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The Wealthy Woodpecker Newsletter
Who YOU Gonna Call?
October 2011
In This Issue
Healing Sexual Trauma
Teddy Bear Reads Secrets
Let's Talk About Sex
Guided Meditation
Time for a Time Out?
Sex Is Column

The Wisdom of the Womb

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 When Good People Do Bad Things :TV interview of Dr. Zimbardo on Dr. Phil. Orgasms: Art and Psyche an art book by Nikita Duncan with Dr. Zimbardo's intro & my preface.  

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What is this bear reading?  Will she be able to use Sex Secrets of Escorts to snare another bear? Will you? 

Greetings!

 

Who You Gonna Call? Shame Busters!!!! 

I would love to help you experience less conflict and more pleasure.  Sound good?
 

There are a variety of ways I can do that, some free and some more costly. You pick the combination which works for you.

For the remainder of this year, I am in the Bay Area for one day ONLY: Sunday, November 6th. Be sure to email or call 888.903.0050 as soon as possible if you want your private, in-person session. Couple's will be given precedence. You may text 415.407.2932 for an appointment IF I have been to your home before.

And on a somewhat unrelated note, what is the future of radio?  Why video of course. Watch me on Sex with Emily.

 

Be sure to scroll down for my tips on time outs for couples. You may want to give them a try before the Holidays are over!   

 
Workshops and Presentations

 

VM Standing in Driveway 2011

 

Let's Talk About Sex   

 

Wednesday, November 16 

5:30 pm No-Host Wine Bar 

6 pm Dinner and Program 

Holbrooke Hotel

Express Room   

212 West Main Street  

Grass Valley, CA 95945

$22 per person  

 

Veronica's current profession is talking about relationships and love as they relate to sex and sexuality, a topic which causes most Americans to squirm and laugh nervously.  Get ready to s-t-r-e-t-c-h your mind to new dimensions and open yourself to respecting a woman's right  to choose her line of work without judgment or shame.

 

JOIN US at the Holbrooke Hotel in Grass Valley for a unique and stimulating program.  Veronica will talk about her present line of work, how her past experiences inform what she does now, and her vision for a society that can talk about sex and sexuality without shame. 

 

You need not be a member to attend - and you don't even have to have dinner (although the food is really good).

 

Be sure to register by Sunday, November, 13th.  Indicate if you are attending the program only or if you will be joining us for dinner as well. If you plan to attend the dinner, please identify your meal preference-either vegetarian or regular.        

 

To pay by PayPal, please visit bpwnevadacounty.org

 

Contact Kim Wydra at 530-432-2591 or by email for more information.

BPW is a great group of interesting and feisty local business women! Please pass this on to anyone who might enjoy this evening.

 

Embodying the Divine Feminine:

Reclaiming the Power of Passion

 with Francesca Gentille and Veronica Monet

 

Pre-Recorded Four Part Series   

 

  

50% off this groundbreaking TELE-COURSE that heals the passionate power of being a woman! Release the Good Girl/Bad Girl split!

   

THIS FOUR-PART SERIES IS BY PHONE and each session is prerecorded. Once registered, you can listen anytime you want. 

 
Originally $99.95 you pay only $49.95 PLUS you receive over $100 worth of gifts.

Reclaim the power, magic, and healing passion of being  your Feminine Aspect and learn the inspiring history of erotically empowered women and the practical grace of using feminine sexual energy infused with conscious intention, and Divine Love.  Reclaim the power of your Inner Goddess of Eros as a healing elixir that connects and integrates us to our inner erotic self, spiritual core, and embodied soul.

 

· Receive practical exercises in Sacred Eros,Feminine Mysteries and Compassion

· Heal the rift between the Good Woman and the Fallen Woman

· Reclaim the Sacred Prostitute archetype as healer, king maker, queen, & divine warrior

· Discover your empowering inner Sacred Courtesan that ignites all beings

· Heal the Whore - Madonna split in our culture

· Learn the 30,000 yearhistory of the Priestesses & Shamans of Love & Eros

· Become aware of the cultural shift of The Burning Times & how to correct it

· Integrate the lineage of female wisdom into your power as a woman today

 

FREE GIFTS to YOU for enrolling in this teleseminar:

4 FREE MP3s of teachings by Francesca Gentille and Veronica Monet, PLUS a FREE 1/2 hour of sex and intimacy coaching by Francesca Gentille, and a chapter from " Sex Secrets of Escorts" by Veronica Monet!!

 

Once your payment has been received, you will receive an invitation to listen to the teleseminar, an email containing the homework associated with the sessions you have bought, an invitation to join the online discussion group, and any free gifts you qualify for.  

  

To Register for this Class:

Email Francesca (RelationshipDiva@gmail.com)

OR

send payment to the same email address via Pay Pal. 

 

    

  

The Wisdom of the Womb on The Shame Free  Zone! 


  

The womb is the antidote to our pornified culture. Find out why and dare to experience first hand the power of this often neglected creatrix of life, love and eros. You will be treated to two guided meditations for connecting to your womb (or hara) whether you are male or female! Listen to this podcast when you have some privacy.

 

While you are at it, be sure to access your FREE library of educational and entertaining material pertaining to the erotic and the emotional. Previous episodes include Susie Bright weighing in on Sex Positive Parenting, Caroline Muir speaking of The Divine Feminine, Christopher Ryan sharing his findings about monogamy in his New York Times Bestselling Sex at Dawn and research scientist Vanessa Woods speaking about the roots of peace as contained in her Bonobo Handshake.
  
Download your personal copies on iTunes or Sex Talk Radio Network.
Why You May Need a Time Out

 

You may think time outs are for children but I teach this very valuable tool to grown-ups as a way to help and heal their romantic relationships. While time outs used as part of parenting are an enforced way of encouraging self-restraint and self-reflection in a child, time outs for grown-ups are self-imposed.  They provide a much needed pause button for moments which threaten to take our anger and recrimination to the next level and possibly create irrevocable harm.

 

Often employed as a vital anger management and domestic violence tool, time outs are also invaluable in relationships with more pedestrian problems.

You might not be ready to deck your partner or break a piece of furniture, but the words coming out of your mouth and the fire flashing in your eyes can create severe damage to an otherwise loving connection.

Taking a time out enables you to preserve the love while you regain your composure and have an opportunity to assess what is truly bothering you.  Is it your partner's behavior?  Or could some of your frustration be about something unrelated? Getting perspective and taking a break when we are feeling even a little out of control is a great way to preserve trust and intimacy - or build it if it is lacking.

Here a few tips for taking successful time outs:

1. Negotiate the terms of your time outs BEFORE you ever take one. For instance, what is the maximum length of time you will be on your time out? Will you leave the premises? Agreeing to the parameters which define your time outs will help your partner detach more quickly and allow you to stop interacting before you say or do something you might regret.

2. Agree to contact your partner when you are off your time out and let them know immediately if you are available to continue the conversation which led to your time out. If you are ready to resume contact but you are not ready to resume the conversation, make an appointment to continue the conversation at a later date. This is an extremely important part of taking time outs. If you fail to follow-up your partner will begin to see your time outs as your way of controlling the topic of conversation and avoiding issues which are important to your partner.

3. Use your time out to calm down, gain perspective, look for your 50%, get clear on what you want, open compassionately to yourself and your partner and do something nurturing and kind for yourself.

4. Be sure to follow-up and give your partner an opportunity to continue the conversation which led to your time out. Your goal is to  refocus you efforts to connect with compassion to your partner and create win/win solutions to your problems.

 

I use a very successful combination of education and role playing which will increase your passion for your partner(s) and just about everything else.  Email me  or text 415.407.2932 today!

 

Readers Respond

Your workshop was HUGE for us, and we wish we had had it at the beginning of our marriage.  It would have prevented a lot of the very explosive and emotionally intense interactions that have been the bane of our relationship.  The agreements for safety that we learned from you went into effect right away and our connection has as a result improved more in the few months since your workshop than in all the years before.


Thanks so much,

Alex and Melody

  

 

Note To My Amazing Clients:

If you wish to share your perspectives and success stories, you can do so anonymously!  Have you realized inspiring progress in your relationship? Are you feeling less burdened by shame? Please consider sharing with others so they might benefit too. Email me with your story. Your privacy is assured.

Sincerely,


Veronica Monet, ACS, CAM
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