Every relationship will go through stages -very serious at times; it is important to understand this, since at some point, we will live difficult situations. The only thing that will allow us to overcome them, will be to have faith, to pray, to be patient and to give as much Love as we can.

An extreme situation is when all seems to be lost, confused and finished, nevertheless, this is only the beginning, although it may be the end for many, because they have not been able to endure and to give, not only their best but also their true sacrifice. Few are the persons who truly love, they may say so, but they lose the capacity of waiting, tolerating, forgiving. And the key word here is: Conciliation.
 

Many times, we may have felt violence, frustration and incompatibility. Let's imagine that we have planted fruit trees, we have given them, our best care and effort and we have the illusion of harvesting the fruits but we find that nothing happens, and we find that even the plants have withered and our efforts seem lost.
 

Some persons, will abandon everything and will not be able to continue, but those who truly love, will find how to take better care of their fields and then, some day, they will see them filled with fruits and their hearts will be filled with happiness. They will realize that miracles do exist when we are able of waiting, of having confidence, of trusting, even of undergoing and suffering bitterness without allowing them to poison us.

How sad is the image of a divided family! There is nothing as painful as that, no matter how many explanations or justifications may be, whether we think that we are right or not, when a family is not able to give all that is needed, it is comparable to a ship that will never arrive to its destination. Because their lives have been uprooted because they don't realize that their most important priority is to know that God moves and manifests in the family.
 

What will happen to all the members of a divided family? They will be like a mutilated body. What is the reason of ignoring this truth?

We may try to do other things, we may think that we will be happier or that there is no possible solution. It will be like becoming blind, deaf and mute, like losing arms, feet, heart and reason.

What is the reason that when we unite, embrace, and truly love, the wind may take everything?
But what the wind, not even death, can take away, is the union and the family love. Who can deny this truth? Who is capable of not seen this reality?

Then, if you are capable of appreciating something so simple, so near, as your own life, open up more and you will be able to understand what is truly great and wonderful. But all this, will only happen if Jesus is in the center of your heart, of your life, and of the life of your family. And you must learn from Him, how to love, sacrifice, honor, surrender and to give your best.

Then, although everything seems opposed, have faith, because God loves you and above all, He loves the family. Love Him, too.