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Reb Sholom Brodt - Vayechi 5770
Rachel Espana - Let's Make a Deal
David Sacks - Coincidences and You
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Happy Minyan Newsletter - Kol Sasson
Parshas Vayechi
January  2010
Greetings!

An interesting custom of wishing you a Happy New Year today:

Rabbi Sholom Hecht of Hecht's bookstore on Coney Island in Flatbush, NY, was privilaged to have had many private talks with the Lubavitcher Rebbe. One time Rabbi Hecht had a talk with the Rebbe on the morning of January 1st. At some point during the talk the Rebbe told him "Happy New Year". Rabbi Hecht was very surprised. The Rebbe then told him that Rabbi Levi Yitzchok of Berdichev used to tell his congregants "Happy New Year", and it's based on Kapitel 87 verse 6 in Tehillim where it says "Hashem Yispor Bichsov Amim.." "Hashem will count in the register of people..."
 
Wishing You a Good Shabbos, and Happy New Year
Rachel

  Happy Minyan News & Upcoming Events
 
*Shalom Zachar for baby Schneider!
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*Rav Shimon Green this Shabbos!
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Vayechi - 5770
-
Rav Sholom Brodt, Rosh Yeshiva of Simchas Shlomo

The 'Closed' Parsha
At the beginning of the parsha Rashi alerts us to its unusual opening. Parsha means a portion or a section of Torah. Each weekly parsha is made up of many smaller portions, and each is called a parsha. In the sefer Torah you can distinguish between one parsha and another by the open space between them. The size of this open space varies in length. A "parsha p'tucha" is an open parsha, i.e. there is an open space in between that parsha and the previous one. However our parsha, parshas Va'yechi, is a "parsha stumah" a 'closed parsha', i.e. there is no open space between the beginning of our parsha and the end of the previous one. Why is this so?
Rashi brings us two reasons for this: "This is because once our father Yaakov died the eyes and hearts of Israel were 'closed' because of the misery of the bondage, for they [the Egyptians then] began to subjugate them. An alternate explanation: Because Yaakov wished to reveal the End to his children and it was concealed [closed] from him" (Bereishis Rabbah)
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Secrets of Jewish Living
Va'yechi- he lived. Most of today's parsha learning is about living a true and exalted life even in the midst of hardships. Wherever you are today, I hope first of all that you have much to celebrate. I also hope that our learning will inspire all of us to reach even higher, to reach for a taste of true life and supernal delight- for a taste of Olam Ha'bah- a taste of the world to come here in Olam Ha'zeh- this world.
The following piece, from the sefer Torat Emet, the collected teachings of Reb Leibeleh Eiger zt"l, is connected to the teachings about the opening of Parshas Va'yechi, which is known as a parsha stumah- a closed parsha. For an easier understanding see the related teachings, which can be found further on in the collected teachings of previous years.
The last verse in last week's parsha says, "[The children of] Yisroel dwelt in the land of Egypt, in the land of Goshen, and they took hold of it and they were fruitful and multiplied exceedingly." While the opening verse of this week's parsha begins with, "And Yaakov 'lived' in the land of Egypt for seventeen years." It is between these two verses that there is no empty space in the Torah, and thus, it is called a parsha stumah- a closed parsha.
Many of the Chassidic commentators focused their attention on the phenomenon that Yaakov and his children were prosperous and fruitful in the land of Egypt, the country in which G-d's presence was most concealed. The basic lesson derived is that one can actually live a life of holiness in the midst of tremendous hardship and spiritual darkness. The Zohar teaches that this is the reason there is no break between the end of last week's parsha and the beginning of this week's. In other words, by taking hold of the circumstances, rather than getting lost in them, we can learn how to grow, be fruitful and multiply, even in the most severe spiritual conditions. This is what Yaakov Avinu and his children accomplished in their lifetimes, even in Mitzrayim- the spiritual narrows of Egypt. Having done this the Torah continues and says, "vayechi Yaakov"- Yaakov lived in the land of Egypt, for that is true life: mastering your circumstances instead of being mastered by them.
Reb Leibeleh continues to expound on this theme by bringing the following verse, "The offering [desirable] to G-d is a broken spirit, a contrite and broken heart, G-d you do not disdain" (Psalm 51:19). The Talmud also teaches that seeing broken vessels in a dream is a sign that your prayers have been accepted. Reb Leibeleh relates the broken vessels to Yakov Avinu's life experiences. Yaakov Avinu, in particular, went through many tests and oppressions of kinds that would sour anyone's heart, such as having to flee for his life from his brother Eisav, the deceit of his father-in-law Lavan, the abduction and rape of Dina and the loss of Yosef. He lived through all this in order to teach future generations the essence of Jewish living in this world. If one has to 'chas v'shalom', [may Hashem have compassion upon us and bless us with peace always] live through obstacles and experience brokenness, there is a way to use them and elevate them. Obstacles are there so that we should rise above them. Concerning brokenness - remember what the Kotzker Rebbe (who was Reb Leibeleh's Rebbe) said, "There is nothing more whole than a broken heart!"
Maybe you remember that as a child you had a favorite toy. When you were playing with it, it filled your heart so much that you didn't pay any attention to anyone else, you didn't care to share it with anyone and you didn't mind being alone. And then one day the toy broke and no one could fix it for you and you cried and cried; your heart was broken- it was broken-open; and now there was room for something even better. This illustrates the concept of 'hamtakas hadinim' - the sweetening of judgments.
The Zohar says that ultimately, Yaakov merited to receive a small taste of olam habah here in this world because he had reached a level where his physical reality was totally purified by all the obstacles, tests and brokenness he lived through. He became entirely spiritual, living in exalted delight.
Being that Yaakov is Yaakov Avinu - our father Yaakov, the spiritual inheritance he gave each of his descendents is the knowledge and capability not to fall into despair as a result of life's hardships and brokenness. Our father Yaakov taught us how to use each lack and hardship to refine ourselves and our aspirations, to open ourselves up to coming closer to Hashem, and enhance our service of Hashem.
Hashem's intentions are always for the good. Reb Levi Yitzchak of Berditchev explained the Talmud's teaching (Megillah 13b) "Hashem yisborach brings the healing before the infliction," to mean that the point of the infliction is to break the small vessel so that it can be enlarged to receive the greater salvation. Though he might think otherwise, it is "Better to teach the needy how to fish rather than to give him a fish." consider that he would be better off if you would just give him. We're not talking about retribution. We're talking about transferring the experience of a lack and hardship and using it positively. We're talking about elevating the experience to acquire deeper sensitivity, increased skills and enhanced awareness. Who is the smarter scientist, is the one who knows the answers or is it the one who 'knows' the right questions? Ask any intelligent kid and they will immediately tell you it's the one who has the questions. Through the losses we experience and the lacks we are aware of, we slowly learn that we still have much to learn and to grow. Ultimately we can and hopefully we will merit life in the world to come - which is the greatest of delights- which is continuous pleasure, a delight to which none other can compare.
The essence of the Jewish soul in this world is to constantly be yearning for a deeper and closer connection to Hashem. Consequently we are aware and concerned about that which is still lacking in our service of G-d. And if one does not feel any lack in his service, if he completely satisfied with himself and with the way things are, it is a sign that his soul has not yet been purified, chas v'shalom. In this case, one ought to throw oneself on the ground, begging G-d to give him the consciousness to sense his lacking, and to help him break his heart so that he should merit to come closer to G-d. Yaakov Avinu, alav hashalom, is the source of this pathway.
What will be when we finally get to that place of supernal delight and pleasure? The Rabbis teach us on the verse, "'I [G-d] will walk [with you] in your midst,' I [Hashem] will take a walk with you in Gan Eden. Does this then mean that you will not tremble in G-d's presence? From the end of the verse which says, 'and I will be Elokim unto you,' we learn that even in that world of supernal delight we will continue to be aware of G-d's greatness and power and we will tremble in His Presence."
Says Reb Leibeleh, simply speaking, going for a walk means to enjoy the pleasure strolling with your loved ones in beautiful gardens and orchards after eating and drinking. Such walks are parables to life in 'the world to come', our ultimate desired goal and destination after completing our journey in this world. For then the Tzaddikim will not be lacking anything good. Nevertheless, the fear and awareness in conscious awareness of G-d will be upon their faces.
In our present time, the holy Shabbos is 'mei'ayn olam habah' - a taste of the world to come. On Shabbos we eat and drink and experience the delight of Shabbos. I frequently used to see Chassidim going for walks after their Shabbos meals. Now that Reb Leibeleh has revealed the secret of the parable, it seems to be a good idea to adopt this Shabbos custom, and while walking with your loved ones and friends, let's try to imagine walking with Hashem in Gan Eden.

The Greatness of Rachel Imeinu - Our Mother Rachel
At the beginning of this week's parsha - Va'yechi Yaakov - Yaakov 'lived', we see Yaakov Avinu making his last preparations before leaving this world. First he arranges for his burial, requesting of Yosef to swear to him that he will bury him in the Me'arat Hamachpeilah in Chevron, where his ancestors, Adam and Chavah, Avraham and Sarah, Yitzchak and Rivkah were buried. Yosef took the oath and then Yaakov blessed him and his children. Soon after we read:
Bereishis 48:7: And I, when I came from Padan, Rochel died unto me in the land of Canaan, on the road, when there was yet a stretch of land, before coming to Efrat. I buried her there on the road to Efrat, which is Beis Lechem.
Concerning the last verse (48:7) in which Yaakov recounts where he buried Rachel, Yosef's mother, Rashi explains that Yaakov was excusing himself to Yosef for not having brought his mother to burial in Chevron:
Rashi: "I buried her there."
"And I did not carry her even to Beis Lechem in order to bring her to a [settled] land, and I know that you have resentment toward me. But, know that it was by the word [of G-d] that I buried her there so that she might help her descendants when Nevuzaradon would send them into exile and when they would pass by way [of her grave] Rochel would emerge from her grave and cry and beseech mercy [from G-d] for them, as it is said: "A voice is heard in Ramah, Rochel is weeping for her children, etc." And G-d answers her: " 'There is reward for your toil,' says G-d, 'for your children will return to their border.' Yirmiyahu 31
It was Hashem's who informed Yaakov to bury Rachel just outside Bit Lechem. Surely Yaakov wanted to bring her to burial in Chevron, but Hashem told him not to do so because that is what Rachel wanted.
Like the mother who does not wish to enter into her home until all her children are in first, Rachel Imeinu, our mother Rachel remained outside the Land of Israel. She knew prophetically that it would be a long time before all her children would come home, and so she chose to remain outside of Israel and weep bitterly over the exile of her children. She refuses to be comforted:
Yirmiyahu 31:14 Thus saith the LORD: A voice is heard in Ramah, lamentation, and bitter weeping, Rachel weeping for her children; she refuseth to be comforted for her children, because they are not.
And finally Hashem promises her that her children will come home.
Yirmiyahu 31:15 Thus saith the LORD: Refrain thy voice from weeping, and thine eyes from tears; for thy work shall be rewarded, saith the LORD; and they shall come back from the land of the enemy. 16 And there is hope for thy future, saith the LORD; and thy children shall return to their own border.
We see that it was Rachel Imeinu's choice to remain outside as Hashem says, "for thy work shall be rewarded." Says the Lubavitcher Rebbe, this is the greatness of Our Mother Rachel: she was well aware of the importance and holiness of being buried in Eretz Yisrael, probably no less than Yaakov Avinu, who insisted, that Yosef take an oath swearing that he will make sure to do so. Nevertheless, she chose to give up on achieving her highest level in holiness, to be buried together with her husband Yaakov in the Me'arat Hamachpeilah in Eretz Yisrael, for thousands of years, for the benefit of her children. (Likkutei Sichos 30, p.239)


We wish you a wonderful Shabbos and Kol tuv b'ahavah ubivracha
Sholom
"Tikkun Rachel" - Divrei Torah by Rachel Espana 

Let's Make a Deal

In this week's parsha, Vayechi, Yakov blesses his sons, the Twelve Tribes of Israel. One of the twelve sons, Zevulun, is blessed to be a successful sea merchant. The next son mentioned, Yissachar, is blessed to be patient and to have the strength and endurance of a donkey in order to study the Torah. According to our tradition, Yissachar and Zevulun struck a very good deal with each other based on their blessings. Zevulun would provide (monetarily) for all of Yissachar's worldly needs while Yissachar studied all day. In return, Zevulun would receive the same spiritual reward as Yissachar in the World to Come.
There is a sweet lesson in partnership we can learn from this. Some people are better at sitting and studying, some are better at going out and doing. If we come together with our brothers and sisters and contribute our strengths to compliment each other, we can become together very powerful and productive people. 
Also, there is another lesson here for each of us about finding our priorities. What's more important - your body or your soul? You can't live properly without either, right? Well, then you could ask what should we value more and spend more time tending to - our body or our soul?
The answer is both.
We're in this physical world with material needs for a reason. If we were meant to be only pure souls, HaShem wouldn't have given us bodies. If we didn't have a body, we'd have no way to pray, no way to read Torah... no way to smile at someone and no way to lend someone a hand. The opportunities which make life so meaningful for us wouldn't exist if we had no bodies.
Of course if we were only physical and had no soul - what would be the point of anything? Why bother cooking, cleaning, eating, sleeping, if there's no greater purpose? Why bother with anything if there's nothing beyond the world we see?
The physical world gives us opportunities to grow. The spiritual world gives us a sense of meaning and purpose. What the deal that Yissachar and Zevulun made teaches us is that we all need to strike a deal within ourselves for ourselves.
May all who preserve our ancient heritage by immersing themselves in Torah study - may they all be blessed with the physical means to continue in their holy work. May all who engage in the labor of this material world - may they be fulfilled knowing they are working for a greater and meaningful purpose. May we all find the balance within ourselves between the body and the soul.
Shabbat Shalom,
Rachel
 
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What is God Telling Us? - Coincidences and You
Dear Friends,
Four amazing "coincidences" happened to me this week. I've been trying to wrap my brain around this subject for quite a while now and bring you fresh info from the never ending search to decode life.

 

 


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