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Growth is the backbone of any GREAT Association - In 2010, let's do it together!
Happy New Year and welcome to the first edition of the Chronicle for 2010. DEMA is starting this year off with a bang!!! We are proud to announce that we are developing NEW Chapters in Toronto, Manhattan, The Hamptons and Central Ohio! These locations will be great additions to our three growing chapters in Chicago, Detroit and Southern Florida!
Our current Chapter Directors in Central Ohio, Chicago, Detroit, The Hamptons and Toronto are in the process of growing the membership in these areas. Please email us if you are interested in connecting with any of our Directors and getting involved in these Chapters.
If you live in the Manhattan or Southern Florida areas and are interested and committed to being involved with these Chapters, please let us know at your earliest convenience. In addition to increasing membership, we are still in need of Chapter Directors and we are looking for Leaders dedicated to continuing education and raising industry standards!
Please contact Mike at info@domesticmanagers.com for more details on how to become involved.
so we ask...
What could our members accomplish together as a team?
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Special Events
February 25th - Detroit, MI....Details TBD
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The 2011 DEMA Convention Survey!
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New Membership Dues for Domestic Staff
Over the last two years DEMA has been offering complimentary trial memberships. We will continue to do so with different offerings, currently we have a three month complimentary trial to help new Members become more familiar with the DEMA movement. Once your trial expires you will receive an invoice with different options for Membership packages.
Our current Membership have been asking for three options when it comes to dues:
One Year - $49.95 Three Year - $119.95 Five Year - $199.95
DEMA will continue to keep our Membership pricing affordable so all staff in the industry can afford to participate in the Association! We are able to do so thanks to the support of our loyal Affiliates, Sponsors and Service Provider Members!
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~ Featuring ~
Ron Glazer
Q: How did you get started in the Industry? A: As I was unemployed in the winter of 1999, A friend told me of a family that was in need of a Household Manager; and then I located a listing (the same position), in the local newspaper. Because I had extensive experience associating with and exposure to High Income Individuals, (from within the Country Club Industry), I thought this would be a great transition in my career. Additionally, I had always dreamed of becoming a Household Manager, as several of my friends at the time held the same jobs. Listening to their stories of how rewarding it was for them, convinced me that I would make a good fit.
Q: Do you have any formal training or degrees for domestic management? A: I don't have any formal domestic management degrees; however, I have nine years hands-on experience as my resume demonstrates. Additionally, at Pennsylvania State University it was a requirement for my Associates Degree to attend an etiquette class both years.
Q: What have been some of the more difficult situations that you have run into on the job? A: The passing of my Principals.
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The Mr., in February 2005, from heart disease. He helped me realize that this position was the right one for me. Driving him to the office and back home every day, we would talk about current affairs, business and my aspirations. He made me promise that I would take care of his Blanche until her death, which I agreed, and accomplished. He was a mentor to me.
- The Mrs., in September 2009, from lung cancer. She battled it for almost 5 years, and watching the progression was very touch to endure. To her credit, she never complained. She always had a smile when I walked into the room, and I did anything I could to make her comfortable. There wasn't anything I wouldn't do for her.
Q: What type of principal or homeowner do you prefer to work for? A: People (or person), who are (is) compassionate, trustworthy and willingot to allow me to flourish in the industry I feel passionately about. Someone who has trust that I will accomplish their needs and desires first.
Q: What direction would you like to see the domestic industry go in for the future? A: I would like to see the industry become recognized more as a professional industry. With the formation of the two current organizations (DEMA and IAPSP), and hopefully others, this will become a reality. Also, I would like to see more local chapters formed so it will be easier to network.
Q: What are your goals for the future? A: My goal is to gain more experience and education within the Industry. I would like to accomplish this goal by attending as many conferences as possible. I was a participant on the boards of the organizations I belonged to in the golf course industry, and would like to become a participant in this industry as well.
Q: What are your interests and hobbies? A: I am interested in politics and current affairs, as well as history and historical documentaries.. My hobbies are reading, hiking and camping, being with my family as time allows, and spending time working on landscaping.
DEMA is very excited to announce Mr. Glazer as our New Chapter Director for Ohio and it's surrounding areas! |
Answers You Need Before You Accept The Job
by: Teresa Leigh
Too often when employees are offered a job, especially one they are excited about, they jump to accept the position without first asking some key questions. Here are our top 10:
1. May I see a written job description?
Many times the employer does not have a written job description, and you asking for one may be the first time they have ever thought about it. We encourage employers to outline the key job duties in writing for their employees so there is no miscommunication about what the job entails. Remember, though, that a job description is a "living" document and is subject to change as the job grows or the needs of the household shift.
2. What is the salary, and how is it paid?
During the interview phase the employer may have given you a salary range, but never accept a position unless you have been told exactly how much you will be paid and how often. Make sure you know whether the position will be paid by salary or by the hour, and how overtime will be compensated if applicable. It's best to ask for a written offer letter that outlines this information and is signed by the employer.
3. How are overnights compensated?
If your job requires some overnight work ask whether the overnights are considered as part of your regular salary, or if they are paid over and above your salary, and if so at what rate.
4. What are the benefits and when are they effective?
Even if benefits have been discussed during the interview process get in writing from the employer exactly what they are offering you and when they are effective. Many times an employer will have a waiting period of 90 days to 6 months before offering insurance, paid time off, or other benefits so don't assume benefits will be effective on day one. Again, it's best to have this outlined in your written offer letter.
5. What is the start date?
This may seem like a no-brainer, but never assume you know when the position starts. The employer may need you to start tomorrow, but you would like to give a two week notice to your current employer. Or you may want to start next week but the employer is going to be traveling for the next month. Always have this discussion before you accept the job.
6. If I use my own vehicle for household business or errands, how is mileage compensated?
If the employer expects you to use your personal vehicle ask if mileage will be reimbursed at the suggested IRS rate or a different rate. Or perhaps the employers will reimburse you for gas. Make sure that you are comfortable with the arrangement before you take the job.
7. If I must travel as part of my position, will my travel expenses be reimbursed, or are they paid directly by the household?
If possible it is best to have the household pay for travel expenses on your behalf instead of paying them yourself. Costs for airfare, hotels, meals and other travel expenses can add up fast and the employer may be in no hurry to reimburse you. If you do have to pay for these expenses yourself, get in writing from the employer the time frame for reimbursement-it should never be more than one week from the time you turn in the receipts.
8. Will I have a household credit card or checking account for making household purchases or will I be expected to use my own money and be reimbursed?
You should never be expected to pay for household items with your personal money, except perhaps in the case of an emergency. If the employer expects you to do this on a regular basis it is a big red flag. If making purchases for the household will be a large part of your job then you should have access to a credit card or petty cash fund, and be expected to reconcile and balance these accounts.
9. If this is a live-in position and my employment ends for any reason, how long do I have to vacate?
Unfortunately sometimes there are unexpected terminations and live-in employees get put out on the street with no warning. To keep this from happening to you ask the employer to put in writing as part of your offer that they will give you adequate time to find new housing if necessary.
10. Will I receive regular performance evaluations?
Performance evaluations often get overlooked for household employees, so by asking about them at the offer stage you are letting your employer know that you are open to feedback. Even if the employer does not offer formal, written evaluations, let your employer know that you would like to at least have regular informal meetings to discuss your performance.
If you need guidance on new employment or are searching for ways to make your CV stand out
Teresa Leigh offers consultations to private service employees.
For more information:
http://www.teresaleigh.com/emp_consult.htm or contact her office 1.877.222.7292
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Upcoming Webinars for Domestic Staff
Topic: Getting Linkedin - 4 Part Training Series 
Dates: Wednesdays starting January 13th through February 3rd, 2010
1/27/10 - Part 3: Groups - How to join and leverage Groups to help achieve your goals.
2/03/10 - Part 4: Time Management - How to manage your Linkedin profile on a daily basis. How to use Linkedin as a time leverage too, rather than one more DAILY Task.
This series will be taught over a four week period. Each session will last roughly 30 to 45 minutes. You may purchase all four sessions as a package or you may purchase them individually. If you are interested in purchasing them individually, please contact us at info@domesticmanagers.com.
Time: 8:00 - 9:00 PM EST
Cost: You may purchase all four sessions at a group discount:
$71.95 Members (4 part series)..........................................
$107.95 Non-members (4 part series)................................
***If you purchase this 4 part series by 1/27/10 you will be able to log onto parts 3 & 4 for the live webinar and you will be given special acces to view parts 1 & 2 in the archive.***
For: Any Domestic Staff or Networking Jobseeker
Please purchase above to register. You will be sent a registration form 48 hours prior to event. You must register prior to the event in order to participate.
Linkedin has become today's version of the Yellow Pages. We need to understand how to find people and more importantly, how to be found. Fifty million people are using Linkedin, however...very few are using it correctly. Several months of research show that Al Crawford offers the best Linkedin training available. With Mr. Crawford's 24 years of experience in sales and training he will not only help fill in the blanks, but will also assist you to make sure that your content will attract the proper audience.
Just because your profile is complete does not mean it is correct. With Mr. Crawford's training he will ensure that every step of the process is explained in a simple clear manner. In spending no more that 20 minutes per day he has built his network to more than 11 million connections!!! You will learn through his training how to do the same and most importantly how to identify how you are connected to each person. He achieved these numbers in less than one year! Learn all of all the secrets he has uncovered to make Linkedin an amazing tool in your search for a new career or networking efforts.
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Upcoming Webinars for Service Providers
Topic: Getting Your Business Linkedin - 4 Part Training Series
Presented by: Al Crawford (Please see above to learn more)
Dates: Tuesdays starting January 12th through February 2nd, 2010
1/26/10 - Part 3: Groups - To join and leverage Groups to help achieve your sales goals.
2/2/10 - Part 4: Time Management - How to manage your Linkedin profile on a daily basis. How to use Linkedin as a time leverage tool, rather than one more DAILY Task!
This series will be taught over a four week period. Each session will last roughly 1 hour. You may purchase all four sessions as a package or you may purchase them individually. If you are interested in purchasing them individually, please contact us at info@domesticmanagers.com.
Time: 6:00 - 7:00 PM EST
Cost: You may purchase all four sessions at a group discount:
$106.95 Members (4 part series)..............................
$142.95 Non-members (4 part series)......................
***If you purchase this 4 part series by 1/27/10 you will be able to log onto parts 3 & 4 for the live webinar and you will be given special acces to view parts 1 & 2 in the archive.***
For: Any Business
Please purchase above to register. You will be sent a registration form 48 hours prior to event. You must register prior to the event in order to participate.
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DEMA is proud to announce our new affiliation with Career Group, Inc. and their new Lifestyle Division headed up by Elias Symeonidis. Elias has a unique perspective having recently left a private service position to enter into the placement arena. He has a great handle on the current state of the industry! His empathetic approach is very professional and a breath of fresh air. We highly recommend reaching out to Elias at ESymeonidis@CareerGroupInc.com.
Career Group Inc. has been a recognized leader in providing exceptional talent to its corporate and private clients on both coasts. Career Group Inc. Lifestyle is an extension of the superior service we've provided for over 25 years. We have successfully serviced many of the most discerning individuals and entities in the country by providing them with the exceptional Estate and Household talent they require and deserve.
CGI's Lifestyle Division has brought together the talents of some of the country's leading recruiters in the Private Services Industry, setting a higher bar on service, professionalism and expertise. Our clients are both high-profile, visible personalities and executives, as well as discreet and extremely private individuals whom we have taken the time to get to know, in an effort to best understand their specific needs and preferences. We pride ourselves on delivering the utmost in "white glove service," offering candidates trained in state-of-the-art Estate Management, Private Chefs who cater to healthy living and Personal Assistants to fit the culture of your specific family.
Our exceptional, unsurpassed service has enabled many Family Offices, Estates and Households to run like the streamlined organizations they should, exceeding the expectations of both clients and candidates alike. Our selection process is deliberate and careful. Each and every candidate is put through a rigorous evaluation process. We respect and ensure absolute confidentiality throughout every stage of our search. We specialize in the following searches: Family Office Personnel, Personal Assistants, Social Secretaries, Estate Managers, Butlers, Private Chefs, Cooks and Chauffeurs/Executive Protectors We invite you to experience our unsurpassed, exceptional service in providing you with the superior talent you deserve.
Career Group Inc. 1212 Avenue of the Americas. New York, NY. 10036. (212) 750-8188 ext. 275 www.careergroupinc.com |
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World Class Service Providers
Welcome our newest providers to our referral directory!
Applied Building Science - Madison Heights, MI
Please visit their websites for more information on these great companies! |

In the wake of the terrible disaster in Haiti, we are asking that you donate to Hope For Haiti Now to help in the relief effort. There are so many people that are in need of medical supplies, medical services, food, clean water, shelter and so much more.
Thank you.
DONATE NOW
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To view the entire list of Service Providers and to find one in your area, become a DEMA member and click on the Member Directory tab on the website.
Do you know someone who would benefit from becoming a member of the Domestic Estate Managers Association? Please feel free to pass this newsletter on to them. We always welcome new members!
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