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         THE MONTHLY CAUCUS  
 
The  Episcopal Women's Caucus:
 Advocating for women since 1971,
 theologically, spiritually and politically.
 
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      May 2010  
 

Raising Our Voices: Elizabeth Kaeton, Convener, EWC

 

Welcome to the first issue of "The Monthly Caucus" - a monthly email newsletter of the Episcopal Women's Caucus.  In addition to our commitment to publish our magazine Ruach three times a year, we hope "TMC" will be a way for the Caucus to use our one voice to raise the multitude of voices of other women about the issues of theology, spirituality and politics, especially as these pertain to women.

 

Sometimes, those issues will intersect.  We know that the old saying, "The Personal is Political," has never been more true. Sometimes, theology is political and politics can be spiritual.   In the world of women, everything is connected. Each month we will feature a reflection from a different viewpoint.

 

This month, an amazing young woman raises her voice and prove that point.   Allie Graham is an intelligent, creative young woman who is passionate about her faith, her church, and the lives of women.  When she signed on to the Caucus Facebook page, she asked, "So how does one become 'involved' in the EWC?"  I thought that was an excellent question and asked her what she, and her contemporaries, need from an organization to feel involved and connected.  You can read her thoughts here.

 

We hope this inspires you to raise your own voice in advocacy for women.  If you like, you may print this newsletter and leave copies around your church or office.

 

 If you scroll down to the bottom of the page, you can click on a link to email "The Monthly Caucus" to your friends.  We also encourage you to copy and paste quotes or articles from "TMC" into your parish bulletin or newsletter, with proper attribution, of course.  We welcome you to leave your comments on our FaceBook page.

 

Advocating for women has always been the passion at the center of the Caucus.  It is our fuel and our food, our nourishment and our sustenance.  We hope to always raise our voice for the cause of women - in the church, in our communities, in this nation and around the world.

 

We're delighted to have you join us.

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 BISHOPS SUFFRAGAN ORDINATION
AND CONSECRATION
 

All are invited no tickets; needed for admission 

 Saturday, May 15 at Long Beach arena  
 Convention Center, Long Beach California
 
12:30 Celebration gathering - featuring music and dance highlighting the cultural diversity of the diocesan community 
 
1:30 Liturgy for the Ordination and Consecration
 of bishops suffragan 
 
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DID YOU KNOW DEPT?

Chief Judge Emily C. Hewitt,United States Court of Federal Claims, was a leader of the effort to open Episcopal ordination to women. Chief Judge Hewitt was one of the first eleven women ordained to the Episcopal priesthood on July 29, 1974 and served from 1973-1975 as assistant professor of religion and education at Andover Newton Theological School in Newton Centre, Massachusetts. 
 

 

 
 QUICKLINKS
 
Allie Graham:  Alicia Graham, who describes herself as an "Episcojew" is a deputy from the diocese of NJ who was also at Lambeth 2008 as one of the young Stewards there.  You can find her reflections about Lambeth at Tales of a Lambeth Steward
 
http://alambethsteward.blogspot.com
 
  Allie                      
A few years ago I recall hearing a female priest brag that she had two children and never missed a Sunday due to the pregnancy or childbirth.  I was shocked.  Shocked both at the ability to undergo such an ordeal and the expectation, but also shocked that she would find this something to brag about - something to be proud of. Women have come a long way in both the secular and church worlds.  Women's gifts are being appreciated in many ways, and women are working and serving in capacities that were only imaginable 75 years ago.   Although my peers are able to have aspirations that used to be available only to men, we are now falling to a trap of thinking that men and women are the same.

 

I am not disputing by any stretch that men and women are capable of completing the same jobs and working them well.  I am simply saying, as has been said many times before, that women deserve equal pay for equal work.  Work, in physics, is the transfer of energy from one physical system to another or, more commonly, physical or mental effort or activity directed toward the production or accomplishment of something.  We need to consider all of the work that women do, and by any of these definitions, giving birth is definitely work. Cooking and cleaning are work.  When I look around, I see an expectation that women will earn what their husbands earn (or at least 77¢/$1), and then go home and pull almost as much work taking children to events, cooking, and cleaning etc.

 

During the 2008 presidential campaign many people questioned Republican Vice-Presidential candidate Sarah Palin's ability to both govern and mother.   She responded that she did not see why this question was being asked of her as a woman, but not of Obama, who also had young children.  The relevance of this question aside, my answer was this: Michelle Obama made it clear that she was going to be the primary child caretaker while her husband was in office.  Todd Palin made no such gesture.  A truly equitable society for women does not merely mean allowing women to take on the roles traditionally assigned to men, but the complete deassigment of traditional gender roles.  

 

Many young (and some not so young) women believe that we are there: that women have gotten to a point where we don't need to work towards equitability.  We have a woman as Presiding Bishop and a woman as President of the House of Deputies.  We have had two women serve as Secretary of State in a row and almost 20% of US senators are women.

 

But I believe that most women still do not feel free, and are instead burdened (often joyfully so) with additional expectations rather than options.  When we reach a time where stay-at-home dads are truly deemed an acceptable course choice rather than the place of "men who earn less than their wives" and the mother not deemed a "workaholic", we will be there.  When women in the church are paid the same amount as a man for the same size parish, we will be there. When women in the world earn the same amount as men for the same job and can leave their children, if they choose, with their spouse, and when we value the work that women only can do (child birth), we will be there.

 

Until then, we must keep working, keep prioritizing, and keep finding time to work together to make systemic change and to help the world better understand and utilize the gifts that God has given and will continue to give us and our daughters into the future. 


 

Quote for the Month: Cautious, careful people, always casting about to preserve their reputation and social standing, never can bring about a reform. Those who are really in earnest must be willing to be anything or nothing in the world's estimation.
 Susan B. Anthony, reformer and suffragist (1820-1906)

STANDING WOMEN - MAY 9, 2010 - MOTHER'S DAY

Standing Women (www.standingwomen.org), which includes children and men, stand together across the globe every year on the second Sunday in May at 1 p.m. local time, for five minutes of silence, in witness and prayer for the world's children and grandchildren, and for the seven generations beyond them. If you would like to participate, pick a spot to 'stand' and then log on to Standing Women and tell them where you'll be.Or, when you log on - find where others may be 'standing' near you and join them.

 

The Standing Women concept originated with a number of women associated with Ohio State University, although this was not a university project.  In early 2006 a group of women who met in conversation felt that women everywhere were just weary about where the world was moving and, more importantly, that women everyone were ready to stand up and do something about it. The group also knew that many men were ready to stand up, also.

 

In the summer of 2006, they came across the origins of Mother's Day in the U.S. from Jean Shinoda Bolen's book Urgent Message from Mother: Gather the Women, Save the World. Julia Ward Howe issued the original Mother's Day Proclamation in 1870:

 

"Arise, then, women of this day! Arise all women who have hearts, whether our baptism be that of water or of tears! Say firmly: 'We will not have great questions decided by irrelevant agencies. Our husbands shall not come to us, reeking with carnage, for caresses and applause. Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn all that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience. We women of one country will be too tender of those of another country to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs.' From the bosom of the devastated earth a voice goes up with our own. It says 'Disarm, Disarm! The sword of murder is not the balance of justice.' Blood does not wipe our dishonor nor violence indicate possession. As men have often forsaken the plow and the anvil at the summons of war, let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel. Let them meet first, as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead. Let them then solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means whereby the great human family can live in peace, each bearing after their own time the sacred impress, not of Caesar, but of God. In the name of womanhood and of humanity, I earnestly ask that a general congress of women without limit of nationality may be appointed and held at some place deemed most convenient and at the earliest period consistent with its objects, to promote the alliance of the different nationalities, the amicable settlement of international questions, the great and general interests of peace."

 

After reading this proclamation they began to feel that they needed to do something for  Mother's Day, May 13, 2007. When Jean Shinoda Bolen spoke at Ohio State in October, 2006, the group discussed their thoughts with her and she showed them a little book which was the original version of The Great Silent Grandmother Gathering by Sharon Mehdi. www.grandmotherbook.com  After reading the book, and talking to Jean, the group decided to issue a call to the women of the world to stand together to save the world; to save the world's  children. Since that time Standing Women (www.standingwomen.org) have been gathering every Mother's Day at 1:00 PM local time to stand in silence. A bell is rung at 1 p.m. to signify the beginning of the five minutes of silence and is rung again to signify the end of the period of silence. During the silence, people are asked to think about what they as individuals and with others collectively can do to attain this world. Men are always encouraged to participate.

 

 We are standing for the world's children and grandchildren,

 and for the seven generations  beyond them.

We dream of a world where all of our children have safe drinking water,

 clean air to breathe, and enough food to eat.

A world where they have access to  a basic education to develop their minds

 and healthcare to nurture their growing bodies.

A world where they have a warm, safe and loving place to call home.

A world where they don't live  in fear of violence - in their home,

 in their neighborhood,  in their school or in their world.

This is the world of which we dream. This is the cause for which we stand.

 

 

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