847.566.3122  www.trulyhumancoaching.com April 2010

...The Shadow Knows

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The funny thing about language is that it is generated unconscoiusly...for most people.
 
Who is that man behind the curtain?
wizard of oz
 
Every day we are communicating with others, talking, listening, to each word, one conversation after the other.
 
 
Richard Bandler, the genius behind NeuroLinguistic programming said during a NLP Trainers Training Seminar: 
 
"Every time you speak you are presenting to others, even if it is an audience of one."
 
We are...whether it be an audience of 1 or 250... we are presenting, we want to make a certain 'impression' or communicate something.
 
"Are you creating the impact you want in your conversations? Or is something else happening?"
 
This month we delve into places where language is formed. Into places many people ignore. It may serve you to become aquainted with these places. Read more about these mysterious and powerful places in:
 
"Our Shadow Selves: who's running the show?
 
 
and there's more... 
 
For those of you with interests specific to:
 
  •  influence
  • comunicating with elegance
  • avoiding conflict
  • negotiating succussfully
 
I wish you fun and prosperity... to enjoy your day, enjoy the articles and everything else that is here for you.  
 
With love, 
 
Jim
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What lurks in the minds.....
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Do you know who's running the show?

           

 

 "The path to enlightenment includes not only the search for the divine but also the total acceptance of the shadow self."               Deepak Chopra, M.D.

"We must stop judging ourselves, we must forgive ourselves for being human. We must forgive ourselves for being imperfect.  Because when we judge ourselves, we automatically judge others."          Debbie Ford: From: The Dark Side of the Light Chaser

  

           

            People seek personal growth or professional help when the pain or burden feels heavy, too much to carry alone.  The work with our shadow selves is about discovering and accepting those parts of ourselves that, because we have denied them, are running our lives much like the man behind the curtain in "The Wizard of Oz".  Often these shadow selves are destroying our relationships, killing our spirit and keeps us from living a life we love.  

 

 Read the article and begin to be free of your shadow!    

 
What is that NLP stuff?
What's going on in Your Head?
   
 
"NeuroLinguistic Programming (NLP) is excellence and magic in communication; a set of principles that opens up a universe of possibilities."
 
That's just one definition... there are many...
   
NLP is really about modeling communication excellence and making these models available to others...
Like you...
 
You see, the technology behind NLP is much like the advanced technology of computers, medicine or engineering...
 
And now these tools are available to you?
 
Did you know that NLP is a rage across Europe? WHY???
 
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Beliefs are generalizations we humans create about causes, meaning and boundaries in the world we live in. They are in fact our map, our reality.
 
*Working with beliefs is often at the core of significant life change work*
 
In this 1 1/2 hour teleclass:
  
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Who do you know...?   
 
Who do you know that enjoys:
 
  • Personal development
  • Spirituality
  • NLP
  • Building Authentic Relationships
  • Self help books
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Please take a moment and think: "...who would enjoy this newsletter?"
 
Now, forward this newsletter to whoever came to mind!
 
Jim Accetta
Truly Human Coaching
www.trulyhumancoaching.com
847.566.3122
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