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September 2011            bridges 2 understanding   

 

Please note that my Discipline and the Strong-Willed Child class dates have changed. The class will start on Oct. 4th. 4 spaces left!  

 

Greetings! 

Have  you ever had a conflict where you just knew the other person should change? ..... and then you tried to change them? It just doesn't work and no one likes it!!

The same principle applies to conflict between parents and their children. Parents have the highest chance of children changing when parents change themselves first.   Parents often  hold on for dear life the belief that they must, and have every right, to have power over and control their children. Control of others is an illusion.  

When parents self-reflect and then change, they have the greatest possibility  of transforming Family Conflict into Family Cooperation. Our power comes from changing ourselves then seeing the change reflected in those around us. 

 

Look at my Think-Feel-Do Cycle and you'll see how the child's thinking and actions are farther away than our own thinking and acting.  

 

To learn more about the Think-Feel-Do Cycle, attend my Discipline and the Strong-Willed Child class NOW STARTING ON OCTOBER 4TH.  

 

Happy Parenting

 

Cynthia  

 

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Mom shares benefit of attending Cynthia's Free Introductory Class   

 

 

 

 Words of praise from mom who attended Introductory class in June 2011

 

"First of all I would like to thank you for your time and for sharing so valuable information. Even though we only met for a couple of hours, I feel that the information I received from your class has helped me a lot with my children. Not only with my 5 year old son who I had the concerns with but also with my daughters. I think that after attending your class, I became a better parent. I try to follow all your suggestions and I'm already seeing positive results.  Also having something in writing has helped me because I try to read all the information you gave me at least once a week just to remind me.  I now understand that everything doesn't need to be perfect, that every child is different even if they come from the same mom and dad and that it makes a big difference how we ask things and how we approach them.  My son has made a very positive improvement in his behavior which I'm very happy about.  Thank You!"

 

 

   Words of Wisdom  

I'm Bored! There's Nothing to Do! By Cynthia KleinMe with pink jacket teaching
Article published in the September Parenting on the Peninsula

 

"What do you mean you are bored and there is nothing to do? There is plenty to do." "You can help me fold the laundry, play with your sister or read." "I buy you all these toys and you just ignore them." "When I was your age, I would go outside and play. You should do that."

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Building World Peace in the Home through:

 Private Coaching Sessions in person, by phone, in the home or Skype to answer your specific questions.

Parenting Classes to learn skills and gain support from parents.

Speaking

at your school or  organization on a variety of topics. 

 

Inspirational  Words  

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"All children are gems full of precious potential. There is hope in every child since life itself is full of hope. Should the hopes of children be stilled or broken, that would be our responsibilities as adults. It pains my heart to see what goes on in today's society. I do not want to see the eyes of children darkened with fear and clouded with tears of sorrow. Society must be absolutely transformed. Children are mirrors that reflect adult society. When adults are ailing and their vision cloudy, children will also suffer. Let us wipe away the tears of sorrow from the face of each child. We must protect children and give them courage, strength and vitality. It is parents who nurture children, the hope of humanity. How noble parents are! What a great mission and responsibility they fulfill!"  

 

  

Daisaku Ikeda
President of the SGI World Wide Organization
World Renowned Author and Poet  

Classes for Fall  2011

 

Free introductory classes

How to Build a Cooperative Family with Mutual Respect

 If you want your family to improve communication and cooperation skills, then this is the class to get you started. Studies have shown that parents lead the family by example. Discover how Mutual Respect Parenting will teach you positive discipline strategies and listening skills that will help you resolve family conflicts and develop self-reliant children.

 

2 free introductory dates to choose from:

 

Dates:         Thursday, October 6, 7:00 - 9:00 OR (CLASS IS FULL) 

Thursday, December 1, 7:00 - 9:00 (Only 4 spaces left)   

Location:     San Mateo office

Cost:           No fee / pre- registration required. Space is limited

Register here for the October 6th class.        

 

Register here for the December 1st class  

 

Discipline and the Strong-Willed Child Start date changed to Oct. 4 

Do you have a difficult time getting your strong-willed child to cooperate? Rather than ending up in power struggles, break this cycle and build cooperation.  Learn how to bring out the best in yourself and your children. For parents with children ages 4-10 years old.

Dates:            4 Tuesdays, October 4, 11, 18, 25   (Only 4 spaces left). 

Time:              7:00 - 9:00   

Cost:              $140 per person or $240 per couple
Location:        Cynthia's office in San Mateo   

Registration:  Register here for this class  

 

Raising Self-Reliant Children

It is crucial that parents encourage their children to learn certain perceptions and skills for successful living. Research is now confirming that dialogue and collaboration form the foundation of moral and ethical development, critical thinking, and judgmental maturity. Teach your children NOW the skills they'll need later to become self-reliant and independent adults.  

 

Dates:           3 Wednesdays, October 12, 19, 26  (Only 4 spaces left).  

Time:            7:00 - 9:00 pm

Location:       Cynthia's office in San Mateo

Cost:               $105/ parent, $165 / couple

Registration: Register here for this class.     

 

 

 Winning Your Kids Over Without Punishments or Rewards

 Learn how to use effective discipline strategies that wins your children's cooperation. Discover how to perfect the art of setting and enforcing rules and expectations without the need for punishments or rewards.  

 

Date:          Thursday, November 3

Time:          6:00 - 7:30 pm

Location: Morrissey-Compton Educational Center, Inc.

2555 Park Blvd, Suite 1, Palo Alto, CA 94306

Cost:           Free

Registration:    Space is limited so registration is required.  

Call 650.322.5910 or email to register.         

                               

 My Kids Are Making Me So Mad! (5th - 8th grade)

 We love our children so why do we get so upset with them? In this class you will learn how to express anger to your child in a respectful way that de-escalates the tension and improves communication skills. Discover how to defuse your intensity and keep connected with your child, so you can work through conflicts and create a harmonious family environment.

 

Date:          Thursday, December 8

Time:              6:00 - 7:30 pm

Location:        Morrissey-Compton Educational Center, Inc.

                          2555 Park Blvd, Suite 1, Palo Alto, CA 94306

Cost:                Free

Registration:    Space is limited so registration is required. Call 650.322.5910 or email to register.         

                               

Private Presentations at Organizations 

Contact Cynthia for inquires or to observe prior to hiring Cynthia to speak at your organization.  

 

Discipline: Getting the Message Across Effectively

 Often parents are frustrated because their kids don't respond to directions. From in-home coaching I've discovered that the problem is often with the parents! Learn how to set up clear expectations, convey them effectively and provide respectful follow through. You can increase family cooperation and joy!!

 

Date:           Tuesday, October 18

Time:               12:00 - 1:00 pm

Location:       Stanford University campus

 

Dads Taking Charge of the Kids Alone!!

Join other dads and explore ways to make time alone with the kids run smoother. We'll discuss the two roads of nurture and structure and learn how to balance them for maximum family enjoyment. Specific strategies will be presented to take home with you.

 

Date:         Tuesday, November 15

Time:        12:00 - 1:00 pm

Location:    Stanford University campus

 

Winning Your Kids Over Without Punishments or Rewards

Learn how to use effective discipline strategies that wins your children's cooperation. Discover how to perfect the art of setting and enforcing rules and expectations without the need for punishments or rewards.

 

Dates:        Wednesdays, November 2, 9, 16

Time:           6:30 - 8:00 pm

Location:   Boys and Girls Clubs in East Palo Alto, Menlo Park and Redwood City.