July 2009
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Unlocking The Power of Your Own Network!
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Greetings!

Last month I wrote about targeting the audience for your networking message. Who do you really need to meet? I spoke about creating specific triggers to help people find referrals for you. And I promised that this month, I would give you an exercise to help increase the referrals you get from your network.

Ready to exercise your skills? Read on.
Drop and Give Me 50!

No, I don't really want you to give me 50 push ups. But the military does have it right. Skills need to be exercised, and networking skills are no different.

The following exercise can help. It's designed to show others how to help you.

I suggest you approach someone who should be an excellent referral source for you but hasn't quite met expectations. Obviously, it will be most effective with someone who wants to refer you but hasn't yet gotten exactly how to recognize a good client for you. Best of all is someone to whom you have given several referrals. A bit of "karmic guilt" makes this exercise all the more effective.

Offer to buy him or her lunch or coffee. That makes for a comfortable environment. We often build relationships better over food. Tell your contact that you have pulled together a list of the characteristics of your ideal client and you want feedback and help.

Go through your personal list with him or her. Watch carefully for reactions (if any) to the various triggers. Make a note by those.

Ask if the list generated any names. If you have created a good list and selected the right person, there should be some wheels turning.

If yes, ask if you can do some strategizing on how to turn those names into prospects for you.

If no, you either are meeting with the wrong person, or your list needs refining. You are going to have to go with your instincts on this one. Good signs are the other person offering to help you refine your list or asking good questions like, "That list doesn't spark anything for me, but I do work with these types of clients. Might they be good for you also?" Bad signs are obviously a lack of interest in the process or some sort of brush-off like, "Well, I can't think of anyone right now, but if I do, I'll let you know."

This meeting should have done one of two things for you. The best outcome is a list of names your contact will speak to on your behalf, using the strategies you mutually developed. If that doesn't happen, then you have some ideas for how to tweak your list, or you know you need to try a different person.

Don't be frustrated if it takes a few tries for this to work. Each time you go through the process, you will learn something about yourself and the people you want to work with. With the right list and the right person, you will get prospects, and those prospects will turn into clients with a better closing ratio than mass mailings. You will also get more clients than if you wait for passive referrals.

Once you have this list refined and some strategies in place, I suggest you go to everyone in your network and go through this exercise with them.

And of course, when your contacts come through with prospects, offer to return the favor by helping them with their trigger lists. The more you give back, the more likely you are to get in the future.
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I'd be happy to go through this exercise with any of my readers. Use me as a safe place to try it out!

Please forward this newsletter to anyone who might need the information, or my services.