Deny. "I wasn't aware." What could be easier than avoiding a task by pretending it never existed?
This tactic is only open to people wired in a certain way. Some personality types (particularly those with a judging preference) cannot imagine pretending that an assignment never existed. Those with a perceiving preference, where every day is new, are often quite expert at this tactic.
The upside: Sometimes things really don't have to be done and if you can just move on without giving them another thought, you're better off.
The downside: It can be like taking prescription drugs - great when used properly, addictive and debilitating when abused.
Delay. "I will do it tomorrow." OK, some people find it is easier to admit that a task exists, while simply choosing to put it off.
This strategy may be part of a larger prioritization system recognizing that not all tasks are equal. If you really cannot do it all today, then, by definition, some tasks have to be delayed.
The upside: Prioritizing is key to success - you must not be ruled by the urgent, the insistent, or the loudest person in the room.
The downside: If delay isn't part of strategic prioritization, it can be fatal since there really are deadlines in life and not all of them are known. For example, you keel over from a heart attack because eventually clogged arteries close.
Delegate. "I need you to do this." If you've got someone to whom you can delegate, then it doesn't get any easier.
Except that delegating can bring on a new task - following up to make sure that the person completes the delegated task as intended and by the deadline.
The upside: When you have competent people who can be trusted, partnering with those having complementary skills is the surest way to maximize your effectiveness.
The downside: Delegating to those who are incompetent or cannot be trusted simply makes your life more complicated as you must now manage not only yourself, but another. (Unless, of course, you are gifted in denial - then you can delegate and forget. See the downside of "Deny" before doing this.)
Do. "I completed the task as intended and by the deadline." Completing a task is often the result of disciplined effort.
Without getting into another topic entirely, I'll simply say that my theology contains these beliefs:
- We were made to work.
- Meaningful work is something to be cherished and nurtured rather than avoided.
- Meaning can be found in any work that is ethical because humans have the capacity to instill meaning through their participation. That is, I find meaning both in washing dishes and in serving clients.
The upside: This is the place you go to visit the joy of work. It is here that you realize why you matter and how you can make a difference in the lives of others.
The downside: Some people want to distinguish being from doing, arguing that being is the more important of the two. While I agree that some people live frenetically without experiencing contentment, peace or joy, I believe that who I am (my being) can be discovered and expressed through what I do.