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         THE MONTHLY CAUCUS  
 
The  Episcopal Women's Caucus:
 Advocating for women since 1971,
 theologically, spiritually and politically.
 
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     OCT 2010  
 
 
No -  You did not miss the September issue of Monthly Caucus - the editor missed it. She apologizes...
 
IN THIS ISSUE: Imagine a world which is free from sexual and domestic violence or gender violence in war, a world in which men and women relate as equal partners made in God's image. The October Monthly Caucus calls our attention to the ways we can raise awareness about the hard topic of gender violence and perhaps find the means to contribute in some respect to bring about that vision of freedom, of justice - where all are cared and provided for - equally.  The following articles are included:
 
* Three Episcopal Women's groups join in solidarity against violence by Kim Robey  
 
* The Tamar Project from Africa (this project makes us aware that gender violence is not limited to any one area of the world)
 
A Bible study on the story of Tamar (a practical way to raise awareness)
 
* Two book reviews on books by authors who dared to tackle tough issues.  
 
Why I support the Caucus by Nigel Renton (a man's viewpoint on supporting women)
 
We would love to hear from you about these issues and how they do or don't form your thinking and living. You can always get a good discussion going on our Facebook page, and please do check out our new Episcopal Women's Caucus website: www.episcopalwomenscaucus.org.

 
Please feel free to pass along articles to friends or forward this email ... and let us hear from you. And if you are a member and would like to "re-up" your membership, please do so by filling out the coupon at the bottom of the page. If you are new to the Caucus and would like to be a member, please use the same form.

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Quote of the Month: How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world. ---Anne Frank

NO TO VIOLENCE X 3: ECW, AWE, EWC 

Partnership formed between 3 women's organizations in the Episcopal Church to combat violence against women- written by Kim Robey

 

"Violence against women is the most pervasive human rights violation in the world" is a sentiment spoken by Kofi Annan and echoed by almost every human rights organization, the United Nations, and countless other NGOs around the world.  Everyone from Eve Ensler, who has created her own non-profit to advocate against violence to Nickolas Kristoff in his best selling book Half the Sky, has voiced what we all know...violence against women continues at an alarming pace.  Right here in the US, violence against women and girls manifests itself in human trafficking, rape, domestic violence, pornography and less severe ways every day. No aspect of our society is immune. 

 

For the first time, the Episcopal Church Women (ECW), the Episcopal Women's Caucus (EWC) and Anglican Women's Empowerment (AWE) will partner for the purpose of developing an Episcopal Church campaign of activism and awareness to coincide with the 16 days of activism international campaign established by the Center for Women's Global Leadership at Rutgers University.

 

Known as the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence Campaign, the campaign starts on November 25, International Day Against Violence Against Women and runs for 16 days until December 10, International Human Rights Day, in order to emphasize that gender violence is a violation of human rights. This 16-day period also highlights other significant dates including November 29, International Women Human Rights Defenders Day, December 1, World AIDS Day, and December 6, which marks the Anniversary of the Montreal Massacre.

Since 1991, over 2,000 organizations in approximately 156 countries have participated in the campaign which focuses on:

  • raising awareness about gender-based violence as a human rights issue at the local, national, regional and international levels
  • strengthening local work around violence against women
  • establishing a clear link between local and international work to end violence against women
  • providing a forum in which organizers can develop and share new and effective strategies
  • demonstrating the solidarity of women around the world organizing against violence against women
  • creating tools to pressure governments to implement promises made to eliminate violence against women

The Episcopal Church version of the campaign will recognize that the dates will overlap with Advent and will begin on Thanksgiving.  There will be opportunities for people and churches to write and share prayers and liturgies celebrating both Christ's coming into the world and the elimination of violence against women.  Our campaign will be shared with other provinces within our Communion on the International Anglican Women's Network (IAWN).  IAWN considers the elimination of violence against women to be it's number one priority.

 

During the 16 days of activism, churches will be encouraged to participate through prayer, special services to mark the occasion, sermons to emphasize the issue, speakers or films at adult forums, articles written in church and diocesan publications, and many other ways. A blog is in development so that people can share what they are doing. Each organization will have information available but together we will create a resource which can be distributed to all.

 

We invite you to share your prayers, liturgies, stories, and resources about gender violence by sending them to president@ecwnational.org .

 

Together in solidarity, we lift up this very important issue.

 

 

Marcia Himes, President for ECW                  http://ecwnational.org/

Elizabeth Kaeton, Convener for EWC  http://www.episcopalwomenscaucus.org/

Kim Robey, Chair for AWE                   http://anglicanwomensempowerment.org/

 

see http://www.cwgl.rutgers.edu/16days/about.html

 

 

The TAMAR Campaign

The Tamar Campaign seeks to acknowledge the existence of Gender-Based Violence in our society, with particular focus on sexual and domestic violence, and to challenge churches to address the problem. The church is uniquely placed to play a decisive role in the prevention and elimination of the different forms of violence against women and children. It has the clout and capacity to minister to the needs of those who have been abused as well as those who are perpetrators.  The church can provide opportunities for healing for victims, for example, by providing emotional and spiritual support, counseling, and shelter. This would complement the efforts of hospitals, civil society organizations, and the police. It can also provide sanctions and deterrent measures for perpetrators, for example, by holding them accountable for their deeds, and through counseling. The church can play a proactive role through its preaching and teaching about the evil of Gender-Based Violence, thereby setting standards for societal values that protect the well-

The Campaign's vision is a continent, which is free from sexual and domestic violence, in which men, and women relate as equal partners made in God's image.
 
The Campaign's mission is to demonstrate God's compassion and justice to women and children who suffer indignity and violation through sexual and domestic violence. The Campaign's primary goal is therefore, to work towards the prevention and elimination of sexual and domestic violence.
 
Objectives:
  • To raise awareness on the prevalence, magnitude and consequences of sexual and domestic violence.
  • To encourage churches to speak out against the abuse of women and children
  • To promote Bible studies and curricula on violence against women/children for use in the logical institutions and churches. 
  • To build the capacity of churches to provide support and opportunities for healing for victims of sexual and domestic violence.
  • To encourage churches to hold perpetrators accountable for their violence.
  • To collaborate with churches on violence prevention e.g. through programms for men and youth.
  • To strengthen churches' networking and collaboration with civil society organizations, health service providers, schools, the police, judiciary, local administration, media and other stakeholders in addressing the problem of sexual and domestic violence.
 "Don't my brother, do not force me. Such a thing should not be done in Israel. Don't do this wicked thing!"  Samuel 13:12 
 
The Tamar Campaign offers Contextual Bible Study (CBS)
CBS is central to Tamar Campaign; CBS is a way of studying the Bible through one's own context (Ujamaa Centre, South Africa) CBS provide a safe space to discuss issues on Gender Based Violence thus a space for healing.
 
A report and curricula may be downloaded for free by going to: http://www.fecclaha.org/index.php?page=tamar-campaign.
 
For one CBS see the study guide below.
This document may be used in other publications or partially reproduced on condition that credit is given to the source. It may not be used for commercial purposes.© 2007 The Fellowship of Christian Councils and Churches in the Great Lakes and The Horn of Africa (FECCLAHA)
 
TAMAR- A CASE STUDY: 2 Samuel 13: 1-22
Use the NRSV version of the Bible
 
 
Introduction
The text is is a neglected and marginalised text of 2 Samuel 13:1-22, which is found in few lectionaries and seldom publicly read (and never on a Sunday). To begin the Bible study read the story aloud and then respond to the following questions.
 
· What do you think about the text?
· Who are the main characters in the story and what do we know about them?
· What is the role of each of the male characters in the rape of Tamar?
· What does Tamar say and does Tamar do?
· Are there women like Tamar in your church and/or community?
     If yes tell their story?
· What is the theology of women who have been raped?
· What resources are there in your area for survivors of rape?
· What will you now do in response to this bible study?

 
Authors who have taken on tough topics
 
NEVADA BARR is an award-winning novelist and New York Times best-selling author.  She has a growing number of Anna Pigeon (a feisty, 50 something park ranger) mysteries to her credit as well as numerous other books, short stories, and articles.  She currently resides in New Orleans with her husband and is Episcopalian. In her book Seeking  Enlightenment: Hat by Hat she writes: " I chose the Episcopal church over a temple, mosque, or churches inhabited by Presbyterians, Catholics, or Baptists because it was close to my apartment and, the evening the whim came upon me to turn to God, the front doors were unlocked.  I didn't come to worship, I came because I was lonely, frightened, and desperately unhappy....and those pesky Episcopalians invited me in."
Nevad Barr  
Nevada Barr's latest book Burn may have a zippy write-up on Amazon but be forewarned - the real topic in this book is about child slavery - in our own country. The trafficking of human beings in our time, especially that of children and women is embedded in even the most 'touristy' of places in America. This is a hard book to read and yet at the same time, it brings an acute awareness of how we may miss what is going on in our own towns.  
 
Diocesan Conventions are good gatherings in which to invite local authorities to make presentations about what to look for and what can be to done to help victims of human trafficking.
 
 
Larrson 
STEIG LARSSON At his death in November 2004, Larsson left three unpublished novels that made up a trilogy. They became posthumous best-sellers in several European countries as well as in the United States.
Larsson, who was disgusted by sexual violence, witnessed the gang rape
of a young girl when he was 15. He never forgave himself for failing to help the girl, whose name was Lisbeth - like the young heroine of his books, herself a rape victim, which inspired the theme of sexual violence against women in his books.
 
The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (original title in
Swedish: Män som hatar kvinnor - "Men Who Hate Women") is a hard book to read. Larsson begins each chapter with statistics about violenece against women in Sweden. Some of the scenes are pretty graphic and violent but rape is a violent act of power over and against another.Though difficult, reading the other two books that follow is worthwhile...they, like Nevada Barr's book, point to how those in authority often misuse and abuse their power.
 
 

WHAT CAN YOU (or your church) DO TO HELP VICTIMS OF VIOLENCE or HUMAN TRAFFICKING?

Extend a hand - that offers a gift card.
Think: phone card - chain store card - grocery store card 
 
Contact your local shelter for abused women or contact the local authorities for where to send these cards (you will not be told locations where victims reside). Victims often need clothes or food for their families and have left home for a safe place with few clothes and no source of income.  Victims often need to get in touch with friends or family but have no phone access. These simple cards empower them to choose what they need.
 
 Print the number for the local abuse hot-line or shelter and
paste on the inside of the booth doors in the ladies' room.
 
If you mention the topic of trafficking or abuse
  in a church newsletter
or bulletin - include
  the numbers for a hot-line or shelter.
 
GET EDUCATED
The following resources can be ordered through book stores
 or web sites.
 

 from  www.faithtrustinstitute.org - by Marie Fortune

Violence in the Family: A Workshop Curriculum for Clergy and Other Helpers

For use in continuing education for clergy and in training community advocates to address religious questions. Includes teaching and worship materials which can be duplicated. and

Keeping the Faith: Guidance for Christian* Women Facing Abuse

 (You are a Christian woman, a woman of faith who has been abused by a member of your family...You may feel abandoned by your church; you may feel abandoned by God. Now more than ever you need your faith and the support of the community of faith to be with you through this crisis. [This book] is written to...remind you that God is present to you even now and that there are Christians who do understand your pain, your fear, and your doubt. It is written so that we in the Christian community can keep the faith with you during this time of your life. We will not turn away from you; we will not abandon you. We will walk with you as you seek to end the abuse in your life." -- from the Introduction)

* the same title from other faith traditions is also available

Marie Fortune has been a pioneer in the field of religion and fortunedomestic violence and a leading national expert on sexual exploitation by religious leaders. Founder and Senior Analyst at the Seattle-based FaithTrust Institute (formerly the Center for the Prevention of Sexual and Domestic Violence), Rev. Fortune has served on the National Advisory Council on Violence Against Women for the U.S. Department of Justice from 1994-2002 and currently serves on the Defense Task Force on Domestic Violence for the US Defense Department. She is also the editor of the Journal of Religion and Abuse.

 

cooperwhite

The Cry of Tamar: Violence Against Women and the Church's Response by Pamela Cooper-White.

  Pamela Cooper-White is Professor of Pastoral Theology, Care & Counseling at Columbia Theological Seminary. Her book gives information and insight to the cultural and religious support of violence against women and the pervasive media and cultural propaganda that supports violence, especially violence against women. 
 
 

Nigel Renton WHY I SUPPORT THE CAUCUS by Nigel Renton 

Nigel Renton has been an active layman in the Diocese of California for more than 50 years. A retired business leader, he received an honorary doctorate from CDSP in 2009 for his many years of service to the Episcopal Church. He and his wife of more than 40 years live in Berkeley. Nigel's brief weekly blogs may be found at rentonia.blogspot.com.
 
In my childhood, I respected my elderly father, who died in 1940 at the age of 82 when I was only 13. However, it was my mother who took me to church and was active in "good works," such as organizing and running a "well baby" clinic for impoverished mothers in another part of town.

 

My elder sister was another important influence. She preceded me to Oxford University, and went on to William Temple College, a postgraduate establishment for lay church workers, named after one of the Church of England's most highly regarded Archbishops of Canterbury. She became a "Lady Almoner," the quaint name then given to a hospital social worker in the UK.

 

I never cared for the "manly" outdoor sports - fox-hunting, shooting birds, or even fishing. I was interested in politics, the theatre, journalism, and other fields in which women were at least starting to have influence. When it was my turn to obtain a place at Oxford, I soon found that many of my most intelligent friends there were women. I also began to realize that Anglican clergy did not want to give up their dominance over church matters. I became a quiet advocate for equality of the sexes. To this day, I consider myself a feminist.

 

There was always strong competition for the deputation to General Convention (GC) from the Diocese of California. I had no thought of running for election until 1982, after the division of our diocese to create the diocese of El Camino Real. Several of the California deputation's "regulars" became members of the new diocese. At our diocesan convention prior to 1982, I noticed that there was an opening to complete the eight lay slots for deputies and alternates. I asked someone from our parish - probably the rector - to nominate me from the floor. That was all I needed; one more election - this time as first alternate in 1985 - and then in 1988 I became a deputy. I have been a GC junkie ever since.

 

I recently had to "straighten out" an old friend who had confused EWC with the ECW. It brought to mind how, at New Orleans in 1982, I came to know about the difference between two entirely distinct organizations.

 

I have nothing against the ECW. When I saw how much money was collected through the little blue Mite Boxes of the ECW's United Thank Offering, I set aside my wonder at the need for a separate Episcopal Church group for women, since the doors to legislative eligibility and ordination had been opened. (The ECW's Triennial had always before seemed like a glorified Provincial Synod, a sort of "Potlatch" in search of a meaningful agenda.)

 

So it was at GC that I became fully aware of EWC. I noticed that many of the women deputies and alternates who had impressed me by their work on the floor of the convention or in committee work were among the leaders of the EWC. I promptly bought a shirt telling the world "A Woman's Place ... is in the House of Bishops." (This was long before Barbara Harris was elected in 1989.) A few years later, I bought one of my favorite coffee mugs: "God is not a boy's name."

 

Over the years, I have attended many EWC Sunday breakfasts at GC, where I have been one of a sprinkling of fellow males, there to enjoy the fun of what is always a joyful occasion.

 

I also learned at GC that the EWC accepted male members. I had for years been an advocate of women in the ordained ministry, and I had now found a way to show support. I have been a paid-up member ever since.

 

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