Dear Veronica,

Thanks to your help, we are now enjoying more sex, more sexual intercourse, more masturbation, more hugging, more passionate kissing, more interest and participation in sex and more sexual desire. Our love making is more spontaneous and more in the moment. And Joan experienced her very first female ejaculation!

You were the catalyst in helping us to see our individual and couple blocks to taking responsibility for our own happiness and success and learning to work together as a team.

I have worked to continue to stay more in the moment, enjoying both my own sexuality as well as staying personally happier. That nexus between love/sex/anger I also believe extends to depression and general feelings of well being. Since we've opened up our communication and authenticity, and both worked to 'stay in the moment,' I feel as though I have a partner and one to whom I feel connected - and this has helped my outlook tremendously!

Your loving but strong support helped me to see that I was not taking my need for Testosterone supplementation seriously enough (I was diagnosed with "Low T"). Since our last session, I have taken responsibility and do see that it is very important for both my own outlook and our relationship, that I consistently receive this treatment. I am now in my third month of treatment.

All of this has strengthened our relationship. There is a lot more touching, kissing, nice conversation, compliments and connection in general!  We are more open with our sexuality and interests and play.

We now have a strong "LOVE" foundation! We love each other, want to be with each other, and we do not want to do anything that would hurt the other in any way. This has become a filter for both of our choices.

What we now call our "playground" is anything that can potentially (sometimes we don't know until we try how we will both feel) add to our LOVE and FUN and Life experience that we discuss with each other and try if we both agree. And then either of us has the ability to veto or define limits.

We both feel that we can bring up our individual sexual, sensual and love-making interests to each other and discuss it without fearing that either of us will feel threatened, hurt, etc.

We are more relaxed about our love, play, fun and sex. I feel less pressure to make sex happen and Joan feels less pressure to try to fulfill her own or my interests. We are just moving forward with our interests to find things that meet both our goals.

We are enjoying more intimacy and improved communication. We now share our feelings more openly with much less passive aggressiveness. This has had a huge impact on our romance, helping to launch us into an adult playground where we are living out all our fantasies and feeling excitement and passion we haven't felt in years!

Thank you so much,

Dan and Joan

Los Gatos, CA

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