortality from accidental crib deaths due to suffocation or strangulation since 1984.
 
In an article posted on the MSNBC website, babies most at risk appear to be those whose parents sleep with them. And though it is not clear why, black, male babies are the most affected.
 
The National Institute of Child Health and Human Development's "Back to Sleep" campaign has developed information for parents about ways to reduce the risk of SIDS.
 
 

Professional Development Opportunity

OH BABY! An Evidence-based Skill Training
 
 
 
Exciting news! 
 
UNH Cooperative Extension, the folks who bring you Cradle Crier and Toddler Tales in cooperation with many friends throughout the state is presenting a wonderful day of training at 3 New Hampshire locations:
 

OH BABY!
 Oh baby!
An evidence-based skill training for child caring, nursing, family resource, social service and home visiting professionals.

Featuring:  Dr. John Hornstein, Co-author of the Touchpoints Curriculum and consultant to Harvard Medical School 
His presentation: "Culture, the brain, and the wisdom of young people" will update you on the latest brain research about infants and toddlers.

In addition, the day will be filled with presentations from parent educators from across New Hampshire and presentations on:
  • "Talking so new parents can hear you,"  
  • "Using Cradle Crier and Toddler Tales to educate parents"

The best news: is that the whole day costs only 30.00 and includes lunch.

Join us at one of THREE LOCATIONS:

  • Manchester YWCA,  March 26, 2009
  • Portsmouth Community Campus,  April 8, 2009
  • Plymouth State University Heritage Commons, May 21, 2009

    Click here for brochure and registration information.
 
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Give the Gift that Gives Twice!

Remember your Loved Ones on Valentine's Day or ANY Day!

valentine balloonsvalentine flowers 

To Show You Care... When remembering loved ones with flowers or gift baskets, support child abuse prevention in New Hampshire through an ongoing FTD promotion. For more information click here:

Support child abuse prevention in New Hampshire.
 
 

 
The New Hampshire Children's Trust Fund was established in 1987 by legislative statute RSA 169-C:39 to support programs in New Hampshire that work to prevent child abuse and neglect. Our focus is primary prevention initiatives that keep children safe and families strong.
 
To find out more about our programs and partners, go to our website at www.nhctf.org