Shekhina
Shekhina
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Veronica Monet's Newsletter
The Wealthy Woodpecker 
March 2008
Hello!

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in this issue
Your Comments and Questions Live on the Radio!
Slide Shows and Vulva Puppets
Stuff to Buy
Tantric Theatre and Greenpeace
Veronica's Worthy Picks - Help Stop Global Warming
Shekhina Takes Flight 
 
Winter Takes Its Toll and Spring Rebirths Our Hopes 
 
Even as winter snow lingers on the ground in gradually melting patches, the spring migration of water fowl and tropical birds has begun in some sections of the Tahoe National Forest.  Grosbeaks cluster on my once lonely birdfeeder and pintail ducks paddle in a nearby pond.
 
But I have mixed feelings about the signs of spring this year.  Just two weeks ago my little Shekhina was hit and killed by a car.  She jumped into some brush and disappeared into the trees as I commanded her to stop.  In the forest few of us keep our dogs on leashes, especially when the one major road in existence is not even in view. But Shekhina ran through all those trees and out into the road about a half mile away. Now I am so paranoid and grief stricken I may never allow my remaining German Shepherd, Blanco, to run in the woods again.  One thing is for sure, I will not be taking that particular walk through the forest for a long time - if ever.
 
Shekhina was a very special individual.  Anyone who ever met her was immediately struck with how human-like her gaze and affection were. My life certainly contains a huge hole where her love once lived. I have cried myself hoarse and now it is time to rejoin the living.  I never knew anyone who loved life more than Shekhina.  I wouldn't do her memory justice if I didn't embrace life with the same enthusiasm.  Many of you know that I believe we humans would do well to drop our defense mechanisms so we can learn important life lessons from the other animals we share this planet with.  Here is a partial list of the things Shekhina taught me:
 

1.)          The toy is irrelevant - the game is what matters

2.)           Empathy was not invented by humans

3.)           You don't need arms to give someone a hug

4.)                Fresh snow brings out the puppy in all of us

Veronica on the Air
 
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Howie, Bill and Me

KVMR's The Woman Show with Angelina Calafiore
 
Tune in and Call in with your questions and comments the last day of this month as I discuss Building a Bridge from Sexual Shame to Peace:
 

For as long as there have been humans to record history, humans have pondered solutions to violence.  Superstition, taboos, rules, codes of conduct and laws have been variously employed and enacted in an attempt to curb what is often considered one of our baser "animal" instincts.  Finally, an established culture has proven that we no longer need to live with rape, murder or war. So why haven't you heard about this non-violent society and their amazingly effective blueprint for peace?  No doubt this information has been suppressed because the solution involves sex.

 
Monday, March 31; show begins at 8PM PST
KVMR Radio 89.5 FM
Call in numbers:
(530) 265-9555
(800) 355-KVMR (5867) in N. California only
 
New Realities Radio with Alan Steinfeld
 
Veronica discusses How Sexual Taboos are Destroying Our Planet, How to Eliminate Sexual Shame, the Whore/Madonna Complex, the Sexual Double Standard, Older Women and Younger Men, How She Teaches Sex Techniques, How to Revive Romance in Long-Term Relationships, How to Female Ejaculate and more!
 
You can tune in every Tuesday night at 10PM on bbsradio.com to listen to other programming by New Realities.
 
 
Announcing My Brand New Podcast: The Real Live Ho Show!
 
I took the plunge and produced my very first podcast. There is still a lot for me to learn about podcasting so feel free to share any helpful hints you may have. In future episodes, I will discuss how our fear of sex is destroying the world and I intend to stir controversy about sex, relationships, sex work, religion, spirituality and environmentalism. This first podcast is about the Double Standard as it applies to female politicians.
March Workshops
 
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A&E Limo
 
Sacred Prostitution & the Modern Courtesan at The Center for Sex and Culture:
 
Is there really such a thing as Sacred Prostitution?  What about Courtesans?  What is the difference between a Courtesan and a Prostitute anyway?  Veronica Monet will answer these and many more questions about the World's Oldest Profession.  Discover the Spiritual roots of Sex and the Evolutionary Path of Prostitution which involves everything from the Pope to Penguins!  This presentation includes a documentary slide show of Modern Sacred Prostitution so you can see for yourself what it looks like. Come with your questions!
 
When:         Saturday afternoon, March 15, 2-5PM
Where:        The Center for Sex and Culture (CSC) at 1519 Mission Street 
                   (between 11th and South Van Ness) in San Francisco, CA
How Much:   $25-45 sliding scale; Pay at the door; CSC can take checks,
                   Visa, M/C and Discover.

 
Good Vibes Class
 
The First Ever Grass Valley Women's Sex Circle
 
I am thrilled to announce the first in a series of workshops designed to fully empower and enrich the erotic lives of women!  The extremely gifted hair stylist, Valoree Bringman is hosting my workshop at her brand new wellnes and beauty salon in Grass Valley. Whether you live local to gold country or just want to escape from the bay area for an evening of fun and sexploration, please join us for the warmth and laughter which are integral to any circle of women.
 
Learn Things about Your Body that even Your Doctor Doesn't Know!
Guess What's in Veronica's Sexed up Briefcase and Win a Prize!
Meet the Vulva Puppet!
Play Tantra Tarot!
Discover Sex Secrets to Revive Romance!

Learn the Answers to these Questions:

  1. Can sex be hotter than ever after 20 years of marriage?
  2. How can I understand men better?
  3. How can I feel wonderful about my body?
When:         Friday, March 28, 6:30-9:30PM
Where:        Haute Domane at 1671 East Main Street 
                  in Grass Valley, CA 95945
                  (Call Valoree for detailed directions at 530.477.1009)
How Much:  $35 - pre-register by phone (888.903.0050) or pay at the door!
Who:           Women Only
Shopping with Veronica
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Veronica Monet's Erotic Diaries 1993 to 2006
 
This DVD includes two x-rated videos and two x-rated slide shows.  Pay special attention to "Real Women . . . Real Fantasies!" which contains the illusive Mistress Ilsa Strix's adult debut. Ilsa Strix gained mainstream notoriety when she became romantically linked to Larry Wachowski, co-creator of The Matrix film series. Last year Rolling Stone Magazine ran an article inquiring "where is Ilsa Strix?" Well, darlings, she is in my DVD!
 
1.) Real Women . . . Real Fantasies
Recipient of the May 2001 San Francisco Sex Worker Film & Video Festival SINEMA AWARD. Dubbed "a groundbreaker in the feminization of porn" by Playboy magazine. Includes the x-rated debut of the infamous Mistress Ilsa Strix.

2.) Real Close and Personal
Lots of close-ups! Includes female ejaculation and fellatio starring Veronica Monet.

3.) Married Whore
Explicit sex scenes between Veronica Monet and her former husband.

4.) Sacred Prostitute
A magical encounter between Veronica Monet and a former quadriplegic client. Includes mild BDSM and intense Tantra.
 
Adult Content: Sexually Explicit: Not for Sale to Minors.
All content conforms to Section 2257 of Title 18 of the United States Code (18 U.S.C. § 2257 and 28 C.F.R. 75)
 
 
Lecture Label
The Stanford DVD 2005
 
This DVD is all talk so you don't need to worry about explicit images although
the topic is as sexual as ever:
1.) Stanford Virgins
2.) In God We Trust
3.) Sidewalk Café

NO Nudity: University Lecture and Interviews!
 
Order Veronica's Lecture DVD now!
 
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Amazon Short Series: Veronica's White Trash Confessions
 
Well you had better be in the mood for some extremely gut-wrenching reading before you check this out.  I dig so deep for this stuff that it makes me physically ill. Nothing erotic about this new series.  It is strictly for readers who want the raw reality associated with recovery.  If you are having a tough time or just dealing with painful memories, than you may find comfort in my catharsis.
 
Click here to order for only 49 cents, if you dare.
Erotic and Entertaining Resources
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Hotel Suit and Bra
 
Custom Erotic CDs for Couples and Singles!
 
Do you have a favorite fantasy? Or would you like personal tips for improving your love life?  Let me create the unique information and eroticism you want and need for yourself and your relationship(s).  I offer custom CDs tailored to your specifications.  Email me at veronica@sexwithoutshame.com with your erotic wish list and I will help you make your dreams a reality!
 
Tantra Nova Man
 
TantraNova Man in Chicago with Freddy Zental Weaver!
 
Enjoy an evening of entertaining theater and stimulating performance! You are invited to "TantraNova Man: An Experiential Show." Freddy Zental's unique style of story telling, drumming, singing and dance as he lays down his path in life through TantraNova is sure to intrigue you.
 
Saturday, March 29, 2008  8:00 to 9:30PM
 
Tickets: $15 per person

TantraNova Institute
2031 W. Warner Ave.
Chicago, IL 60618
Tel. 773-525-5006
 
Click here to find out more.
 
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Can't Wait? 
 
Visit Adam and Eve online  where you can download on demand.
 
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How do you Know if your Sex Toys are Safe?

Did you know that even Greenpeace has something to say about sex toys? You can read all about it on the Woman-owned and operated Holistic Wisdom website! Just go to Sex Guide & Tips and then click on Sex Toy Materials to read all about it. I am also featured as a guest author and you can find my article by going to Sex in the News and selecting the March 2, 2008 Edition.
 
 
Laughter and Love
 
Book an Appointment with Veronica NOW!
 
My online service is here to make your life easier when you want to schedule an appointment with me.  No need to call or email, just click here to book an appointment with me now! Of course you can also call me toll free at 888.903.0050. My office hours are 10AM to 10PM PST Monday through Friday.
 
Make a Difference
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Shekhina

 

You Can Help Stop Global Warming and Save Endangered Species
 
Those of you who have attended my lectures and workshops know that I have a great love for an ape known as the bonobo.  Peaceful and sex positive, they are a reminder of how important a healthy relationship to our sexuality really is.  They are also an endangered species and unlike the gorillas and chimpanzees, they don't even have a celebrity to speak on their behalf.  But the founders of the Bonobo Conservation Initiative are working hard to save them and they have made amazing progress in just the last couple of years!
 
For instance the new Sankuru Reserve was recently established.  It encompasses 11,803 square miles (30,570 km2) of tropical rainforest, making it the largest contiguous protected area for great apes in the world. Located in a remote area of the Congo rainforest, the new reserve is the first to protect both bonobos and okapi, a rare forest giraffe found, like the bonobo, only in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC).
 
"This is a monumental step toward saving a significant portion of the world's second largest rainforest, of critical importance to the survival not only of humankind's closest great ape relative, the bonobo, but to all life on earth given the increasing threat of climate change," said Sally Jewell Coxe, president and co-founder of the Bonobo Conservation Initiative (BCI).
 
Protecting Sankuru Reserve's forest will contribute significantly to mitigating global warming. Approximately 20% of annual green house gas emissions come from deforestation and other land-use change. Keeping this rich tropical forest intact will make an important contribution to global efforts to reduce emissions while simultaneously conserving biodiversity. The Sankuru Reserve stores up to 660 million tons of carbon, which if released by deforestation would emit up to 2 billion tons of carbon dioxide, comparable to emissions from 38,000,000 cars per year for 10 years.
 
"This is a huge victory for bonobo and rainforest conservation," Coxe said. "However our work has just begun. Now we need investment to successfully manage the reserve. And, other areas need to be protected to ensure the long-term survival of the bonobo and the integrity of the Congo rainforest." The Sankuru Reserve is the southern anchor for a constellation of linked, community-based reserves being developed by BCI in the Bonobo Peace Forest, a project supported by DRC President Joseph Kabila since its inception in 2002.
 
Bonobos need you and we need bonobos! Please join BCI's growing worldwide initiative to spread the word about bonobos-and help save these wonderful great apes before it's too late! If you have ideas or would like to be a local activist on behalf of bonobos in your community, please contact the BCI. If you would like to volunteer in any capacity, they can use your help.

You can make your tax-deductible donation on-line by clicking here.

Or, send a check to:

Bonobo Conservation Initiative
2701 Connecticut Ave. NW, Suite 702
Washington, DC 20008

Visit the BCI website for more info: http://www.bonobo.org

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