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The Wealthy Woodpecker
Veronica Monet's Newsletter 
September 2008
Hello!

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in this issue
The Married Escort
Talking Dirty on TV
Chat Online with Veronica!
Sex and Saving the World
What IS a Wealthy Woodpecker?
Sexy Stuff
Tantra as Theater
Wolves Need Love Too
Obama  Palin
 
Time for Change 
 
Wow.  What did I say about CHANGE last month?  Can you feel imminent change in the air?  Good, bad or somewhere in between . . . change of some sort is coming fast.
 
For the first time in the history of the United States, we WILL have a person who is NOT a white male in the White House.  Even if you can't stand Senator Obama or Governor Palin, they will bring change to the political landscape simply by virtue of the fact that one of them will be either the first black man or the first woman to be the president or the vice president of the US. The implications transcend their personal politics or their personal failings.
 
I can't help but think of all the young black boys and young girls who are in grade school today seriously entertaining the possibility that they might one day hold the highest office in the land.  These are certainly fantasies my generation of women and minorities never dared to dream.  But it goes further than that of course.  As we move away from our stereotypes surrounding race and gender, we are able to tap the creativity and brain power of millions of people who heretofore have not been invited to contribute to the major decisions impacting our world.
 
And what of our economy and global warming and world peace?  As a race, we humans seem to be standing on the precipice of anihilation - and doing our best to ensure that all the other inhabitants of this planet suffer a similar fate.  Ever the optimist, I still believe that we humans WILL rise to the occasion and work together to turn impending disaster into an amazing opportunity to transcend some of our more troublesome traits. 
 
If we are to succeed, we will have to dig deep and work hard to shift the core beliefs and attitudes which no longer serve us or our survival. Honesty with ourselves and with each other is a prerequisite for our transformation.  WE can no longer afford to kid ourselves or live in denial.  As we shine the light of truth on our own shame, we reveal the fears that hold us captive to behaviors which are controlling and destructive to ourselves and others.  It is time to move away from the shadows of shame and allow the truth to set us free.
 
Oh and if life on Earth is getting you down, check out this YouTube video!
Veronica in Person
 
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Sonoma State
  
Veronica Monet lectures at Sonoma State University
 
This Lecture/Presentation will address the Sex Worker Rights Movement, Decriminalization versus Legalization of Prostitution, Mandatory Testing for sexually transmitted infections, the Whore/Madonna Complex, the roots of Sexual Shame and how Veronica juggled a husband and kids while working as an escort.
 
When:          Friday, November 21 at 1PM PST
Where:         Rohnert Park, CA
Who:            Students and Confirmed Guests
How Much:    Free to Veronica's Confirmed Guests
 
Please Note: You must contact Veronica if you are interested in attending this lecture/presentation.  Only Confirmed Guests will be admitted.  Thank you.
Veronica on TV
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September Television Interviews

This month I talked about Talking Dirty on FOX40 in Sacramento! I also did a segment about Movies to put You in the Mood.  Next week I have a pre-interview with Blue Chip Films about Domestic Violence for the WE channel. When I get an air date for the documentary, I will let you know!
Veronica on the Air
 
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FREE Help for Your Relationship(s) and Sex Life!
 
My new radio program, The Shame Free Zone, is an ideal opportunity for you to ask the experts (that's me and my illustrious guests!) those nagging questions you always wanted to ask but didn't know who to ask.  Radio lets you be anonymous too so you might want to go out on a limb and share some of your secrets!  Where else can you do all of that for FREE?!
 
When:   Mondays at 9PM PDT
Call:     
            Toll Free   877-876-5227 USA only
            Toll Free   888-815-9756 USA & Canada
            Direct Line 530-876-3222
            Or  check out BBS Fast Chat!
 
Be sure to check out the archives too, where you can find interviews of sex celebrities and experts such as master storyteller Cosi Fabian and the incomparable Annie Sprinkle.
Veronica in Print
 
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my book
 
As an author I love offering you a variety of reading options!  You can click on the links below for something short and sweet or head over to Amazon.com to order my book and/or short stories. 
 
Just click here then scroll to The Reading Room where you will see my smiling face inviting you to explore how our fear of sex is messing things up here on planet earth - and of course how I recommend we fix it!
 
You might want to pick up a copy of the current issue of Loving More Magazine which contains my article about Polyamory and Peace!
 
Read this short piece I wrote for HappyHer.com about Sex and Spirit right now.
 
Or check out a short article I wrote about Sex and Global Warming by clicking here.

This online article in The Naughty American is fun and informative and I enjoyed interviewing for it. You might find some of the anecdotes more than amusing.
 
And of course if you haven't picked up your personal copy of my book, Sex Secrets of Escorts (Alpha Books 2005), the best price is on Amazon.com. If you DO have a copy, please consider writing a review for it on Amazon!
Relationship Repair 
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What is a Wealthy Woodpecker?
 
A friend confessed that she thought I had chosen the woodpecker as part of my branding image (that's the picture you see at the top of this newsletter and all over my website, www.sexwithoutshame.com) as an obvious reference to male reproductive anatomy (pecker means penis to some folks).  Sorry.  It's not so.  Although you are welcome to interpret my use of the bird any way you like, the fact is that woodpeckers are my totem animal (look it up!). 
 
Why should you care?  Well, woodpeckers are associated with digging beneath the outside surface of things (like when they drill holes in the bark of trees).  It turns out I have a lot in common with these birds (no, I do NOT have a bird-brain, thank you).
 
When I work with my clients in person or over the telephone or in a workshop, the major gift I bring to the process is my ability to "peck away at deception until the truth is revealed" (as one colleague put it).  This comes in pretty handy when people are stuck and can't seem to move past their blocks to whatever they want more of (intimacy, joy, orgasms, etc.).
 
While I work much better in person or over the phone, from now on I will be utilizing this section of my monthly newsletter to answer questions about sex and relationships from you.  What truth would you like to see more clearly?  My woodpecker personality can't wait to dig in and find it for you.
Where Sex and Spirit Come Together
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Veronica Monet's Erotic Diaries 1993 to 2006
 
1.) Real Women . . . Real Fantasies Film
Recipient of the May 2001 San Francisco Sex Worker Film & Video Festival SINEMA AWARD. Dubbed "a groundbreaker in the feminization of porn" by Playboy magazine. Includes the x-rated debut of the infamous Mistress Ilsa Strix.

2.) Real Close and Personal Film

3.) Married Whore Slide Show

4.) Sacred Prostitute Slide Show
 
Adult Content: Sexually Explicit: Not for Sale to Minors.
All content conforms to Section 2257 of Title 18 of the United States Code (18 U.S.C. § 2257 and 28 C.F.R. 75)
 
 
Lecture Label
The Stanford DVD 2005
 
This DVD is all talk - Absolutely NO explicit images:
1.) Stanford Virgins
2.) In God We Trust
3.) Sidewalk Café

NO Nudity: University Lecture and Interviews!
 
Order Veronica's Lecture DVD now!
 
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Amazon Short Series: Veronica's White Trash Confessions
 
Strictly for readers who want the raw reality associated with recovery.  If you are having a tough time or just dealing with painful memories you may find comfort in my catharsis.
 
Click here to order for only 49 cents, if you dare.
 
Help and Healing for You ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 
Dirty Talk
 
Custom CDs just for you!
 
Let me create the unique information and eroticism you want and need for yourself and your relationship(s).  I offer custom CDs tailored to your specifications.  Email me at veronica@sexwithoutshame.com with your erotic wish list and I will help you make your dreams a reality!
 
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TantraNova Theater Workshop!
 
If you'd like to transform "Your Story" as it pertains to love, intimacy and sexuality into an asset that touches and moves yourself and others in your life then you may want to consider attending Freddy Zental's theater workshop called: Create-Express-Perform.........................click here for more! 
 
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Women Friendly Online Sex Supplies

The women at Holistic Wisdom care about the same things you care about: pleasure and quality at a reasonable price. But even if you don't want to make a purchase today, you will want to check out their articles about everything from sex toys to sex laws.
 
 
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Are You Tired of the Same Old Problems? Want to Change the Channel on Your Love Life? Book an Appointment with Veronica NOW!
 
My online service is here to make your life easier when you want to schedule an appointment with me.  No need to call or email, just click here to book an appointment with me now! Of course you can also call me toll free at 888.903.0050. My office hours are 10AM to 10PM PDT Monday through Friday.
 
Make a Difference
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Help Wolves Find Love
 
Since 1982, Wolf Haven has rescued more than 100 captive-born wolves from roadside zoos, animal collectors, private owners, research and other facilities.
At Wolf Haven, these wolves (and a handful of wolf-dogs, coyotes and foxes) receive a lifetime of compassionate care and are treated with dignity and respect for their wild nature.
- Providing sanctuary for captive-born wolves
For over two decades Wolf Haven has been educating an average of 20,000 - 30,000 visitors each year on the wolf and its role in the wild. Our educational programs include a variety of guided tours, on and off-site presentations and community outreach efforts.
- Educating the public on the value of all wildlife
Wolf Haven is proud to be one of only three US pre-release breeding facilities for a multi-agency effort to restore Mexican gray wolves to the Southwest. Wolf Haven is also a foster facility for housing red wolves that have been bred for red wolf recovery in North Carolina.
- Promoting wolf restoration
Wolf Haven is known throughout the world for its public outreach, education, support for research and practical activism.
- Protecting our remaining wild wolves and their habitat

Want to help Wolf Haven keep up their good works?  Click here to make a difference!
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Veronica Monet is a Certified Sexologist, Sex Educator and Relationship Expert. Find out what she can do for you with a phone call or email today!

phone:        888.903.0050
cell phone:   415.407.2932
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