NHCS Teams, including Undefeated Elementary Boys, Bring Home Victories!

Students Excel at Regional Science Fair, Math Olympics, and Regional Spelling Bee

Vision Banquet & Spring Concert

    This year, North Hills hosts three exchange students: Korean sisters, Sa-Rang and Ro-Eun Park, as well as Felix Frank from Germany.  The Park sisters have lived with our Spanish teacher, Sucy de Leon for the past two years.  "As far as home life is concerned," Miss de Leon said, "We enjoy relaxing watching a good movie, discussing ideas and Biblical doctrine.  I have definitely enjoyed having them at home with me."  Felix lives with his sister, who immigrated to the United States when she married her husband.

     Please continue to pray that God will bless the exchange students and that they will be a blessing to us.  Pray that Christ will open doors that will enable prospective students to come and hear the Word of God.  What better way to fulfill our school's mission to "...equip hearts and minds of students to impact the world for Christ?"

Fellowship Pancake Breakfast 

Buttons and Shoelaces:
A Message from Mr. Mitchell, our Head of School

     When my daughter was in kindergarten, I struggled to teach her how to tie her shoes.  After a demonstration or two, it became clear that she didn't want my input.  "I want to do it myself," she insisted.  "How can a child learn to tie her shoe laces without help?" I thought.  After a few brief moments of continued explanation, I realized that I wasn't going to get very far.  Madeline had already made up her mind that she was going to do it, and that was final!  So, I left her alone to keep working at it, and I went on with my day.  A few hours later, she came running to me, "Daddy!  Daddy!  I've got it!"  She was so proud of her accomplishment; I was proud of her, too.

     The next night, as my children slipped into their pajamas before bed, it struck me that Maddie knew how to button her own pajamas.  Not remembering a time when my wife or I had taught her to do so, I asked her how she had learned.  She smiled and replied, "I just figured it out, Daddy!"

     With two simple encounters, my daughter tangibly reminded me of a lesson from my professional training.  Research, educational literature, and classroom experience have taught me to let children learn by discovery - by "figuring it out."  However, when it came to teaching (and parenting) my own child, the instinct to protect - in this case, from frustration and failure - got in my daughter's way.  Maybe father didn't know best after all.

     I believe this illustration is instructive for us not only as educators, but also as parents.  Too often, our instincts tell us to jump in and fix our children's problems for them.  In our well-intended efforts to protect our children, we often rob them of the opportunities to learn to solve problems, handle disappointment, and fight their own battles.  We also take away the pride and success that comes from having "figured it out."  With the best of intentions, we frequently "over-parent" our children.

     Likewise, in school, these young ones often need to figure out life for themselves.  They can learn on their own how to stay organized; to keep up with their own homework; to track their own academic progress; to resolve their own conflicts; and to ask their teachers for help.  They need to be adaptable to the teacher or coach whose teaching or coaching doesn't match the child's preferred learning style.  They need opportunities to learn how to handle disappointment.  Perhaps not getting an award, or not making the athletic team isn't so bad for our kids after all.  It's only natural for us to emotionally respond to our children's hurts.  Yet, while "have it your way" may have been a successful tag line for Burger King, using such an approach to parenting is detrimental to our quest to raise children who become mature, godly young men and women who are prepared to succeed in adulthood. 

     There's much to be learned from buttons and shoe laces.  May God give us the grace and wisdom to be parents who prepare our children for the road of life.  Perhaps more importantly, may He also give us the grace and wisdom to ensure that we do not choose instead to prepare the road of life for our children.