Q: How to reach Wisdom ?
A: Wisdom is not something that can be reached since God is the only one who can give it. We can not reach, God gives, and this is true wisdom.
Q: When everything goes wrong in our lives , is it because God is punishing us?
A: If God had to punish, then, humanity would not exist. God creates out of Love, then, His Love is never punishment but the human being feels the punishment when he exceeds the limits of reality, then he punishes himself. God loves him.