Can You Hear Me Now?

     Of course I can; and so can everyone else within 100 feet.  Ever since we became wedded to our cell phones in the mid 80's we have entered a new realm of rudeness. 

     How did we communicate before we had cell phones?  We wrote letters, sent telegrams (feared because they often contained bad news), and made phone calls from home, office, or pay phones.  Pay phones were found on every corner, in stores, gas stations, and restaurants.  For many years you could make a local call for a dime.

     Today we have email, PDA's,and cell phones.  The emails we can block but we always answer our cell phones.  You will often hear whole conversations, that aren't aimed at you and hold no interest.  Past generations did not have to confront this rudeness.  Our entire society was a lot more genteel.  We went out of the way to be polite and not intrude on others.

   Let's Talk.com has developed some guidelines for cell phone use so you can avoid bothering other people with your calls.

MUTE

   Many establishments now request that you not use your phone when on their premises. Pay attention to the rules, they have been written for a reason.

INCOMING CALLS

   Personalized and joke ringtones are especially offensive.  Try giving certain people unique ringtones, like I've done for my Father, so you know which calls have to be answered.  Let everything else go to voicemail until later.

VOLUMN CONTROL

   It is not necessary to scream into your phone.  If you have a good signal your indoor voice will do; if not no amount of screaming will help

SHORT AND SWEET

   When in public relate information and hang up.  You can go into the details later on your own time.

DON'T TEXT AND DRIVE

   Besides being very dangerous texting while driving is probably against the law.  If you must respond pull over or call back when you stop.

EXCUSE YOURSELF BEFORE TAKING THE CALL

   Emergencies do arise. Some calls may be unavoidable.  Let the people you are with know, in advance, that if you hear a particular ringtone you will have to take the call.

NO PICTURES, PLEASE
   Always ask before taking pictures.  You could your friends in a very uncompromising position.