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"A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success. Life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect people. Learning to accept each other's faults and acknowledging each other's differences are the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship."
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Not feeling very compassionate? It's OK.
Your human.
Take a deep breath, step back, and choose compassion again to become the person you want to be.
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Greetings!
It's the heat of summer and if you are here in Houston our recent rains have brought refreshment to our five - month drought! Going for a stretch of over one-third of a year without a drop of moisture is significant for us and that first cool wind of a coming storm replenishes not only our yards and gardens but our souls as well.
As a healthcare professional, caregiver, manager, or executive, a dose of compassion "rain" to the self and others can renew our care, refresh our interactions and positively impact our team and patients. Enjoy some news, research briefings ands tips for avoiding compassion drought in your organization and refreshing your team to be its personal best.
Warmest regards,
Lisa
Care, Communicate, Connect!
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Rationalizing Incivility and Non-Compassionate Behaviors
An engaged workforce is an organization's most valuable asset. Most healthcare organizations routinely assess employee engagement as this indicator may directly impact the patient experience and thus patient satisfaction scores. A patient's perception of care and concern from the healthcare team is one of several facets of the patient experience and is a necessary measurement as healthcare moves toward value-based purchasing models of reimbursement.
Creating an engaged work environment can be challenging if the environment is muddled by rudeness, bad manners and incivility among the team members. Leiter, et al. conducted recent research through focus groups with healthcare providers to determine the "rudeness rationale" that is used to justify and perpetuate rude and uncivil behaviors in the workplace. The Canadian study included the use of the researchers' Rudeness Rationales Scale to assess thought processes that justify behaving rudely towards colleagues.
The three principal findings suggest that perceived rude behaviors are a function of increased work pressures, being tough with people and the victim's excessive sensitivity. Rationalizing incivility or rudeness may help people maintain a sense they are behaving appropriately and thus not accepting personal responsibility for contributing to problems within the team. Read more...
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Compassion in a Moment
Compassion comes in many forms of verbal and non-verbal actions and behaviors. In healthcare, we teach scripting as a "best" way to respond, express care and concern, and share information with our patients. We create processes and best practices to manage the technical application of healthcare. Yet observation of compassionate behaviors may also be a motivator to feel secure and supported, to take action, and maintain a sense of hope.
I was passively listening to a television interview with a recent weight loss winner. When asked what kept her motivated and inspired to lose more than 125 pounds she said, "When I saw the love and compassion in the face of my trainer, I knew I could do this." As Larry Dossey states in his article, A Bedside Manner: A Case for Compassion , "Compassion can be conveyed in moments; it is not proportional to time."
- As we teach our scripting, service acronyms, and process flows, do we include the power of a compassionate expression?
- Do our patients see the love and compassion or do they just hear the care and concern? Or, do they just hear the script?
- Do our colleagues and subordinates see and hear the empathy, compassion, care and concern?
- How is your internal compassion enlightening your message of care and concern?
For one moment once a day, share a compassionate expression with someone you know, someone you don't, someone who is kind and helpful to you, and someone who is not. Let us not discount the power of a moment of compassionate expression. |
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Type and Mindfulness
I've always been fascinated by the concept of "mindfulness" - the calm awareness of one's body functions, feelings, content of consciousness, or consciousness itself. Buddhists hold that over 2500 years ago, Buddha provided guidance on establishing mindfulness, or the action of bringing one's awareness to focus on experience within the mind at the present moment.
I became involved with mindfulness in the early 90s when managing rehabilitation programs. At the time, cardiac and pulmonary rehab programs were researching and testing mindfulness for managing stress and initiating the relaxation response. Two decades ago it was a bit "new age" but the concept has definitely come into its own in the 21st century as an integrative practice in medicine and master practitioners are citing significant positive results in the healthcare setting with both healthcare providers and patients.
"Mindfulness" is about being in the moment. It's letting go of our "internal chatter" or thoughts and paying close attention to the present experience. It's being in the "now." From a Type perspective it's using Extroverted Sensing - experiencing the world using the five senses. If Extroverted Sensing is not a conscious type preference, mindfulness may be more challenging. Example: Extroverted Sensing is the third most natural function for the ENFJ type code. A person with an ENFJ type preference may have to control the dominant and auxiliaries preferences of Extroverted Feeling and Introverted Intuition that prefer to create rapport and harmony with the individual through possibly non-listening actions or internally connect concepts, create ideas and generate insight without all the hard data associated with Extroverted Sensing. Read more.....
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