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Put Some Sideboards on It
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mailing list 2009 When you have a performance conversation with an employee is it a free-for-all? Does the conversation zig and zag without a clear end point? When the conversation begins do you know how you would like it to end? Do you begin the conversation with a good idea of what is possible? This month we explore the importance of identifying the parameters of a conversation in order to stay focused. Those parameters are called sideboards and they are the critical frame to your important conversations. As always, I'd love to hear what you think.
Put Some Sideboards on It

                                                                                                        
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There is a natural tendency to avoid asking questions when you are uncertain as to what the answers will be. As a result, managers often avoid asking questions. Instead, they just tell the employees the answers they really want to hear. It may seem like you are giving up control when you ask an open-ended question that engages the employee. But, it doesn't have to be a scary proposition. One way to encourage dialogue while still guiding the direction of the conversation is to use sideboards to frame the question.

Frame the question with sideboards.

Sideboards are the parameters that frame an issue. They are the "givens." Sideboards are the assumptions you have already made that are non-negotiable. In most situations, there is background information that must be considered before a conversation can progress. Those are the sideboards. Usually there are limitations (time, money, resources, etc.) that must be noted when you are exploring options. Those are the sideboards.

The challenge is to state the sideboards clearly before asking a question that involves the employee in finding the solution. Here are some examples of sideboards in action:

Given our current budget situation...which of our projects is the highest priority?

Assuming we will meet our end of the year objectives, what additional tasks should we pursue?

Knowing that our relationship with this client is tenuous, what options do we have for satisfying this order?

Given the restrictions placed upon us in the regulations, what alternatives should be considered?


As a manager, you can establish parameters that will help employees find workable, effective, and successful solutions to issues and challenges. Think about the sideboards.
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National Speakers Association Fall Conference
November 20-22nd, 2009
Arizona Grand Resort
Phoenix, AZ

This Ain't Your Dad's Audience Anymore: How to Engage and Excite an Increasingly Youthful Crowd

Join Marnie and some of the most dynamic speakers on the planet for this creative educational event. Marnie speaks on Saturday, November 21 at 3:15 p.m.

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Fierce Conversations by Susan Scott is one of my all-time favorite business books. That's why I don't hesitate to recommend her newest release, Fierce Leadership: A Bold Alternative to the Worst "Best" Practices of Business Today. In this, her second release, Scott takes on some of the most common practices used in organizations today and guides us to new alternatives to those "best practices." She challenges widely used tools including 360-degree anonymous feedback and employee engagement programs, arguing that they only increase the emotional distance between people.. In response, she offers new and refreshing practices that will make you wonder why you didn't think of that.

Scott says, "Employee engagement and inclusion isn't a cognitive issue. It's an emotional issue." And this is just one of the thousands of insights you will find in Fierce Leadership: A Bold Alternative to the Worst "Best" Practices of Business Today.
My travels continue from coast to coast. This month I'll go from Washington DC to San Jose, CA with stops in Scottsdale and Bisbee, AZ. Follow me and let me know if I'm in your area. I'd love to hear from you! Have a great month!

Sincerely,

Marnie Green
Management Education Group, Inc.
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