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 The Rev. Sharon L. Vandegrift, M.Div, PCC 
 
          Professional Certified Coach, International Coach Federation
                    Endorsed Life Coach, United  Methodist Church

Making Changes

Quotes Of the Month

  "There are some people who live in a dream world, and there are some who face reality; and then there are those who turn one into the other."
~Douglas Everett

"You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call 'failure' is not the falling down, but the staying down."
~Mary Pickford

"When patterns are broken, new worlds emerge."
~Tuli Kupferberg

Prayer for the Month

"Dear God,

May all the changes that would shift this world

away from sorrow and into peace;

away from violence and into love;

away from darkness and into light;

now happen.

Not later, now."


~From 'Illuminated Prayers'
by Marianne Williamson

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                                                              July 2011

Greetings!   

 

Making changes is always risky, but, when the time is right, change can be invigorating and transforming. Are you ready for making changes?

                     Enjoy ~ Sharon

Making Changes

Making changes in our own lives or in the life of the communities in which we participate can be invigorating and life renewing. But there is no doubt about it: making changes can be very tricky business. Being able to clearly define motivation, goals and strategy is integral to the successful navigation of the change process.

Are you presently pondering the possibility of making changes? Be intentional about laying the necessary groundwork. Whether you are considering a personal lifestyle shift, professional transition, or leading in the capacity of change agent for a larger group in need of revitalization, it will be helpful to consider the stages and clarifying questions below.

Motivation and Goals:

  • Where are you now and where do you want to be?
  • What do you really want your life (work, community effort, church) to look like?
  • How will things be better if changes are made?
  • What are the risks associated with the possible changes?
  • What are the risks associated with not making any changes?
  • Are you (we) ready to take charge of the situation and move toward engaging life in a new way?

Develop a Strategy:

  • What needs to be done differently for you to move forward toward your vision?
  • What is the change that you believe will bring the most effective result?
  • What are the elements of the change that need to be communicated and/or negotiated?
  • With who? How?
  • What is your timeline? Why is this your timeline?
  • How will you be held accountable to your commitment?
  • How will you know that you have accomplished what you want to accomplish?

Engage :

Embrace the process and enjoy the journey! Making changes successfully involves significant effort. But, the results will be worth it!

 Query for the Coach
logo Dear Sharon,
After having served the same church for over 10 years, I recently made the move to a new appointment. I am excited to be here and the people are saying that they are very eager to hear my new ideas. But I am afraid of making changes too fast. When I was in seminary, I remember my practical theology professor telling us that we should just listen to the congregation and we shouldn't make any changes in the first year. But, even though that makes sense to me, I feel like I will disappoint my new congregation if I just listen but don't act this first year. What do you think?

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