Your Unique Bridge
 'Bridge' : a simple word but a complex metaphor. Bridges can be awesome architectural feats that inspire us to move forward into new territory. Or, they can be rickety, broken down structures that leave us feeling uneasy as we tiptoe across. Bridges can be solid and sound and give us a sense of firm foundation. Or, they can sway with the wind, churning up our insecurities as we cross over. But always, bridges provide a way for us to move from where we are to where we are headed.
As we embrace this metaphor, I invite you to consider the type of bridge that will support you as you move from where you are to where you hope to be. Are you feeling stuck on the bank of the water, not sure whether it is safe to cross...or are you eager to begin the journey to the next stage of your life and work? Will you hold onto a railing every step of the way for fear of falling, or will you put on your walking shoes and march full force to the other side? So much is dependent on the bridge that looms before you.
Once we have a sense of where we want or need to go, we have the ability to design and erect a bridge that meets our unique circumstances. But that means being intentional about the plan and purposefully engaged in the building. So today, consider these questions:
· Where do I want to go from here?
· On what kind of bridge do I want to travel?
· How can I begin to design and build the bridge of my dreams? |
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Query for the Coach
Dear Sharon,
How do I know if it is time to leave my present church? I have been the pastor here for 15 years, and I am starting to think that the time has come. Things are basically going well, but I have lost the enthusiasm I once had. I have had a fruitful ministry here, but lately I feel like I am hitting a wall. It is almost like there isn't much more for me to do here. But, when I think of leaving, (and as I wrote this email!) I get a knot in my stomach because this congregation has become like family to me and I can't imagine saying 'good-bye'. My husband is on the verge of retiring right now, so this would be a good time for me to be relocating. I just don't want to make a mistake that I will regret. What do you think?
To read Sharon's response go to: Query for the Coach |
