Keeping Children Safe and Families Strong    
 

     

 The Power of One!        

October 28, 2008

 
 
Dear Friends: 
The Power of One:  Creating More Power
 
I knew a woman who complained incessantly about government, politicians and when I asked her if she voted, her response was, "nope, never have, never will, don't believe in it, my vote doesn't count."
 
Well, in the face of such cynicism and negativity, what could I say? I grew up in a household where my mother saw women receive the right to vote in 1920, and she and my father had such interest in and strong opinions about candidates and issues that every once in a while, their votes cancelled each other out!  Discussions and dinner were always noisy.  Volunteering for causes and candidates, speaking up, writing letters and running for office were all part of my family tradition, which my daughters have embraced.  We believe in exercising our power, especially at the polls.
 
The power of one, one vote, one volunteer, one helping hand, one extra loaf of bread, one new scientific breakthrough, like Polio Vaccine, can move all of us forward in improving society.  It was one pediatrician, Dr. Ray Helfer, after seeing abused and neglected children, who started the idea of children's trust funds to dedicate funding for prevention.  Now just thirty years since Dr. Helfer's idea, every state has a child abuse prevention fund.
 
So think about the Power of One:  light your candle (don't curse the darkness like my friend), vote every time you get a chance, in every election, local, state, national; volunteer even if only for one hour. If every one of us donated just one can of soup or one loaf of bread one time a month, the food banks would have enough.  Your candles can join others in bringing light in the darkness, your vote joins others in supporting a cause or candidate, your donations of time or needed goods can create a powerful solution to community problems.
 
And if your candidates don't get elected next Tuesday, write and thank them for standing up for what they believe in.  And if your candidates do get elected, congratulate them and tell them it's time to get to work on creating more and better ways to keep children safe and families strong.
 
Click here to watch this short video about the Power of One.
 
Best.
Sincerely,

Karen Carpenter, Executive Director
New Hampshire Children's Trust Fund
 
(603) 224-1279
In This Issue
Voting! What's in it for Me as a Parent?!
One Vote: It does Matter!
Women's Suffrage: A History Lesson
2008 Dr. Robert Chamberlin Award Winner Announced
The Gift that Gives Twice

2008

Board of Trustees

Gail Barba, Concord
Deborah Chase, Gilmanton
Melissa Correia, Manchester
Janice Fitzpatrick, Candia
Senator Martha Fuller Clark, Portsmouth
Representative Anne Grassie, Rochester
Courtney H.G. Herz, Esq., Hopkinton
Peirce Hunter, M.D., Vice Chair, Bow
Kristina Ickes, Candia
Audrey Knight, MSN, RN, Hopkinton
Betsy McKinney, Board Treasurer, Londonderry
Representative Karen McRae, Board Secretary, Goffstown
Sandra Matheson, Hooksett
Lynne Bartlett Merrill, Board Chair, Kingston
Senator Sheila Roberge, Bedford
Brenda Tibbetts, Colebrook
 
Staff
 
Karen H. Carpenter, MA, JD
Executive Director
Diane Hastings, MS
Special Projects Director
Karen Ryan, MEd
Program Director
Julie Day, BS
Parent Advocacy Director
Valerie Quinn, BA
Administrative Assistant
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 Families Are PRIMARY !

 

Voting! What's in it for Me as a Parent?!

"Most of us are weary of the election long before Election Day. The campaign ads, the candidate flyers on our doorknob, the phone calls: It's enough to make us want to hide in our living rooms with 'Dancing With the Stars' until Nov 5. But before we stock up on Doritos and grab our remote, let's ask the question about voting: what's in it for me? And, particularly, what's in it for me as a parent?"
 
"While one vote may not seem like a lot, it sends a message to elected officials at the national, state, and local level about who is voting. When you vote, you are making public your concerns and showing that you will act on them."
 
Read the rest of the article by Susie Bright of Families First Health and Support Center.

Vote!Vote!
 
"Lower voter participation is a silent threat to our democracy...
It under-represents young people, the poor, the disabled, those with little education, minorities and you and me."  --Nancy Neuman
 
For state-by-state information on the electoral process and specific rules/regulations to ensure access to the polls for absentee voting and Election Day participation visit the website of Election Protection, a non-partisan voter protection coalition.

It is easy to register to vote in New Hampshire. In fact, you can register on election day at the polling place in your town. Call your town or city clerk for guidelines about what to bring for proof of age, citizenship and residency. More guidelines can be found on the New Hampshire Secretary of State website by clicking here.
 
Child abuse and neglect can be prevented by building strong families, strengthening community supports, and voting for candidates who care about children and families AND who support programs for children and families.
 
"If American women would increase their voting turnout by ten percent, I think we would see an end to all of the budget cuts in programs benefiting women and children." --Coretta Scott King
 
 

One Vote: It does Matter!

 
vote check markIn 1800, one vote decided the US Presidency in the election between Thomas Jefferson and Aaron Burr.
 
checkIn 1845, one vote brought Texas into the Union.
 
 
checkmarkIn 1846, one vote started a war. That one vote for the Mexican War brought us the territory of five states, Arizona, New Mexico, Nevada, Utah and California.
 
checkmarkIn 1920, one vote gave women the right to vote. The 19th Amendment of the Constitution was decided by a single vote cast in the Tennessee legislature.
 
checkIn 1960, one vote decided the parliamentary election outcome in Zanzibar. 
 
checkIn 1986,  one vote raised a statewide drinking age. The Iowa House passed SF 97 changing the legal drinking age from 19 to 21. 
 
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 In 2000, one vote decided the presidential election. The Supreme Court voted 5-4, in the case of Gore v. Bush, to stop recounting in Florida.
 
From the website of Activote America 

Women's Suffrage: A History Lesson

From the National Archives website:
 
Suffrage paradeBeginning in the mid-19th century, several generations of woman suffrage supporters lectured, wrote, marched, lobbied, and practiced civil disobedience to achieve what many Americans considered a radical change in the Constitution. Militant suffragists used tactics such as parades, silent vigils, and hunger strikes. Much of this struggle is documented in the records of the National Archives.
 
To dramatize the debate for woman suffrage, playwright Rosemary Knower was commissioned to write a narrative script, drawing on the Congressional Record, petitions to Congress, personal letters within the legislative records of the Government, and other archival sources such as newspaper editorials and articles, diaries and memoirs. The story was told through the voices of Abigail Adams, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Frederick Douglass, Susan B. Anthony, Sojourner Truth, Frances Gage, Clara Barton, and Carrie Chapman Catt, among others.
 
Read the fascinating script from the play Failure is Impossible; the orginal production occurring on August 26, 1995, for the National Archives commemoration of the 75th anniversary of the 19th amendment. 

2008 Dr. Robert Chamberlin

Award Winner Announced

 

 
 Senator Kathy Sgambati
 
A Champion for Children & Families in New Hampshire
Remarks exerpted from award presentation speech by Eileen Mullen
at the 2008 Family Support New Hampshire Annual Meeting 


"Senator Kathy Sgambati served the people of the Granite State in the Department of Health and Human Services from 1977 to 2004.  During these 27 years she served two terms as Deputy Commissioner, where she was responsible for major health care reforms, including improved coverage for pregnant women and the establishment of the Health Care Fund to support local initiatives. Senator Sgambati designed the Children's Health Insurance Program and the Kid's Cabinet.  Along with those outstanding programs Senator Sgamabti was the guiding force to institute statewide family resource and support programs.
 
Kathy left the Department in 2004 and began Sgambati & Associates, a consulting practice focused on children and youth services, developmental services and health care reform. She also managed the Citizen's Health Initiative, which Governor John Lynch began. She has put her practice on hold since 2006 to serve as Senator for District 4. 

Senator Sgambati in her role as leader, continues to advocate for children and families and spearheaded the initiative to recognize the value of Family Resource Centers and, for the first time, funding in the DHHS budget.  This was a direct result of 11 years of tireless effort on behalf of the Family Resource Centers by both Representative Barbara French and Senator Sgambati.

I consider Senator Sgambati to be the champion for change--sustainable change in this state.  Kathy was my boss and my teacher.  I think I told you all that last year when I accepted this same award that Kathy taught me to always do the right thing for children and families and to never stray from that philosophy.  Kathy stands firm on her word and follows it up with action. We could not give this award to a more outstanding individual in the field. Senator Sgambati, I thank you, Family Support NH thanks you and most of all the countless number of children and families that have benefitted from your accomplishments thank you." 
                  
Group picture: Kleyensteuber, Sgambati, Mullen
 
Senator Kathy Sgambati (center) with Jo-Ann Kleyensteuber of Good Beginnings of Sullivan County, Family Support NH President (left) and Eileen Mullen (right), 2007 Dr. Robert Chamberlin Award winner
 
The following quote was taken from the NH State Senate News Release:
 
"I am very grateful to the family support centers for their recognition. We began family resource centers as a prevention program knowing that healthy families are central to building healthy communities. The program was based on research that showed that family support has significant impact on preventing delinquency and other social problems.  Many New Hampshire children and families have benefited from their work. The staff who work with families on a daily basis deserve our congratulations."   --Senator Kathy Sgambati

Group picture: Chamberlin, French, SgambatiDr. Robert Chamberlin with Representative Barbara French, 2006 Dr. Robert Chamberlin Award winner and Senator Kathy Sgambati, 2008 Dr. Robert Chamberlin Award winner
 

Give the Gift that Gives Twice!

Birthdays, Thanksgiving, Bereavement, To Show You Care... 

BouquetWhen remembering loved ones with flowers or gift baskets, support child abuse prevention in New Hampshire through an ongoing FTD promotion.
 
For more information click here:   Support child abuse prevention in New Hampshire.
 
 
 
The New Hampshire Children's Trust Fund was established in 1987 by legislative statute RSA 169-C:39 to support programs in New Hampshire that work to prevent child abuse and neglect. Our focus is primary prevention initiatives that keep children safe and families strong.
 
To find out more about our programs and partners, go to our website at www.nhctf.org