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Iyar: Thoughts in Your Heart, Issachar in the Moment, and the Letter Vav...by Reb Shlomo Carlebach
Rachel Espana - Giving Your Word in Tazria-Metzora
David Sacks - Freedom and Forgiveness
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Happy Minyan Newsletter - Kol Sasson
Parshas Tazria-Metzora
April  2010
Greetings!

Yesterday was the first of the month of Iyar. As such, I offer some words about this month:

Good ShabbosThoughts on the
New Month of Iyar


This month, Iyar, is spelled Alef, Yud, Yud, Reish.  According to the mystical tradition, the letters are an acronym.  The Alef stands for "Ani", the 2 Yuds are G-d's name, and the Reish stands for "Rofecha".  Put it all together, and you get a verse from Parshat BeShalach, "Ani HaShem Rofecha - I am G-d Your Healer."

Historically, it is in this month that the Jews in the desert first completely relied on G-d for everything, including sustenance - it is when the manna first began to fall.

The connection between these two ideas seems to be the idea that everything comes from One Source.  It is important to seek healing when we need to, but the idea is that the doctor is only the messenger - G-d is the Healer.  Also, we are sustained daily by miraculous events that are in there own way as amazing as food falling from heaven.  The key is to recognize that daily miracles are just that - miracles.  Divine Intervention.

This month is also called Chodesh Ha Ziv - the month of shine - since it is now that the sun begins to fully shine on us.

May we be blessed to have G-d's love and grace shine on us, and let us all have healing on every level we need.


Shabbat Shalom and Chodesh Iyar Tov,
Rachel
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Good ShabbosIyar: Thoughts in Your Heart, Issachar in the Moment, and the Letter Vav is Truth and Beauty
Words on the Month of Iyar
by Reb Shlomo Carlebach

Every month has its own letter of the Aleph Bet, its corresponding tribe, and its specific fixing. According to the Ishbitzer, the letter of Iyar is Vav, the tribe is Yissachar and what we have to fix is "hirhur" - "thinking".

In Hebrew there are two words for thinking - "machshava" and "hirhur". Machshava means what I'm thinking with my head. Hirur, the Gemara says, is what I'm thinking in my heart. In my head, my thoughts change every split second, and even if I think the same thing, I don't think of it the same way. Then there's "hirhur be libo" - the thoughts in your heart. You know I can walk around with one thought in my heart my whole life, and the more real I am, the less it changes. And this is so deep.

Now let's talk about the tribe of Issachar - they are the ones who know what to do in the moment. This is very important. A lot of people know what they have to do always - but what do you have to do in this moment? We were learning it at Purim - why is the megillah called a book and a letter? If I love someone very much, do I send them my book? A book is for the whole world ... but a letter - this is from my heart. Remember what Amalek (who the enemy of Purim, Haman, comes from) said to us just after we left Egypt? His vibrations made us so cold; and then only 40 days since the miracles of Egypt and we were so cut off that we made the Golden Calf. Amalek says to you, "Yeah, religion's beautiful, G-d's beautiful, the 'always' you have, but the moment... not so much." I know what G-d is telling to all the Jews, to the whole world, but what is He saying to me? The truth is the Ribbono Shel Olam is sending each of us a letter every moment but you've got to know how to read it. And this is Issachar. Somebody says, "I don't know what to do." Watch the signs. How do you know how close you are to somebody? It's how well they read your signs. Issachar, the tribe that's learning Torah all day and night, Issachar knows how to read the signs.

The Izbitzer asks," What's the letter Vav?" Most of the letters need other letters to pronounce their name - aleph is made up of aleph-lamed-peh, gimmel is gimmel-mem-lamed. Vav is the one letter that I only need the same letter to pronounce it as a word. This means that nothing foreign gets to the inside of my heart.
 
The two Vavs represent Emmet (truth) and Tifferet (beauty). The Vav starts up in Heaven and comes straight down, non-stop, because the truth is non-stop. We have to know the truth in our heart and know the beauty in our hearts. But did you ever see anything uglier than someone talking about their own beauty? How do you make somebody else beautiful, by giving them honor, right? Kavod (honor) knows no words, it comes from the heart. [Rachel's note - kavod and lev have the same gemmatria!] When the students of Rabbi Akiva couldn't make each other beautiful, so to speak, couldn't find the honor for one another in their hearts, the month itself couldn't bear it. That's where the mourning in Sefiras HaOmer is coming from. We have to work our whole life on this one letter - the Vav - truth and beauty. Pesach and the redemption from Mitzrayim is G-d's revelation. Sefiras HaOmer means, what am I doing with it? Everybody has to count in order to fix his own neshammah. In one way, I am waiting for G-d's message, His revelation, and in another I have to search and trust my own heart in the deepest way. Iyar is the fixing of the heart. Nissan is the fixing of the head - a slave is listening only to his head. What does it mean to be in exile? It's being so petty. So we have to fix our hearts, our hirhurim, and really honor each other.

 
Excerpted from a transcript originally published in Kehilat Jacob News New York, Iyar 5746.

"Tikkun Rachel" - Divrei Torah by Rachel Espana 
 
Good ShabbosGiving Your Word in Tazria-Metzora

There's so much to say about this week's double parsha, especially about the power of speech. 

Both Tazria and Metzora discuss the punishment of "Tzaras" for one who speaks "Lashon Hara".  Tzaras being an affliction that appears as white sunken-in blotches on the skin, but oddly enough can also appear on one's clothing or even the walls of one's home.  (We don't have cases of this anymore.)   Lashon Hara is generally a term for gossip, bad-mouthing, tale-bearing, and all other negative speech.  Specifically, it is saying something true, but the only purpose of saying it is to hurt another.

Rather than getting into the specifics of Tzaras, I want to focus on the severity of the situation that causes a person to be stricken with it.  The Talmud actually lists 7 sins for which a person can be punished with Tzaras.  The Midrash lists 10.  So besides Lashon Hara, the list of grave sins punishable with Tzaras include murder, adultery and stealing.  Still, only Lashon Hara is punished immediately with Tzaras.  It is considered more serious than the other sins.  How can this be?  How can any words be worse than murder, adultery or stealing?

Well, consider that it's a reflection of the enormous power of speech.   It is with words that G-d created the world.  ("And G-d said 'Let there be light,' and there was light.")  Being made in the image of G-d, we too have the power to create our world with our words.  The unfortunate other side of this power is that with words, one can also destroy worlds, G-d forbid. 

Why are words so powerful?  Language, according to the Maharal of Prague, is the one bridge between the spiritual world and the physical - it is an expression of the mind (spiritual) that is carried by breath and heard by others (physical).   Words make thoughts real.  So with a word, a person can kill off another, cheat on another, and steal from another.  That's why it's so serious.  In a moment, so much harm can be done just by speaking in a destructive manner.

Fortunately, the opposite is true.  Just one good word can make all the difference.  It can give someone their life back.  It can restore another's faith.  It can help someone become successful. 

And if you aren't convinced of the power your words have yet, just think about the difference between thinking about doing something good, and telling someone you will.  You feel far more obligated to do something once you've said it to another.

So, let's first of all use our power of speech to bless and thank G-d for all the kindnesses He bestows upon us.  I say, Baruch HaShem for it all!  Next, let me tell you how great you are - you are special to me and make a difference in my life.  And now, think about who else you can say a good word to, and get to it!  By saying it, we can really make it so.

May we only use our words to heal and help.

Good Shabbos,
Rachel

 
David Sacks
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at 8:30am at the Happy Minyan,
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at 10:30 am
at Cong. Mogen David,
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Good Shabbos
 
 
Freedom and Forgiveness

Good ShabbosDear Friends
,

For most of us, waiting is the hardest part. And yet when we look at our lives, so much of it is filled with waiting.  Or is it?  Sometimes, maybe even often, we confuse waiting with living.  During this time of the year, between Passover and receiving the Torah, we have a special mitzvah not just to count the days until we get to our destination, but to actually bless the waiting!  How do we do that? We discuss it in this week's talk.

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