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March 2009- Vol 1, Issue 1 
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Ambassadors of Financial Education
Sandra A.Varano Golden Purse Award
What to Do When You Become the News
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Ambassadors of Financial Education!
Paulette and Dianne
Paulette Smith and Dianne Long were honored at the 2008 Purses to Portfolios Conference for reaching 250 Money School hours, raising each of them to the level of Ambassador of Financial Education!
Their dedication extended beyond the classroom to many hours volunteering for The Money School.
Sandra A. Varano Golden Purse Award
Golden Purse Award The Sandra A. Varano Golden Purse Award,
named in honor of the first Golden Purse winner, was presented to Kainde Barduae, third from left, for her commitment to financial education and her advocacy for The Money School.  She is pictured here with fellow nominees (l to r), Shanta Jeffers, Jane Taylor and Linda Smith.
I AM MY OWN LEAD STORY:
What to Do When You Become the News

by Mary CaracciolMary Caracciolii*

As my staff and I reported on the world's economic turmoil for my nightly TV show Money Matters Today, we got the news. Our network, show, and jobs were being eliminated. 

Three hundred fifty of us would be thrown back into searching for a job at a time when it felt as though there was no job market.  For my staff, the news was particularly hard. 

Day-in and day-out we covered the story of the bad economy... we knew the economic forecasts and they were downright ugly.   The irony was not lost on us. We had become our lead story. 

As we reported the rise of unemployment, some of us would soon be filing for first-time jobless claims. Our fears were real. Would we lose our homes, too?  Could we sell them now even if we wanted to?  These were questions we had tried to answer for a viewers every night. And now, we had to answer them for ourselves.  

At this moment, it occurred to me how important a nation's psyche really is. This is America. We pick ourselves up by our bootstraps.  While headlines blared about bailouts, I decided bailouts had no appeal to me personally.  What the big banks and the auto industry are learning now is that bailouts come with strings attached. I prefer to write my own script. But how do I pull it together when my industry is cutting back across the board?

Fresh layoffs occur by the day. Newspapers are folding, television news departments are no longer competing with each other.  They are sharing material to stay on the air.  My predicament is very similar to my friends in financial services and in the auto industry. Smart, hard-working, talented people are paying the cost for a situation caused by a bad economy and, in some cases, colossally bad management.

Worrying about how this happened - is a story for another day. Today, the only story I am concerned about is picking up the pieces as best I can and re-focusing on what really matters.   I am focusing on things I can control.  There is good that comes from a job loss. Now, you can magically cut through the noise and the trivial and gain clarity about what matters.  So, how can you and I turn this situation around and make it work for us? I have three ideas I'd like to present and get your feedback.

1)  Re-focus your long-range plan. What really matters now? Once you let go of goals from the past and accept that things have changed, think long term. What are your long-range priorities now? What are your goals for yourself and the other people that matter to you - children, parents, community, etc. So often when we are in the middle of a job loss, we think about all we have or may have to give up. I say reshape the discussion. It's not giving up on things. It's re-thinking the priorities.  It's not about deliberately shrinking goals; they may be even more grand than before.  By acknowledging our world has changed, you may also discover some of your long-range goals also have changed.

2)  Re-focus your time.  Recently, a friend told me that her job search was so time-consuming she had no time to network.  I suspected that she was spending hours on Internet job boards as an excuse for not reaching out.  When I pushed her on this, she said her network no longer existed. She said her co-workers were her network, and now they are either laid-off, too, or aren't returning calls.  I reminded her that she is much more than the title she had on her last job.  She has family, neighbors and access to a larger community that she has yet to tap into.  I asked if she had won the lottery instead of being laid-off what would she be doing with her time? She told me she always wanted to do non-profit work and that she loved cycling and would do a cross-country trip.   I reminded her that her job search took time, but not eight hours a day. She had time to work in 10-20 hours of non-profit work per week. The work would be rewarding and create even more contacts for her network.  Joining the local cycling club would allow her to train, stay fit, and meet new people. You never know where that next job will come from, but it often comes from personal referrals not a classified ad or Internet job board. Those tools are good, but the pros tell me to spend no more than 10% of your time looking through ads to find a job. Networking - which is simply reaching out to those in your circle - is the best way to get that job.
  
3)  Re-focus your spending. What really matters now? Do you need the cable TV and internet? Maybe just one will do.  Look at your spending. Where were you wasteful because you were so busy, you gave yourself permission to be wasteful? What can you do to lower bills or bring in more income. Things like conserving energy can lead to a very quick return on your investment in any season.  Adjusting the thermostat or being diligent about turning off lights pays you back immediately.  Take a look at things like your auto insurance. A woman I know was spending a fortune to insure a 13-year-old car.  Good liability was important - but why pay to insure a car when your deductable is more than the car is worth?  Shop around and make sure you have the right coverage.  I am not saying skimp here, I am saying don't be wasteful. Spend what you need and no more.  Re-think your cell phone plan.  To do this right you need to take a methodical and hard look at your spending. I would take a look at every dollar spent over the last 3 months;  you could list a lot of the wasteful stuff you without doing this. But, every time I do this exercise I find new ways to save.  It's tedious and it pays off. Do it. You will also know exactly how much money you need to earn to stay afloat.  Guessing isn't good enough. If you have to negotiate a salary for your next job, it will be helpful to know what you really need to make, rather than what your ego needs you to make. 

Finally, on the subject of our ego. The only thing more bruising to your ego than losing your job is getting dumped by a guy (or gal) that you didn't really like all that much anyway. It stinks and you can't help but feel insulted by a pink slip. I am better than this -right?  Thoughts can really go down a negative road if you spend too much time serving your ego here.  Tell yourself you will deal with the injustice later. Today is about moving on.  I promise you there is something on the other side of unemployment.  We are different people on the other side, often sharper, more interesting and far more compassionate than before.
 
I know that won't pay the bills today, but it is your reward for continuing to work hard to right your ship.   You are doing the right thing-keep doing it. It will pay off.  In the meantime, I am right there with you. Let me know how you're doing by visiting me at MaryandMoney.com.

Reward those who are helping you by making them my world famous granola, recipe below. (Maybe not world famous yet-but it should be!)
* Mary Caraccioli is a Board Member of the Delaware Financial Literacy Institute and an Emmy Award-winning TV journalist with an extensive business and financial background.  She was a featured speaker at the last two From Purses to Portfolios Conferences.


Mary's Homemade Granola

               2 ½ cups of rolled oats (Don't use instant oatmeal.)
            1/2   cup of coconut flakes
            2 tablespoons of flaxseed
            1/2 cup of sunflower seeds
            2 cups of mixed nuts (Use what you like.
            I use almonds slices and whole cashews.)
            2 tablespoons of wheat germ
            2 cups of dried fruit (I like cherries, but
            cranberries, blueberries  or raisins work well.
            You can also combine different fruit.)
            1 teaspoon of sea salt
            1 tablespoon of cinnamon
            1/2 cup of brown sugar
            1/8 cup of canola oil
            3 tablespoons of honey
            2 tablespoons of maple syrup
            2 teaspoons of vanilla extract
            1/2 cup of applesauce

  Preheat oven to 350 degrees. 
 Combine dry ingredient, except for dried fruit.  Put fruit aside until 
 granola is out of the oven.  In a separate bowl, combine wet 
 ingredients, then fold wet ingredients into the dry ingredient bowl.
 Once dry ingredients are thoroughly coated, spread onto a large cookie
 sheet.
 
 Put into the oven in batches. After 10 minutes, use a spatula to mix
 granola to prevent burning. Once the granola is a dark golden color
 remove pan from the oven. Let cool before mixing in dried fruit.

 Tip: Buying ingredients in bulk saves money & is handy if you want to
 make a fresh batch every week.                             Mary