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September 4, 2010

"Daily Living" At An Assisted Living Community
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"Daily Living"
Part Five of Nine on Assisted Living


Today, my client led out with "when I go to the nursing home..."
She is not going to a nursing home, she is going to a beautiful facility. It's like the Love Boat! 

Assisted living is not institutionalized care. It is intended to be apartment living with perks. These perks take the form of congregate meals and the availability of assistance with activities of daily living. Other perks can be found on the social calendars around the facility.  

Still, there are legitimate questions that must be answered about daily living.  So here goes...

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Telephones 
Having tea and coffee
A state regulation requires that a resident must have access to a telephone to make and receive confidential calls, although a facility can require reimbursement for "long distance calls."

A manual used by the Department of Social Services further explains that a facility may satisfy its requirements with a pay telephone, as long as the facility gives residents change to pay for local calls. 

Visitors 

In general, a resident can meet visitors in an assisted living facility during reasonable hours of the day. The facility must assure that a resident and visitor are able to meet privately, if desired. Most facilities will allow a guest to spend up to two weeks in the apartment with a resident. I often have clients whose children live out of state and they are thrilled to know that their son or daughter can stay with them.   

Roommates 

Most facilities have several hosing options for residents. Many have studios, one bed rooms and shared suites. As is probably obvious, a resident who opts for a single room must generally pay a higher monthly rate. Pursuant to state law however, no more than two residents are allowed to sleep in one bedroom.  

Bathroom facilities 

Regulations provide that an assisted living facility must provide at least one toilet and sink for each six residents. A facility also must
provide at least one bathtub or shower for each ten residents.  All of the facilities that I have visited have a bathroom and shower in the room. Many also have bathrooms and showers scattered about the facility.  

What indoor temperatures are acceptable? 

Resident rooms must be heated to at least 68 degrees. The rooms must be cooled to a "comfortable range" between 78 and 85 degrees. 

These rules do not prevent a resident from adjusting a thermostat in his room to his own preferences. 

How must a facility serve meals? 
Dining Room
An assisted living facility must offer
residents
at least three meals each day. Dinner during the evening and breakfast the following morning cannot be separated by more than fifteen hours.

Tray service- delivering meals to the resident's room- must be provided as necessary. Most facilities will do this without a charge a few times if the resident is sick, but after that they will charge a small fee. If you see that a fee is being assessed for this you might start to wonder why our loved one is not going down for meals regularly.  

Meals must meet nutritional guidelines, and consist of an appropriate variety of foods. They also must be planned with consideration for resident's cultural and religious backgrounds and food habits. 

If necessary, a facility must offer meals that meet a resident's doctor-prescribed guidelines. In addition, a facility must chop or grind food for residents who have difficulty swallowing.  

Snack Time  

Facilities are required to provide between-meal snacks to a resident unless the snacks are prohibited or limited by dietary restrictions prescribed by the resident's doctor. 

Activities  
Senior Center
An assisted living facility must
provide activities to make residents' lives as complete as possible. Activities must
promote socialization among residents and give residents contact with events outside of the facility. Most facilities have their own transportation so that they can take their residents to lunch or to a picnic or to the supermarket.   

A facility also must provide special programs that address the needs and limitations of residents with dementia. Facilities must make available to residents a variety of planned activities, including: group discussions, arts and crafts, music, games, exercise, educational classes, and access to community activities such as religious observances, concerts, and plays. 
 
Can a facility prevent residents from leaving the facility? 

Certain assisted living facilities have approval from the Department of Social Services to prevent residents from leaving. A resident can be admitted to such a "secured perimeters" facility only if the resident is placed in the facility by a conservator with appropriate legal authority, or if the resident consents to live in the facility. These are typically dementia units.  

Certain other assisted living facilities have "delayed egress" doors that delay, but do not prevent, a resident's exit from the building. These doors electronically notify a staff member when a resident is leaving the building. After being notified, the staff member may try to convince the resident to remain in the building, but the staff member may not prevent the resident from leaving. 

Other facilities have parking spaces for their residents who are still driving and independent.  

HAVE A GREAT LABOR DAY AND DON'T WORK TOO HARD!!!!!!!

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