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Each month, Don Yaeger, a four-time New York Times best-selling author and award-winning motivational speaker, shares one of his 16 Characteristics of Greatness through the eyes of a great winner from the world of sports. At the end of the e-newsletter, find tips on how to apply this winning characteristic to your life.
Believe...
The truly Great have faith in a higher power.  

 

As the college football season came to its official close last night with the national championship game, one of the enduring memories of this post-Bowden modeling 10 of his championship ringsseason came at the Gator Bowl in Jacksonville. There, college football's second all-time winningest coach Bobby Bowden was carried off the field as his Florida State Seminoles won in what was Bowden's final game.

 

The numbers that detail Bowden's career are mind-numbing: 389 wins, 12 ACC titles, two national championships, two Heisman trophy winners, 15 straight seasons where his team finished ranked in the Top 5.

 

But for Bowden, football was his job--it has never the most important part of his life. He was asked recently how he felt about his retirement, and whether or not he got emotional thinking about it.  His response was simple: "I'm not paying a lot of attention to it. I have never tried to make football my God. I think coaches that make it their God have a struggle. For me, I'm just starting a new life."

 

It is this steadfast faith in something higher that has carried Bowden through the peaks and valleys of his career and his personal life.  His faith is Monthly quoteso important to him that he wanted each player who has come to FSU to have some exposure to what it means. As a result, he has spent the last 34 years asking permission from the parents of every new Seminole recruit to include that player in the two Sunday trips they take each season.  One is to a church whose membership is predominantly African-American, and the other is to one that has more Caucasian members. Bowden told me recently (click here to listen to the interview) that in all the years he coached, only two parents asked that their sons not be part of those trips. "I understood why in each case," the coach said, "and Bowden coached 26 consensus All-Americans, including Charlie WardI think they understood what I try to do with these trips. I just want to make sure our young men knew where they could go when things got tough... and they will get tough."

 

When he lost a grandson and former son-in-law in an automobile accident during Hurricane Frances in 2004, Bowden insisted it was no time to question God, but instead, to deepen his trust that there is an ultimate plan to all things.  He urges his players towards sportsmanship, prayer, and charitable involvement--and he practices these things himself.  In fact, in 2004, the Fellowship of Christian Athletes established the Bobby Bowden Award to honor one college athlete who stands out as a prime example of someone living his or her faith and principles.

 

Bowden's career may be ending, but his faith is--and has always been--in something much bigger and more lasting than even college football.

 

 

Tips from the Great Ones

 

In a career as storied and celebrated at Bobby Bowden's, there is much cause for celebrating one's own success.  But Bowden has always kept a much more humble perspective, infusing his interviews with his famous self-deprecating humor and crediting his opportunities and success to God.

 

Bowden joking with his players before practiceThe Great ones like Bobby Bowden understand that career accomplishments are not the ultimate measure of a person.  Instead, they understand that a life lived with belief is a life of purpose and direction.

 

What do you believe?  What tenets dictate your decisions, your attitude, your outlook on life?  What standards do you hold for yourself, and how do you live them out?  Take ten minutes today to write down an answer to these questions.  The more clearly you understand your beliefs, the more active a part they can play in your life.

 

If you do not already have one, find a way to incorporate these beliefs into your every day routine.  Whether it is a prayer to start your day during your morning commute or a few minutes of mediation before bed, see if you can carve out a short block at the same time each day to reflect on your beliefs and re-center yourself.

 

Greatness believes that there is a way of living that looks to a higher power for guidance, and finds strength in the practice of this faith.  In short, the truly great believe in something Greater.

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16 Consistent Characteristics of Greatness

HOW THEY THINK
1. It's Personal - They hate to lose more than they love to win.

2. Rubbing Elbows - They understand the value of association.

3. Believe - They have faith in a higher power.

4. Contagious Enthusiasm - They are positive thinkers... They are enthusiastic... and that enthusiasm rubs off.

HOW THEY PREPARE
5. Hope For the Best, But... - They prepare for all possibilities before they step on the field.

6. What Off-Season? - They are always working towards the next game... The goal is what's ahead, and there's always something ahead.

7. Visualize Victory - They see victory before the game begins

8. Inner Fire - They use adversity as fuel.

HOW THEY WORK
9. Ice In Their Veins - They are risk-takers and don't fear making a mistake.

10. When All Else Fails - They know how - and when - to adjust their game plan.

11. Ultimate Teammate - They will assume whatever role is necessary for the team to win.

12. Not Just About the Benjamins - They don't play just for the money.

HOW THEY LIVE
13. Do Unto Others - They know character is defined by how they treat those who cannot help them.

14. When No One is Watching - They are comfortable in the mirror... they live their life with integrity.

15. When Everyone Is Watching - They embrace the idea of being a role model.

16. Records Are Made to Be Broken - They know their legacy isn't what they did on the field. They are well-rounded.

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