May 2009
(c) Juli Monroe
Networking Nuggets
Unlocking The Power of Your Own Network!
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Getting the Most Out of Your Chamber Membership
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Introverted Networking

Time:
Thursday, May 7, 2009 from 6-8PM
Location:
Hunan Chef, 5085 Westfields Blvd (by Safeway)
Centreville, VA 20120
Cost: $40

Want to network with other introverts? Come network with us. Lauren Kirby of Turn Around, LLC and I will be hosting and facilitating this event
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Springfield Chamber of Commerce Speed Networking

Time:
Friday, May 22, 2009 from 8:45 to 10:00 AM
Location:
Holiday Inn Express
6401 Brandon Ave
Springfield, VA 22150

Cost:
$20 for Chamber Members, $30 for non-members

I will be facilitating the event.

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Netmasters Training Group


Time: Thursday, May 28, 2009 from 6:00 to 8:00 PM
Location:Century 21 New Millennium Building in Kingstowne (by Safeway)
5990 Kingstowne Towne Center
Alexandria, VA 22315
Cost: $15

Subject: F-Up With Style! (That's Follow Up, of course. Shame on you if you thought something else.)

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Alexandria Business Connections

Time: Thursday, June 4, 2009 from 7:30-9:00 AM
Location: St. Elmo's
Coffee Pub, 2300 Mt. Vernon Avenue,
Alexandria, VA
Cost: Free

I will be the guest speaker at this meeting.

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Greetings!

Apologies to the Immortal Bard, but sometimes it's just too easy.

Many of you are in single person per profession networking groups, like BNI, NRG and the like. One of the selling points of these types of groups is often the "single person per profession" part. In other words, your competition isn't in the room with you, unlike in a Chamber of Commerce or similar organization.

When I started my networking career, I heard that message often enough that I started to think Chambers weren't worth the time. Fortunately, I learned otherwise fairly quickly, and I am currently a very happy member of my own Chamber. Some things are the same, no matter what organization you belong to. But there are some very specific things you can do to get the most out of your Chamber membership, and I want to discuss them in this article.

Read on...
Getting the Most Out of Your Chamber Membership

As with any organization, showing up is the most important part. Being a Chamber member and doing nothing with that membership might not bring you the results you are looking for. So going to mixers is a good first step. Most Chambers have them at different times of day: morning and evening, mostly, though some also feature lunch events. If you can go to all the events, that's great. Obviously, that will allow you to meet the most people. But if you can only do some, that will work too. The important thing is for fellow members to see your face and learn a little bit about who you are.

Many people have told me that, when they can, they prefer to use the services of Chamber members. But they have to know you exist before they can use you. Attending events and being known is one way to set yourself apart from your competitors. For example, there are six Realtors currently in my Chamber. One I see perhaps once a quarter. Another I see at least once a month. And the other four? I just checked their names in the membership listing. I can't remember ever seeing any of them. So if a Chamber member who attends meetings regularly wants to use another member for their real estate needs, which one do you think they'll pick? Probably the ones who show up at events. And the one who gets the first shot will likely be the one who is there the most.

Another way to work the events is to look at the room as full of doors to be opened rather than as full of potential clients. Many people who attend Chamber events get this one wrong. They run around the room, handing out their cards, assuming that is networking and will get them business. Long-time readers of this newsletter know how I feel about that. And what I do with those cards!

Merely meeting someone at an event is not going to get them to buy your product or service-unless you sell gifts baskets, and an important date is less than a week away. But most of us do not sell products that can be bought on impulse. If you have something we want, we will probably use you, but not if you annoy us by telling us we are your ideal client. Give us the freedom to make that decision on our own.

So how do you not annoy us? Find those doors you need opened. Looking for a mentor? There may be one in the room. Looking for a vendor? Ditto. Looking for a resource for your clients? Odds are someone in the room can help. Need an introduction to a particular industry? Find the person who might be connected.

When you look at the room this way, you are looking for ways that you and others can help each other. And that's how you start building a solid business relationship.

Be open to other people wanting to build a relationship with you. As I was writing this article, I got a call from someone I met at a Chamber event last month. He is looking for people to partner with (i.e. refer his clients to). He complained to me that one of the people he wants to refer was at that event, and he tried to set up a meeting with her. Her response? "Are you serious about using my services, or do you just want a 'get to know me' meeting?" Hmm...was she looking for clients or doors? I gave him the contact information for someone who gets it and will see that he has the potential to be a great door-opener. Too bad for the other person. She's missing out on a real opportunity.

Finally, get involved with your organization. Volunteer for a committee. Sponsor an event. Sponsor the organization. Being involved will allow you to meet the leadership. They will appreciate your time and willingness to help. And don't you tend to call leaders first if you need something? Well so does everyone else. So how about if your name is first on their list, instead of your competition's?
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Please forward this newsletter to anyone who might need the information, or my services.