Blanco, Shekhina and me at Crater Lake, OR
Blanco Leaping
Blanco Lobo
Can You Help Blanco and Me?
 

Greetings!
 
Blanco needed life-saving surgery a few days ago and choosing to save his life rather than euthanise him was a decision I didn't take lightly.  In the final analysis, I refused to let monetary concerns determine matters of life and death. Instead, I let Blanco decide and his eyes were full of fire and a will to live.
 
Now I am asking you if you can spare $10 to $25 to help me cover the approximately $5,000 in medical bills. If you can afford $50, I will gladly send you a free copy of one of my DVDs. And donations of $100 or more will qualify for a free book and a free DVD.
 
Thank you for taking the time to read this and if you can contribute even a small amount I would like to thank you personally with an old fashioned greeting card (in the mail). Please scroll down to read about Blanco's four year romance with Shekhina and what Blanco has taught me about life.
 
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% Veronica Monet
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Please be sure to include your mailing address so I can send you your free gift or simply email me and I will verify your donation and send your free gift.
 
$10 to $49: Thank you Card in the mail.
$50 to $99: One Free DVD.
$100 or more: One Free Book and One Free DVD. 
elephant mother and baby
 
I will never forget the first morning after Blanco discovered sex.  When the three of us woke up that day, he let out a high pitched sound that could only be described as a scream for joy.  I had never heard him make a sound like that.  He couldn't wait for me to let them out the door so they could start having sex again.  No breakfast thank you very much.  Sex was the only thing on his mind today.
 
Shekhina only went into heat every four or five months and then she was only receptive to sex for about ten days so it is understandable that Blanco and she would want to have as much sex as possible during that short window of opportunity.  Over the course of a year, Blanco and Shekhina learned how to have sex through trial and error just like the rest of us do.  And their relationship changed.  Before sex, they cared about each other but not in the same way they cared about each other once sex became a part of their relationship.  After sex, being separated from each other for even a few minutes became cause for concern.  And whenever they were reunited, they always exchanged passionate kisses on the mouth.
 
When Shekhina was in heat, Blanco would not allow any humans but me to pet her.  He guarded his lover with every fiber of his being.  There was an amorous neighbor dog who had a thing for Shekhina.  The first time she went into heat, he came calling.  His courtship was terribly sweet.  Every morning when we awoke, he would be standing patiently and quietly in front of our gate.  He never barked or whined.  He just stood there with a lovesick look on his face.  Once when we took our daily walk, he tracked us from a respectful distance.  We turned to see him trailing us at a 75 feet distance.  Shekhina was impressed and let out an affectionate whine as she started in his direction.  I restrained her because I was in no mood for puppies.  Blanco lunged toward the would-be suitor.  Our Romeo trotted away peaceably despite Shekhina's pleading to the contrary.
 
But the next morning he was waiting on the other side of the fence again.  Blanco was not impressed and barked vociferously until the other male dog retreated.  Shortly thereafter, Shekhina fell out of heat and the matter seemed moot.  But Blanco was simply biding his time.  
 
One day as we were coming home from our daily walk, the neighbor dog happened to be on the same road minding his own business.  The poor guy wasn't doing a thing and Shekhina wasn't even in heat.  But Blanco saw his opportunity and took off running.  He kicked the poor dog's ass all the way to his own front door step. Blanco had not forgotten the way he flirted with Shekhina the last time she was in heat.  I was caught off guard because I had no idea Blanco would remember his past grievance from several months ago.  And I certainly did not expect him to take such swift and final action about it.  The other dog wasn't hurt thankfully.  But he never dared to visit Shekhina again.
For the Dog Lovers
Babies in Snow
One day I took Shekhina and Blanco for a drive around a man-made lake in the Tahoe National Forest.  It is a popular resort for fishing, boating and house-boating.  We stopped at the shore for a potty break.  I took in the beauty while Blanco and Shekhina did what dogs do - take in the smells.  Blanco was about six years old and in his entire life I had never seen him look up at the sky.  I even tried to point up in an effort to get him to see a bird but to no avail.  The only birds Blanco ever saw were sitting on the ground or floating on the water.  He loved to chase big birds like seagulls when they were standing on the shore but if a bird was in flight, it didn't exist for him.
 
This day, there were massive vultures circling the skies.  They were flying fairly low but I assumed the grandeur of their presence would be lost upon my furry friends.  I took a deep breath and imagined what it would be like if I had wings and could ride the thermals as these big birds do.  Being protective of my little puppy, I also asked myself if there was any risk one of these huge birds might fly off with her.  Of course not, I told myself.  These birds of prey don't possess talons for grasping like eagles and hawks do.  And any way, vultures prefer their meat to be thoroughly dead.
 
While these various thoughts and emotions were coursing through my cluttered brain, I looked down to see Shekhina staring up into the sky.  The look upon her face can only be described as awe.  Her eyes were wide with wonder.  Blanco was predictably oblivious as his nose scoured the ground for fascinating scents.  But the sight of these great birds had stopped Shekhina in her tracks.  She stood there for a few moments, motionless and full of curiosity.
elephant mother and baby
Losing Shekhina transformed my life. I am acutely aware of how fleeting life is and as a result I question my daily routine and ask myself if this is how I want to spend my remaining time on earth.  I am also careful to express my love for my family members because I no longer assume they will be alive tomorrow.  I wish I could say I have abandoned my workaholic ways, but I still sit at my computer way too long and many is the night I wish Shekhina were here to nudge my hand from the computer mouse and insist I take a break.
 
Blanco is a different dog too.  He still misses Shekhina.  I know this because he finds her scent occasionally and when he does, his body language softens and sometimes he will gently kiss whatever smells like her.  It might be a spot on a chair or her dog collar, but the kisses he administers are unmistakably intended for her.
 
The other day, I heard a couple crows cawing.  I looked outside my office window to see raven sized birds sitting in the top of an 80 foot pine.  But what took my breath away was what was happening at the foot of the tree.  Blanco was barking at the crows and charging the base of the tree with an impressive territorial display.  His head was turned upward as he challenged the big birds.  Blanco had learned to look up and see birds.  And I knew who taught him to.
Dog is the Piece of Us which is Missing
Blanco and Shekhina in Love
The World According to Dog
 
1.   Let the little ones win
2.   The toy is irrelevant - the game is what matters
3.   Words can cause confusion - communication is best when it is silent
4.   You can tell a friend from a foe if you just pay attention
5.   Friends enjoy just being together
6.   The pack is one organism
7.   There is always room for one more
8.   Jealousy is a basic emotion
9.   Love is universal
10. Empathy was not invented by humans
11. Pain sounds the same no matter how many legs you have
12. It is very exciting to go somewhere and just as exciting to come home
13. We all watch our loved ones leave with longing in our eyes
14. We all worry when our loved ones are gone
15. You should let your loved ones know how much you missed them
16. You don't need arms to give someone a hug
17. You don't need lips to give someone a kiss
18. Just because I lick your face does NOT mean you can come inside my home
19. If she/he gets one, I get one too 
20. Play fair
21. Going to the bathroom and getting a drink of water are universal time-outs
22. Fresh snow brings out the puppy in all of us
elephant mother and baby
  
 
The Dead of Winter
 
Winter snow melted minutes after
you took your last breath
You died just before
the first signs of spring
 
The robins have returned
to herald each evening
The tiniest tracks
at the river's edge
Trace the first steps of a new fawn
at its mother's side
Clusters of frogs compete
with their cheerful chirping
Flowers threaten to precede
buds of bright green leaves
 
The sun stabs my heart
with its happiness
I wish it would rain grey all day
I am haunted and taunted
With rebirth and new life
While I weep
For the fire in your eyes
 
In memory of Shekhina who died February 18, 2008.
Thank You for Caring
Anything you can do to help me help Blanco will be greatly appreciated.  Be sure to include your contact information so I can send you your gift as my way of thanking you for your generosity:
 
$10 to $49: Thank You Card in the Mail
$50 to $99: One Free DVD
$100 or more: One Free DVD and One Free Book
 
 
And thank you for caring. 
Sincerely,
 
Veronica Monet
for Blanco 888-903-0050