eMatrimony Newsletter
 
Supporting, Encouraging and Challenging the WWME Community
Advent 2009
Dear eMatrimony Subscriber,
The holiday (holy) season is upon us!  Advent starts on November 29, and Thanskgiving (in the US) is on November 26.  We understand from research on Wikipedia that Thanksgiving was already celebrated this year on October 12 in Canada.  It is also formally celebrated in the Netherlands in relation to the Pilgrims' journey to North America.  Regardless of where you live, we offer a prayer of thanksgiving for our priests and religious, spouses and families, and the gift of God's grace.
 
In preparation for Advent, you might want to explore the web resources provided by the US Catholic Bishops.  There is something for each day of the Advent season - we encourage you to celebrate daily with your spouse and/or friends and/or families.  If you find yourself celebrating alone on one of the days, know that the rest of us are with you in spirit!
 
While you are visiting the US Catholic Bishops site, check out their recently approved and published Pastoral Letter titled Marriage, Love and Life in the Divine Plan.
 
Have a blessed holiday season and enjoy our brief newsletter below.
 
Love, Hilary and Jon Olson
eMatrimony editors
 
PS  Note at the bottom of this e-mail, there is now a "Share Button".  Using this, you can link this email to social networking sites such as Facebook, Twitter, and Digg.  See the Becker's article below for how to get connected on Twitter or Facebook.
Fr. Mario BarberoA 50th Anniversary Message
from Fr. Mario Barbero
Bedizzole, Italy
October 8, 2009
Dear Friends,
 
I have just returned home from Torino where on October 7 we celebrated the centenary of our Mother House (where our first missionaries were formed starting from 1909) and the anniversaries of religious vows and ordination of various missionaries. You would not believe it, but I was one those who celebrated 50 years of religious life.  In this mood I wish to journey with you through these 50 years.

October 2, 1959: at the end of my Novitiate I consecrate myself to be a Consolata missionary by taking the vows of obedience, chastity and poverty. I was 20 and happy to be a missionary. Two days later I was destined to continue my studies in Rome. It was my first time in the Eternal City where I spent the next 10 years graduating in philosophy, theology and Sacred Scripture. Those were the unforgettable years of Pope John XXIII, Vatican II, Paul VI, opportunity to breathe the Church as Catholic.

October 1969-1975: I am assigned to Torino as professor and formator in our theological seminary. It was the period after Vatican II with many changes and debates, not easy life, yet enriching experience living with young seminarians and giving Biblical courses to groups of lay people eager to know the word of God.

1976-1988 Kenya: I am assigned to Kenya and I served for six years teaching Bible in various seminaries in Nairobi and giving retreats and workshops to youth and religious men and women.  Then in January 1982 I was elected Provincial Superior of my community and for six years I got involved in the life of our many missions in Kenya, a challenging and beautiful experience witnessing the growth of the Church in Africa. In October 1978 I had the great surprise to experience a WWME weekend and since then working with married couples and families will become my best "hobby" for the rest of my life.

1988-2001 USA: A surprise assignment to USA gave me another perception of the Church. It was a real "new world" for me, yet an opportunity to get many new friends and experience the love of American Church for the missions. After six years in New Jersey I spent seven years in Washington DC, with young missionaries studying at CUA and this offered me the opportunity to go back to study and get a PhD in Biblical Studies with a dissertation on "Aquila and Priscilla a missionary couple". I discovered than even St. Paul could not be a missionary without the cooperation of married couples!

2002-2007 Kinshasa: After my studies in DC I was asked to go and share my Biblical wisdom in Africa, in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Everything was ok, I had just to switch from English to French, a language I had studied 40 years earlier. It worked and I enjoyed my life in Congo, a very lively Church in a country destroyed by years of wars and millions of casualties. I lived in our Consolata seminary and taught Bible in two theological centers of Kinshasa, giving also my assistance to the Marriage Encounter community of that city.

2008 Italy: After 32 years in other continents I was asked to serve in Italy in the area of "missionary animation".  I am now in our Consolata community of Bedizzole in the Diocese of Brescia (where Pope Paul VI was born), in the vicinity of Lake Garda. It is a sort of new land for me and I am enjoying both the area and the people as I visit many parishes to preach about the missions, meet missionary groups and give Biblical courses in various parishes.   As you can guess I am also involved in Marriage Encounter and Retrouvaille. 

My dear, I can hardly believe that already 50 years have gone by since I took my vows. I have not always practiced them perfectly. As I ask God for forgiveness for my infidelity, I thank him for all he has given me during these 50 years (among his gift is your friendship and love for me). If I had to start anew I think I would take those 3 vows and become a Consolata missionary again.

God bless you.
With love and gratitude,
Fr. Mario Barbero IMC
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eMatrimony is now on Twitter
by Ralph & Jane Becker
 
Worldwide Marriage Encounter continues to grow in its presence in online social media web sites.  In addition to some videos posted on YouTube and our presence on Facebook, you can now find eMatrimony on Twitter, the micro-blogging service.
 
For the uninitiated, Twitter is a free service that allows users to post short (up to 140 characters) messages, called tweets, which are displayed on the author's profile page.   Posted messages are delivered to the home pages of author's Twitter subscribers, who are called followers.  In the case of eMatrimony, tweets include a Dialogue question each day, WWME news & information, reminders of upcoming events, and links to news and other messages about marriage.
 
Part of the power of Twitter is in its search capability.  You can search for any word or phrase of interest, like "marriage encounter" or "dialogue question".  Popular topics or events often will have a common "hash tag" associated with them, such as "#WWME" or "#marriage", which can help you find messages of interest.
 
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To learn more about Twitter, read this
Wikipedia article, and to learn more about Twitter terminology, refer to this online resource.  Or you can contact us (Ralph and Jane).

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As an online publication of Worldwide Marriage Encounter, eMatrimony serves as a resource to support, encourage and challenge couples, priests and religious to live the values of the WWME experience and grow stronger in their efforts to renew the church and change the world.
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For comments related to this newsletter, or if you have something to contribute related to WWME, send e-mail to the editors, Hilary and Jon Olson .