When life and work become murky and muddled it is difficult to know which way to turn. We are generally presented with a myriad of options regarding how to act or what to say, and the proper choices are not at all clear.  We can get confused or worried and find ourselves not only feeling distressed but even paralyzed by a particular challenge. Our deep desire to do the 'right thing' can undermine confidence in our intuition and best instincts. In the midst of the swirling stress, we can't seem to sort it out. We are in the dark!

These are times when it is important to 'follow the light'. And often, that light speaks from our hearts and comes from the depths of our souls. Authentic, competent leaders generally have very good instincts. Mistakes are made when gut instincts are not followed. I have one client who sometimes begins a coaching session with what seems like a difficult situation. She inevitably discovers a simple resolution and then declares: "well, that was easy, it just makes sense." It is clear that she just needed to take the time to get in touch with her best instincts.

More often than not, following the light is a matter of intentional listening to our inner voice. God resides within each of us. So, trust yourself. Tap into your own goodness and brilliance. Move out of the darkness and follow the light!

What would it be like if you had constant access to your best instincts?