School is Not Real Life - Introduction
In the past year, I've started many of my
speeches by asking my audiences to repeat
after me as I state, "School is not real life!"
They usually chuckle and don't say anything,
and I then lean forward and say, "I'm not
kidding. Let's all say it together. School is not
real life!"
Everywhere we turn we are lead to believe
that school-and school success-is
absolutely the most important thing during
our children's childhood years. We are
judged as parents according to how well our
children perform in school, how well they
behave, the grades they get, and whether or
not we have taught our children how to "fit in"
and do the work of getting good grades.
How many people recognize that "Best
Practices" and "Standards" imply a one-size-
fits-all approach to instruction that assumes
that all children pretty much learn the same
way, at the same speed, and at the same
ages? How many of you are guilty of
accepting and believing that one early task of
the school years is to learn to get along with
the other children their age? To whom does
it occur that we really don't learn social skills
from fellow 6-year-olds, especially those who
may be our same age but are otherwise
quite different from us?
When we grow up, do we choose jobs that
hire only people our age? Do we rule out
possible friendships because someone is a
different age from us? I assert that teaching
children by age makes about as much
pedagogical sense as teaching children by
height. Also, learning to follow directions and
do what someone else tells you to do for 12
or more years does not lead to creative
thinking or entrepreneurship, and yet our
educational system is set up to allow
teachers to grade our children on how well
they comply, sit still, do the assigned work
and turn it in, whether or not it makes any
intrinsic sense for the individual child.
So, my subsequent columns will address
many of the ways students vary from one
another and how a good educational system
would allow for these differences. It is my
strongly held opinion that tweaking the
current system is not the answer. Let's see if
I make arguments and points that change
more than a few minds.
-- Deborah L. Ruf, Ph.D.
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Greetings!
A new year is always associated with new
beginnings and new attempts to re-prioritize
our lives. At Educational Options, Dr. Ruf
has decided this is the year to do more
writing, and so we have been actively
arranging her calendar to allow time to do
that.
As she has traveled around Minnesota and
around the country to speak to audiences
about different topics related to giftedness,
many have asked Dr. Ruf where they can
find information about such issues as
personality, intellectual profiles, or gender
differences in the classroom. She does use
handouts of both her own writing and articles
from others to supplement and support the
information she shares; however, although
much information is out there, it isn't always
put into a form that is clearly about school
adjustment.
Over the next months, Dr. Ruf will pull her
ideas together into mini-articles to share with
her clients and newsletter readers. In this
issue we are including the first series of
articles, entitled School is Not Real
Life. Enjoy!
Sincerely, Kathy Hara, Editor
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Online Learning
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At Educational Options, we seem to meet
more and more families who are interested
in homeschooling their students. Making that
experience even more convenient are
emerging online schools or online distance
learning programs.
Here in Minnesota, we have been hearing
about the Minnesota
Virtual Academy and MTS Minnesota
Connections Academy . Both offer
home-based education to Minnesota
families for grades K-12 and K-11,
respectively. Parents pay no tuition, and the
students are considered to be enrolled in
public school. Other states offer similar
online programs to their residents.
Before deciding to enroll your student in an
online learning program, check out The Online Bargain Basement
and Online Bargain Basement
Returns. These Power Point
presentations explain how to select and use
an online course, and offer samples of a
variety of the best free online courses.
For links to other online learning programs,
see the Davidson
Institute's and Hoagie's websites.
In next month's newsletter, we will list some
links to curricula for homeschooling.
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Mensa Research Journal - Homeschooling
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The latest edition of the Mensa Research
Journal is still available. Guest edited by
Dr. Ruf, the issue features the latest thinking
on homeschooling and, in particular, how it
impacts the gifted. The 96-page issue
includes eight articles and several sections
devoted to the topic.To purchase a single
copy, to subscribe, or to read an excerpt
from one of its articles, go to the Mensa
Foundation.
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In Minnesota - Speaking about Gifted Middle School Reform
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Edina Council
for Gifted and Talented (ECGT)
welcomes interested elementary and middle
school parents to hear Special Event
Speaker Stephan
Schroeder-Davis on Tuesday, January 15.
Dr. Schroeder-Davis will be speaking on the
thought-provoking and timely topic of Gifted
Middle School reform. This event will be at
the
Edina Community Center, Room 350, 5701
Normandale Road in Edina from 7:00 to 8:30
p.m.
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As always . . .
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. . . we wish to thank all our clients
who have recommended Dr. Ruf to their
friends and neighbors for assessments.
The core of our business is based on
referrals, and we appreciate your confidence.
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A computer terminal . . .
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. . . is not some clunky old
television with a typewriter in front of it. It is
an interface where the mind and body can
connect with the universe and move bits of it
about.
- Douglas Noel Adams, from Mostly
Harmless
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