So you have just returned home from your
third meeting with your child's teacher. She
tells you that your child is not getting his
work done, he cannot sit still, and he is
simply not going to have any success in
school unless something changes. She suggests
that you talk to someone to see if he has
ADHD. What do you do next?
This can certainly be a difficult time in
any family, so we would not want you to be
uninformed as you take the next important
steps. Here are the things that we recommend
if you have a child that ought to be looked
at for possible Attention Deficit
Hyperactivity Disorder.
First, there should be an "adequate"
physical exam by the child's pediatrician or
family practice doctor. This doesn't have to
be an extensive, expensive exam, but should
be able to rule out possible problems like
Mononucleosis, Thyroid problems, lead
poisoning (if it is common in your area), and
potential attention problems caused by
medications, such as allergy medications.
Then, with a clean bill of health, we move on
to step two.
Second, get an evaluation for attention
deficit hyperactivity disorder. Usually a
psychologist or other mental health
professional will do this evaluation for ADD
ADHD. But please, only get counseling or
therapy from professionals who have a lot of
experience treating attention deficit
hyperactivity disorder. Therapists who do not
have a lot of experience with ADD ADHD will
just take your money and then probably blame
you, the parents, for the child's disorder.
Find experts on attention deficit
hyperactivity disorder in your area. Ask
around at your local CHADD chapter. Call you
local Psychiatric Hospital and ask for the
Child or Adolescent Unit. Then ask for the
"Charge Nurse." Ask the Charge Nurse who the
best psychiatrists and therapists in your
town are. They know.
The Evaluation
When you get an evaluation for attention
deficit hyperactivity disorder, there should
be a good parent interview. It's absolutely
essential that somebody sits down with the
parents and spends 45 minutes to an hour with
them. The psychologist or therapist needs to
find out what's going on now, why did the
parents pick up the phone and call now
instead of last week, and so on. A good
developmental history on the child must also
be taken. Important questions are: